my bf keeps pestering me for a three some wot should i do?

Answer 1

Tell him YES, but only if it's with another guy. He'll shut up really quick.

Answer 2

Threesomes seldom work outside of a rock sold emotionally stable relationship - they're not a remedy or cure for a problem. Besides, it should be up to you AND him to decide what goes on in your bedroom; a great deal of trust must be bestowed upon they who is involved in said romp...

If your boyfriend is trying to patch some crack with a threesome then he would be patching it with water. Moreover, if you don't want to have sex with someone then no means no and your boyfriend should know that. Try approaching him calmly on a good day and have a civilised talk with him about why he wants to have a threesome, who would be the third person, and where you stand. Maybe you'll change your mind, or maybe you'll leave it 'til another time.

Answer 3

Well, I'm a guy...so, of course I'd be all for it. On the flip side of things, you should be open to new experiences. If you're not ready, tell him about it, but don't entirely rule out the idea...you might like it. Watch some pornography with him (Most of it has threesomes) and mentally prepare yourself for it. If you just tell him no and keep it at that, you may wonder about it 10-15 years down the road. Coulda, shoulda, woulda sort of thing

Answer 4

Tell him only if you get to pick the other guy LOL. J/K if you don't want to do it then don't. Sit him down and make it very clear that this is something you do NOT want to do. If he still keeps pestering you then maybe he doesn't really care about you.

Answer 5

Tell Him The Truth On How You Feel About The Situation.

Answer 6

If he gets to choose another chick then he just pulling himself but if you get to choose another bloke then he'll probably say that he's been pulling your leg. In either case the sanctity of a meaningful relationship, which presumably you want, is under threat and I would seriously consider terminating it. However, if you want to continue, suggest to him that you both wait till you are ol' swinging fuddy-duddies. By that time you should already have dumped him.

Answer 7

It means that you don't satisfy him sexually and he doesn't quite have the heart to cheat. So this is the brilliant solution he's come up with.

Do you want to be with someone so selfish? Especially when you can be with someone who isn't?

Do you want to be with someone who is only gonna pressure you when he doesn't get his way? If he talks you into this what other things are next? Anal? S and M?

Leave now and find someone who truly recognizes pressure has no place in a healthy happy relationship.

Answer 8

Have you told him that he is an *sshole yet. Has it crossed your mind that he may think that your not good enough in bed, and that if he were to just have sex with this other person that it would be cheating, therefore he wants to have sex with another girl with you there so that you can't say that he was cheating on you. another words, I would dump his *ss just for asking. If you were both single, and 3 people were out drinking, and it came up, thats all and good.

Answer 9

If you don't want to have a three some, stand your ground and keep saying no. If he persists, tell him that if he doesn't stop you no longer want to be with him. But stand your ground if that's not what you're into. Giving into it could cause you harm and you just might regret it later.

Answer 10

If he wants 2 females, then tell him to do 2 men first. That way you will get all of the attention and he will have to be fair. Good luck and have fun baby!

Answer 11

That's what (not wot) and you should do whatever you desire to do. Don't be pressured into ever doing anything sexual that you don't truly have interest in.

If you want to do this, go for it...if you are unsure, then give it more time to think about...if you really just aren't interested, then Just Say No.