I meet this guy at work .. from the begining i believe we liked each other we talk ... and he would come back to my office about 3 times a day .. we exchnaged phone number and everything was good... he told me he was single .. but everytime i try calling him at night or on the weekend he never picks up his cell phone nor will he return my text messages .. he will only return my calls and text messages during the week and before 5:00 pm... ladies do you think he is married and he is just lying to me ?
2006-11-28 08:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by lonely girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very Married... or living with someone! Take the red Flag and run the other direction. Those are the signs of a man that is involved in a relationship.
2006-11-28 08:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him why he doesn't answer his phone on evenings or weekends? Can you find out from someone in HR if he's married?
Ask him about the timing, if you haven't already...but be careful regardless...getting involved with a coworker can make things VERY awkward at work (whether he's single or not).
2006-11-28 16:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It def. sounds like it. Try not to get too serious, i had the same situation trust me it aint worth it. Maybe try asking him out on the weekend to a movie or somthing, make sure its past 5 and see how he reacts. Good Luck!
2006-11-28 16:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a smart girl... he could be, the only way to find that out would be to spy on him- but then how much is he worth if there is no trust... drop him and go after another because my guess would be that he is not worth the effort...
2006-11-28 17:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont know why but hes avoiding you so best to back off...the guys should do the calling in the beginning
2006-11-28 17:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it all figured out girl...definitely married. Good job! Walk away if you want to keep your job
2006-11-28 16:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. well he definitly has other people he 's talking to after work and on weekends that arent u. this sounds very shady and definitly not worth your time.
2006-11-28 16:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by MaryLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either married, has a gf or lives with someone. So did he expect to only date you at work ?....lol....men suck.
2006-11-28 17:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling and texting him. He's just not that into you!
2006-11-28 16:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either a liar, or an inconsiderate jerk! Either way he sure seems like a real A**hole.
2006-11-28 16:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋