Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

Okay, here is the situation. I met a guy and he made me an indecent proposal. He is into BDSM and requested that I be his mistress, but I was free to see other men if I chose to. Everything started off great. He supported me financially, took care of me and my daughter and even offered to take a "fantasy" vacation for 3 (me, him and my partner of choice) to the islands for a weekend of fun. Now two months into the relationship he has stopped calling, won't return phone calls, and is longer making financial contributions. What gives? Was this relationship too good to be true?
We even discussed future plans to get married, have more children, and move in together. I think he got intimidated by me... what do you think?

2006-11-28 08:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship with a guy for the past 8 years. We have 2 children and are trying to make things work. The guy I am with now has really hurt me a lot in the past. He was hooked on drugs and liked to go out partying. The last 2 months he has been good but I can't trust him and not "in-love" with him anymore. Somethimes I wish I would have left him when I had a chance to. Should I try to forget my crush (believe me I've tried) and work it out with my guy? or try and break it off with my guy, which I believe we'll never be in that "lovey-dovey" place again and learn more about my "crush"?

2006-11-28 08:55:40 · 8 answers · asked by dazed&confused81 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to locate an old friend named Carrie Hildreth. When I knew her in the mid-90s, she was living in Richmond, VA. She would now be about 29 years old. Her daugher Chelsey sould be about 12 years old. If you know her, please contact me.

2006-11-28 08:54:59 · 2 answers · asked by ShawnFromNYC 1 in Friends

I meet this guy at work .. from the begining i believe we liked each other we talk ... and he would come back to my office about 3 times a day .. we exchnaged phone number and everything was good... he told me he was single .. but everytime i try calling him at night or on the weekend he never picks up his cell phone nor will he return my text messages .. he will only return my calls and text messages during the week and before 5:00 pm... ladies do you think he is married and he is just lying to me ?

2006-11-28 08:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by lonely girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Couples, honestly are these questions you have asked each other before you got married?
Religion, Finances, Compatability when obstacles come, Furthering Education or profession during marriage, how you will raise your children, your likes and dislikes? Please be honest in answering this. Is there any I left out?

2006-11-28 08:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

My husband gave me a real, good lecture about me putting up continious questions about domestic discipline. I am to say I am sorry to those of you I have offended. That is my husband that responded to my question. He came under the "Carla's Husband" I.D. Anyway, I am sorry for offending people. I am permitted to still use this site, but I am NOT to ask anymore questions about domestic discipline. It is over that is for sure. Is this what everyone wanted?

2006-11-28 08:54:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there is this guy that i REALLY like at school and my friends all kno that i like him and they say taht they think he likes me too but i dunno they could jus be saying taht or sumthin. he is really shy so evn if he did liek me he wouldnt ask me out. and i dont want to ask him out b/c i dont kno if he likes me like taht or not and i dont wanna ruin our friendship. he is like totaly perfect! adorable, sweet, nice, funny, and totaly awesome....what should i do?? i REALLY like him.

2006-11-28 08:54:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 08:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 08:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by minstrel 1 in Singles & Dating

i love meeting hot girls over the internet.

2006-11-28 08:53:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For my nan's birthday I told her we were going to get a family portrait done. We all got into the car and drove fast past a speed camera, I wanted nan to be pictured really well, so we made her stick her head out of the sunroof in time for the flash.

Unfortunately nan died that day, and now I have seen the portrait of my car sent by the police, the look on nans face made me feel like she wasn't really enjoying her birthday present.

I feel so bad about it, I am not sure I even want to pay the £30 fine!

2006-11-28 08:53:32 · 11 answers · asked by marliboco 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 08:53:15 · 34 answers · asked by larryjr3333 2 in Friends

i think this guy that i know likes me. but i'm not too sure. i like him a lot. and he is always staring at me and when i look at him he just smiles and keeps on looking at me and sometimes he just turns and looks away at something. so i got one of my friends to ask him who he liked. so she was like so me and catherine were wondering who you like. and he said catherine should know. whats that suppose to mean? does he like me too?

2006-11-28 08:53:12 · 13 answers · asked by Catherine 14 2 in Singles & Dating

I have dark hair and pale skin, most of bridesmaids are blond.

2006-11-28 08:53:02 · 20 answers · asked by lisa h 4 in Weddings

2006-11-28 08:52:51 · 4 answers · asked by larryjr3333 2 in Friends

and cos you enjoyed the night so much you wish you could meet the same partner you had in the one night stand again?

2006-11-28 08:51:50 · 17 answers · asked by alpha.female 3 in Singles & Dating

This boy and I use to go out, but now we're just good friends. We are going to a dance together just as friends. I was going to tell him I felt when we went, but now he has a girlfriend. We're still going together though. Should I still tell him how I feel. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but if he did like me back I'd feel bad for is gf. What should i do? Tell him or keep it my little secret?

2006-11-28 08:51:42 · 8 answers · asked by crazydevildream 1 in Friends

Ok, I need serious ideas only. I really don't want to hear about your morals or mine either.
I am going in for surgery in a few weeks. I will not be able to have sex for several weeks afterwards.
I am planning on setting my husband up with different women that we know while I am out of comission. (We do have a open marriage)
I need other kinky ideas on things to do to him.
We both are really careful to practice safe sex so please nothing that will be unsafe.

2006-11-28 08:51:06 · 23 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What extra steps if any are nessecary when filing for divorce when the other spouce lives in a seperate state?

2006-11-28 08:51:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 08:51:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well ummm i got hooked up with this boy a couple days ago and he's acting mighty horny.every second were alone he wants to have sex.but i dont wanna have it yet.im trying to hold on.so today he told me that if i really loved him and "wanted to be his lady real bad" i wuld give it up.and today i just couldnt focus on my work at all....it just kept popping up in my mind.im lost seriously an i dont know if im "ready" to be his woman like "that".i dont want to be in a physical relationship yet...so if you could give positive answers...

2006-11-28 08:50:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend says guys hate it when a girl walks around with her toned body in a sports bra and short shorts after gymnastics practice. She wants me to try it and actually pay attention to what they say. She says guys think it's degrading when we have to run two miles on the track aroung the basketball gym and me and my other friend wear our shorts and a sports bra.
Would you like for the girl you like to run above you while you play b-ball and give you a hug after, dressed like this??
We don't mind guys checking us out, cuz we will walk somewhere and we rate every guys we see. We just want to know if our friend is right!!
What kinda comments r we gonna get??
How will guys react??
What sort of reaction should we expect??
Is it a turn-on or turn-off for you??
Do you think the guys are gonna mind running next to us?? Are they gonna think it's degrading??
What kind of things are guys gonna say?? Do??
Why do guys hate this??

2006-11-28 08:49:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husband knew that I found out he had been cheating on me, he kept avoiding me just in case a volcano erupts. I approached him calmly on a few occasions but would not communicate and indicatted he did not want counselling because, there was nothing wrong with him yet, he was treating me like dirt while dating and chatting women he got acquanteed with on the internet while I was in his presence!!. I asked him how could he do this in front of me when he knew I loved him so much for all those years we were married.

2006-11-28 08:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by BFCP 3 in Marriage & Divorce

think this is too much to even tackle..should i just be a friend that listens and gives no advice?

2006-11-28 08:49:35 · 26 answers · asked by truthgrl 2 in Friends

I found out my husband of 10 years has been doing this since he was 14 and since he was 29 on the computer.

He swears that it has nothing to do with me and that he has always loved me. He told himself that what he was doing wasn't wrong because there was no touching.

We discussed cyber sex before we were married and agreed it was wrong and he still did it.

For those of you that have an addiction problem (and yes, the therapist he is seeing has confirmed that), did you stop loving your wife along the way? Did you ever love her? Do you still love her now?

I know it's all very personal but I'm trying to come to grips with this. He is terrified I'm going to leave and I'm terrified about staying.

I know that I didn't cause this and I can't control or cure it but I need to know if he is telling the truth about loving me the whole time....and since he's lied to me for 10 years, I'm just not at the point of believing him yet!!! LOL :)

Any thoughts would be appreciated!! :)

2006-11-28 08:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 08:49:27 · 10 answers · asked by store_sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont understand. I did not cheat when I was pregnant?

2006-11-28 08:49:20 · 35 answers · asked by dirtylova 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 08:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by bubblegumsoda 1 in Singles & Dating

If your doing something you know is killing someone else why do you continue to do it? Especielly when you claim to love this person dearly...

2006-11-28 08:48:33 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs.Me 2 in Singles & Dating

she looks at my paper, lies and get's away with it. She keeps on lieing and cheating and stealing.

2006-11-28 08:48:23 · 8 answers · asked by meatarmydog 1 in Friends