This boy and I use to go out, but now we're just good friends. We are going to a dance together just as friends. I was going to tell him I felt when we went, but now he has a girlfriend. We're still going together though. Should I still tell him how I feel. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but if he did like me back I'd feel bad for is gf. What should i do? Tell him or keep it my little secret?
2006-11-28 08:51:42 · 8 answers · asked by crazydevildream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I liked him before he started going out with this girl. He's not bringing her to the dance because tickets aren't on sale anymore. I told him she could have my ticket, but he insists we still go together.
2006-11-28 09:04:19 · update #1
yes you should he may not love u back but he might be happy to hear how u feel sometimes relationships between friends grow when u tell them how u really feel about them even if they are not available so tell him but after the dance
2006-11-28 08:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Gossip Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should never open up something new when he has not closed the on something else. You should express how you feel and let him make the decision. If he decides to stay with his new girlfriend then you do not have to sing your should of, could of, would of. If you are honest with him he should not be upset if you approach it in the correct way. (If you would like to know that email me) However, you should not be concerned about the girlfriend because it is not your fault that he brought her into unfinished business. Good Luck!
2006-11-28 16:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by jman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isnt the gf going to care if he goes to the dance with you?Doesnt he care what she thinks?If he is interested in you like a gf,,he will let you know,,be patient.Just be friendly & smile.
2006-11-28 16:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him, girlfriends dosen't mean marriage, you still have a chance, but,,, did you feel this way before you knew he had a gf? Need more info on this
2006-11-28 16:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what actually kills a friendship in high school is been shy and pride,but beware if u tell him his gf and u are going to probaly have a big fight
2006-11-28 16:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if you are prepared for rejection. Dont tell him if you want to remain friends afterwords.
2006-11-28 16:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r meant to b together no one can stand the way so let nature trun it's course.
2006-11-28 16:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a bit and see what happens.
2006-11-28 16:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋