2006-11-28 08:51:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its hard to talk to Adam cause im shy and my face turns red when ever im by him.
2006-11-28 08:56:03 · update #1
if you're too shy, eye contact and smiling are really helpful. he'll eventually talk to you if hes interested. and if he doesnt, there are other boys out there. :]
2006-11-28 08:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by _heartbreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is a curse. I know, I used to be that way myself. Believe it or not, you can actually re-invent yourself as a confident person. Cary Grand (you may need to look him up if you're under 25) was actually an extremely shy person until he decided to teach himself to be more confident. Look at this as an opportunity to improve yourself. Once you work up the courage, here is exactly what you should say to this Adam guy:
"May I ask you a personal question?"
He will most likely say yes.
"Do you find me attractive?"
He will also most likely say yes, and if he says no, then he's not worth your time anyway.
"Are you currently seeing anybody?"
If he says no, then you say, "Why don't you ask me out on a date?"
I know this may seem lame, but it's the same approch I use with women, and it works almost ever time. Confident, winning people view the world differently than losers. Even your failures bring you one step closer to success. Let me explain...
Relatinships are numbers games. If 40% of the people you ask out are interested in you, then that means that every person who isn't intersted in you is one of the inevitable 60% you have to get out of the way before you can move on to the one's who like you.
I don't even know you, maybe you're one of the lucky few to whom 90% will be attracted to. In any case, I I can make a few deductions about you based on what I do know. The fact that you've posted this question means that you have already taken the first step towards becoming a better you. Now the next step is to dare to believe in yourself and view your failures as the foundations of your inevitable success. Good luck.
2006-11-28 17:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by godofsparta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and in a cute and shy way say hi, adam
2006-11-28 16:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to talk to him there is not really much u can do. And i would avoid the third party thing its a little immature depending on how old u are.
2006-11-28 16:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take it step by step first say i to adam and keep on doing that and then start bring up subjects he likes or he likes to talk about and try becomin good friends with him and when you guys sre tight maybe somethin good will happen you never know
2006-11-28 16:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by shortie like mine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath, and go talk to him. Talk about anything and if you freeze up, don't worry, he might find it cute when you try to say "hi" but alls you do is studder.
2006-11-28 16:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax he is just a guy like all the rest and i know that some times nerves get to you but you have to understand that all they are doing is getting in the way of what you want. im guessing that you want to go out with him. well if one of your friends knows him have her introduce you or maybe take a deep breath and introduce yourself.
-please answer my question, im forgottendream49
2006-11-28 16:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by forgottendream49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and take your time. Smile at him and wave or something. Look interested, but whatever you do, don't try too hard! 99.9% of guys have huge egos!
2006-11-28 16:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Hi Adam."
EDIT: "If you do the same thing every day, don't expect anything different." -- Heed these words
2006-11-28 16:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by lib t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be easier to talk to him if he had a different name?
2006-11-28 16:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by starmoon464 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋