Did you know this?

Question

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or
spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He
didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would
he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has
more education or a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Answer 1

Yes I did. Took some years to get there though. Very well said girly. This should be made into a manual and handed out in junior high.

Answer 2

"Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need"

A woman needs only one thing from a relationship, To love him.

A woman will forgive and forget about all other "everything"

The best advice you can give is that a woman should be careful not to give her love to a man that will take advantage of it because the beginning is the only time she can make that choice.

That being said, no man that truly LOVES a woman could take advantage of it.

add to this advice that if a man treats you badly the reality is that he does not love you.

but if she loves him, It will not matter.

Answer 3

I read the first few paragraphs, if you switch the situation , females are twice that.

Answer 4

Its one thing to know all this its another thing to actually live by it. Sometimes it is hard...

Answer 5

You go girl

Answer 6

Wow, that's deep! I knew some of it, but not all of it! Thanks for showing me that! I'll remember that when I meet someone someday!

Answer 7

thats deep.... tru very tru... UR M-AZING DR KAT! you should teach the world u amazig person you!! go spead taht! spread itb around the world!!

btw thanks for the points

your so cool

Answer 8

that was on my thanksgiven card



my wife give me that. What do that mean?

Answer 9

thats deep

Answer 10

WOW! Where did that come from?

I agree!