Ok, I need serious ideas only. I really don't want to hear about your morals or mine either.
I am going in for surgery in a few weeks. I will not be able to have sex for several weeks afterwards.
I am planning on setting my husband up with different women that we know while I am out of comission. (We do have a open marriage)
I need other kinky ideas on things to do to him.
We both are really careful to practice safe sex so please nothing that will be unsafe.
2006-11-28 08:51:06 · 23 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on what resources you have avaliable to you. Off the top of my head, things you could try...
Try setting up a "harem" for him. Get two or three girls, buy them belly dancer costumes, and arrange the bed with lots of pillows, turn the heat up in the room to about 78 or 80, so that everyone will be comfortable wearing as little as possible. Since you're not going to be "involved" so to speak, you play the harem administrator, preparing the girls for his arrival, asking if they meet his approval, and in charge of making sure the girls stay in line and are well pleasing to the master of the house.
--or--
You could have the girl you choose for him waiting for him in the bedroom without him knowing. Then you could tease him harshly all night... deep bedroom kisses, tickling him, get him all worked up, and any time he starts to respond just say, "No, remember my surgery..." Finally when he looks like he can't take any more, act like you're mad and send him to his room... where he finds...
--or--
Blind fold him, and then you and the girl you pick out make out with him, strip him, and... well, you get it... then she leaves and he never knows who she is.
That's just off the top of my head. Need more ideas, email me and I'll see what else I can come up with.
2006-11-28 09:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK-and having an open marriage is safe--are you kidding me??? Why are you even going to bother "setting"him up if he can just go and find his own a s s while you are "out of comission"???
2006-11-28 08:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Allie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a pretty open marriage i would say. Even tho you cannot physically have sex with your husband, I would not suggest to have another woman involved. I think that "sex" can be developped in so many ways. You have a mouth, and hands... let the imagination work. But please, don't get another woman.
2006-11-28 08:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by ●♥ Mαmα ♥● 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok...I am more open minded than the Grand Canyon.......I can accept almost anyone's ideas even though I don't apply them to myself.....I know someone that had an "open marriage" and they too, seemed ok with it.....all I can say is I wouldn't do anything behind his back.....go with his ideas, not yours....and yes, by all means practice safe sex...there's enough diseases in this world already.....I tell you though, if a woman even looked at my hubby in the wrong way she would go down......but then again, I am a very jealous woman over my hubby too...and he likewise is with me, also....even though I don't understand an open marriage.....good luck with yours and have fun?
2006-11-28 09:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-13 16:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about first he has them separately and later in the week the come over two or three at a time. Depending on his level kink he could slave boy for the group.
2006-11-28 08:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry, but that is the shittiest idea that I have ever heard! DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SET YOUR HUSBAND UP WITH OTHER WOMEN!!! If you aren't going to be serious with your relationship, than you shouldn't even be married!
2006-11-28 08:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hey, if you can't participate at least you can be there watching right?!?! God the excitement will turn you and he on for months ( possibly for years!) to come...
Good luck!
2006-11-28 08:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by smilingblonde1961 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah wow... I can't beleive you would allow this!! Lucky man I suppose... but deep down are you sure that you want to do this!!
2006-11-28 08:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What kind of loser are you married to that he needs you to set up these sexual encounters? He must have a big...bank account for you to stay with him.
2006-11-28 08:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by larry r 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋