Are guys too shy?

Question

I like two guys .one is sooo shy... he has never talked to me before except when we had to be partners in gym class. He constantly stares at me in lunch. another guy i like is more open with me. he is soooo wild/hyper/troublemaker on the bus. he knows that i like him (i think b cause my older brother most likely told him) why wont these guys ask me out?

Answer 1

Because the shy one is too shy and afraid of rejection, and the hyper one is also afraid of that, and possibly any kind of commitment,

Ask one out for yourself

Answer 2

For the shy guy, fear of rejection and/or lack of self-confidence. The wild one, he's not interested.
I can almost guarantee that the shy one is much more likely to make you happy. You just have to get him in a comfortable situation. It may take you asking him out first. But over the course of a relationship he'll be more understanding, more giving, and more fun with much less heartbreak.

Answer 3

Yes i totally agree with you. They are soooo shy. I wish that I was so pretty that whoever I asked out would say yes. It would be amazing. I wish all the guys were all over me.

too bad... i'm too shy. oh well. i suck.

Answer 4

yes they are too shy, they are afraid that the girl wont be interested, not thinking positively and not sure about themselves enough to do such a thing as asking a girl out


common problem, i even have it

millions do

good luck

Answer 5

These guys won't ask you out because they are afraid of being turned down. A guy's ego is one of the most important things to him. If that is shattered, then all that will be left will be sadness and lonesomeness. Instead of them asking you out, why don't you ask them out?

Answer 6

becuase one is more shy then the other one why dont you go for the one thats soooo shy girls never go for the shy ones

Answer 7

YES