Okay, here is the situation. I met a guy and he made me an indecent proposal. He is into BDSM and requested that I be his mistress, but I was free to see other men if I chose to. Everything started off great. He supported me financially, took care of me and my daughter and even offered to take a "fantasy" vacation for 3 (me, him and my partner of choice) to the islands for a weekend of fun. Now two months into the relationship he has stopped calling, won't return phone calls, and is longer making financial contributions. What gives? Was this relationship too good to be true?
We even discussed future plans to get married, have more children, and move in together. I think he got intimidated by me... what do you think?
2006-11-28 08:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He brought up all the details to this relationship... the trip, the marriage, the children...
All I ever did was treat him like he asked to be treatd ...a submissive male. I loved our relationship. It was simple and there was no stress of not having what I desired in a relationship. If he didn't provide what I wanted I was free to seek other companionship. We had a one-sided open relationship... at his request.
This is not sick, just different. There is an entire community of people who deal in dominant/submissive relationships.
2006-11-28 09:07:02 · update #1
You're an Aries woman so I can understand your drive to want what you want when you want it (I'm engaged to an Aries man)...he only knew me for an hour before he was professing how much he wanted to spend his life with me. Nothing wrong with that!!>>> On the other hand.... that guy seems really wierd and i'd believe a few things may have happened...
1) he says that to a lot of people 2. He has a big heart and loves to share (if you know what i mean?) 3. He found someone more interesting (no woman likes to hear that but it's true 4. You made it to easy.....
I hate tug of war and the feeling of being neglected and left out on a limb is such a terrible feeling ( i know it all to well) but hey look at the bright side he moved out the way so you could get by and get on with life. The unanswered questions are the questions that hurt the most...and if they don't hurt, they sure can work your nerves.. hope this helped.
If he's into that tuff love then maybe you just need to curse his *** out and tell him you're going to give him a spanking... that could work
2006-11-28 09:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jontue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BDSM is a lifestyle for most people so maybe he wanted you to act out the role more often. Instead of calling him and being all nice about it, why don't you call and leave a message demanding that he call you at once, tell him that if he doesn't then he's going to get a terrible beating. I'm being serious here. If that is the lifestyle that he leads then he might being trying to find someone that will do a better job so you have to one up on it. In that kind of a relationship, you don't ask him to do you any favors, you tell him to do whatever it is that you want. If you are his mistress then it is his job to please you in any way that he can. Use the power that he has given you.
2006-11-28 09:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to fall under the header of too good.....
It could be he was intimidated by tall the plans and you. It would have been a roller coaster for him too and going within 2 months from being a toy to being a husband will scare a _lot_ of guys.
2006-11-28 10:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Don't look too close! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months and you're already talking bout kids and marriage! I'd stop the relationship too. You scared off your sugar daddy. Just try and move on.
2006-11-28 09:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0.5 -real !!! you may fall in love yet to stay in love is relatively particular. there is one 2d in existence once you're with somebody. And experience like the international has stopped and your existence seems suited, be certain you in no way lose that individual ...... is this true love ?????
2016-10-13 07:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding would you really want a relationship with him he sounds a bit sick in the head to me
2006-11-28 08:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by neesatutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
and probably found someone else to spoil
2006-11-28 08:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say..if its seems to good to be true...it probably is...
2006-11-28 08:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want your number...
2006-11-28 08:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Males was, are and will be always.
Selfish.......Selfish.........Selfish........Selfish.......Selfish........
Regards,
Dharmesh.(Male)
2006-11-30 03:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by dharmesh_sun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋