A guy that I was seeing for over a year, just moved for a job (Sept 10) I called him like the 18th. Then I emailed him (Oct12)telling him how I felt about our situation, even inviting to go on vacation with my family next spring. Basically cleared up some things he asked before he left. He emailed me back 2 days later, telling me it was nice to hear from me, and that he'd like to go with us(my parents & I)sometime when we go. I emailed him again (Oct31) a fun email. But the next one I sent (Nov20) I talked about a problem I had w/ an addiction to diet pills but overcame it (he has an addiction to tobacco chew) but he's always wanted to stop, and I thought I would tell him about my situation so he could trust me. Was it too soon for me to let him know, since he left (Sept10) almost 3 months ago? I'm going to step back for awhile though, before I contact him again. But was that ok (timeline wise)?
2006-11-28 09:21:28 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant was it too soon for me to tell him about my problem?
2006-11-28 09:29:49 · update #1
No, if you were seeing each other for over a year, then you should be able to talk to each other about almost anything. If he acts weird now, then yes, you may want to either step back or explain to him why you told him that.
Good Luck!
2006-11-28 09:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were only seeing him for a year? This is the same situation a girl I worked with went through. She was "seeing" this guy that she really liked for a over a year and it went no where no matter how close she tried getting to him. She would always be the one to contact him.... always running after him and stuff like that. She looked pretty desperate. If the guy doesn't wanna commit after a few months.... he never will. If I were u... I would just forget about the guy completely. Or at least back off until he contacts u. If he doesn't try getting a hold of u then u'll know for sure.
2006-11-28 09:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worrying too much. You've known him for over a year already. Just act how you would normally act if he was living in the same area as you.
2006-11-28 09:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Conscious-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon?
No.
But since you did invite him, you best talk with your parents and tell them whats going on...they don't need any weird things happening on the trip.
And you have the right to un-invite him, too.
2006-11-28 09:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u would evenutally see if he someone u can confide in...and lean on at a time of need by his respond to your email...
Don't fret you did the right thing
2006-11-28 09:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is fine..what is more importnat is that you are comfortable with when you told him. If you are then that is all that matters. It sounds like you two are building a bond and with that comes lifes experiences if he really cares about you it won't matter.
2006-11-28 09:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt worry honesty is the best, and it shows him that your comfortable enough to open up to him. He has to respect that!
2006-11-28 09:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you guys were together for a year???
2006-11-28 09:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋