Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

2006-11-27 06:42:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband never does anything around the house without me asking him to do it. All he wants to do is sit around and play video games or play on the computer, oh he also likes to lay on the couch all day watching movies. And any time he does to something he says things like" yes'm" or "yes Master" like I'm some sort of slave driver. It really pisses me off. He can just lay there while the house looks like a pig sty, it doesn't bother him. And when ever I ask him to please do something nicely he says "ok I'll do it in just a minute." it never gets done, and finally after asking him nicely for about a week straight, I get pissed off and start yelling at him to do it. Then stuff gets done. Then he wants to say that I'm being a nag. But he forces me to yell at him cause thats the only time he'll move. Then he'll take 3 hrs to do something that only takes 30mins. What should I do about this issue with my man?? By the way yes I am angry!

2006-11-27 06:42:09 · 19 answers · asked by laviniablue 1 in Singles & Dating

After 25 years she cheated and really never gave him up during our therapy sessions..always one lie after another, she was deflecting saying that she didn't like the way I would react after each lie...she rarey had emphazie...she filed...a month ago..is it to late!..I would work to take her back...long road

2006-11-27 06:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

bc we live in separate states for the time being, we have put rules in place when we go out to bars since we aren't together. one rule is that we call or text once every few hours to make sure the other one sitting at home is doing ok. my boyfriend has had problems doing this for me and for the third time it happened the other day. i feel like he values going out and drinking more than me. i was very upset and broke up with him. does anyone have any advice? i feel like i'm questioning myself now. but, at the same time, i am having severe trust issues. this all started when my boyfriend went out one night and i couldn't get in touch with him until 11 o'clock the next afternoon. i have trust issues now which is why we put these rules in place - and again - he has chosen to ignore them. any advice?

2006-11-27 06:41:44 · 13 answers · asked by JTho 1 in Singles & Dating

As we go to work day in and day out to reach our financial goal are we neglecting our desire to be with someone. Can we find a person who can make us feel loved and revisit our dreams and passions? Are we willing to put our daily grind aside to find time for these feelings?

2006-11-27 06:41:39 · 22 answers · asked by giovanni g 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so yeah i broke up with him becuse my mom made me becuse he took me home like pass curfue and yeah now he has a new girl friend that was my friend and 5 days ago my best friend told me that he misses me and he cant take the fact that he sees me at partys and that its hard for him and the only reason we cant be together is because of my mom and we are each other first too wat should i do?

2006-11-27 06:40:58 · 10 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy and during a get together with friends we started playing a Q and A game. I was asked what the freakiest thing I like to do during sex, I said an Orgy and he got mad and dumped me. What is his problem?

2006-11-27 06:40:13 · 26 answers · asked by Welfare Mamma Drama 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a weird dream last night. My ex boyfriend and I were riding bikes and it seemed like we were still together. Does it mean I still have feelings for him?

Don't say that this is a stupid question because I know that dreams have meanings.

2006-11-27 06:39:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got too close to my female friend and I told her I had feelings for her. She decided it wud be best to remain friends.Also said:

1) "I can't imagine you not being in\a part of my life" MEANING???
2)"I don't deserve your feelings"? MEANING???

Positive or negative comments? Significant?

I then told her a few weeks later that I needed some time away from her and she DISAGREED\WAS RUDE TOWARDS ME as a result---does it mean anything???Why?

She said friends don’t take time apart from each other,that I should get a 1)“grip”, for me to 2)“sort my head out” and to stop causing this 3)“conflict”---MEANING?

My reason was that she was behaving odd towards me and I thought it best we have some time apart.Especially for me to get over my feelings.

Have said I value our friendship and I mean that.

Advice?

p.s.she don't like talking about it.

Its like she doesn't want me,but doesn't want anyone else to have me.(she gets jealous when I mention other girls)

2006-11-27 06:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 06:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by preety_roshi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...and I am not happy. I think he may feel guilty, but, should I tell him I am mad at him?

I don't want him to think I am overbearing or don't want him to go out and have fun... I want him to make his own decisions.

On the same hand, though, I feel he has disrespected me in a way. Sure, it's not technically cheating, but I have a problem with him seeing naked women dance in front of him.

We have been together over a year and this is the first time. I love him with all my heart and soul and, for me, he is the only man in the world. I only have eyes for him.

I really don't want it to happen again. Should I say anything?

2006-11-27 06:38:31 · 32 answers · asked by girl_pink 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I know the first and last name (actually, last name might be spelt differently: Beecham is right? Or is it Beacham? Or Beechum? Or what!?!!?) I also know that she went to karate club with me. I also know roughly where she lives in LONDON. I also know her mobile recently went off and never came back on. Changed mobile, maybe? I knew her as a sort of distant friend.

Any free websites, anything??
Thank you very much.

2006-11-27 06:38:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so there's this guy i met about 2 months ago and we both like each other but havent hooked up yet due to us both being busy, we dont get much chance to talk. anyway its his birthday soon and i remember the date from him telling me it when we first met, i want to send him a message to say happy birthday. do you think he will think im a bit of a freak for remembering when it is from so long ago, or do you think he'll be flattered and surprised i remembered? i want to make him feel happy getting this message but dont want him to think im some nutter!!

2006-11-27 06:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 06:37:48 · 5 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 16 months now and i can't imagine being with anyone else, i truly love him so much, he's my best friend, and i have never felt this connected/safe/myself with anyone else......can anyone relate? is it realistic? what are your opinions?

2006-11-27 06:37:38 · 8 answers · asked by Italian Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been good freinds with a guy who for a while.
I saw him a while ago and he kissed me - we spent the evening at the pub, he kissed me and we cuddled and held hands alot. Was all very nice. Spoke about it a few days later, and he said that he didn't think there could be an 'us'. I asked him to explain, and he said he just couldn't let himself think about me in that way. Fair enough, I left it at that, thought no more of it. Went out a week or so later together, went for a coffee and a walk - he kissed me again. When we spoke about it a few days later, he said he liked me, but didn't think it was the right time for us - we are both going through a hard time. I've met a new chap - and I told him that I've got a 'date' with him soon. He was a bit funny about this, so asked him what was wrong, and he admitted that it upset him. I said to him that he either wants me orhe doesn't. I then jokingly said he never answered my question about wether he fancied me or not.

2006-11-27 06:37:14 · 9 answers · asked by Beauty 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i have 2 best friends, but were all best friends witheachother and well me and one on my best friends do not like our other bestfriend man. Now he treates her like dirt all the time. So of corse we hate him. we tell her and she doesnt listen. Soo he talkes about us all the time. It sucks. Would it be right if we make her choose us or him? Its too the point where it sucks. She never really does stuff with us.

I know its not right but wat are we suppose to do??? help advice on what to do.

2006-11-27 06:36:55 · 4 answers · asked by rubikisses muuah 2 in Friends

I never noticed how much better I was treated for being nice looking until I let myself go. I stopped dressing up nice, wearing make-up and put on a little weight. People stopped noticing me, talking to me as much, and being so friendly. Guys stopped looking and I just didn't see the smiley faces I used to.

Now I've lost weight, started wearing make-up and looking better. Now people always tell me how sexy I am, beautiful, and treat me better. Not just men but women too! I get more smiling faces from passer-byers, friendly greetings, and the cops are always nice to me. It must suck to be ugly and fat because you just don't get treated the same way.

I'm thankful for what I have and realized that fixing myself up is not so shallow. If it makes your day more pleasent and makes you feel better about yourself then why the heck shouldn't you do so? I mean, why go to college or educate yourself? Isn't it all about making your life better in the end?

2006-11-27 06:36:42 · 13 answers · asked by Erica B 2 in Singles & Dating

My father is a good man at heart but very stingy with his wallet. My fiancee and I have money saved for our wedding but would appreciate any help we can get. My fiancee's parents are divorced and don't have a lot of money but my father and mother do. How do I ask him for help with the wedding when I know it will be like pulling teeth?

2006-11-27 06:36:41 · 13 answers · asked by Snuggles123 4 in Weddings

i know i need to do some work on it but is my website too big and have you got any suggestions for what else to put on it??

http://www.freewebs.com/andywhoelse/

2006-11-27 06:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am totally in love with this great guy who loves me back, the thing is last year he had to move to Texas with his parents, I still live in California but our relationship has still lasted. I miss him to death and I am applying for colleges I had decided a long time ago that I wanted to go to this college and since we have similar aspirations he wants to go to the same place. My parents are refusing to let me go away to college even though I will be paying for it myself. I want to leave, but I think they are too afraid of me leaving. I dont know how to tell them I am going away, all my friends know, but my parents dont take me seriously. I have never had a good relationship with them and when they found out that my best friend for most of my life now boyfriend who is away will be going to the same place. Since it is a great relationship they are afraid that we will elope, how can I get them to trust me?

2006-11-27 06:35:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 06:35:23 · 15 answers · asked by Stacye S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you find your relationships more exciting when you cheat? Do u have a " Maintance Man or Clean Up Woman"? You dont want to leave cause with your partner and the other person you are 100% HAPPY? Has that happen 2 u? How long can you keep this up?

2006-11-27 06:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by aflyladybug4u 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 06:34:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...I have this boyfriend n we have been together for almost 2 years now. I love him but he knows that I am into girls also but I have never actually done it at least not while ive been with him. And I have just recently met this gurl and we have been talking over the internet and shes great n I would like to meet her n further our friendship. My boyfriend has never had a problem with my curiousity until now. He tells me that he never new that I was actually serious, but why would I play around like that. I want to do this for a reason becuz i want to figure out what i really want in my life and I thought he would be supportive but hes not! He thinks that I am going to fall in love with this girl n thats not the case. I like girls but I wouldnt date a girl.I want to marry a man n have kids n etc but I need to figure my sexuality out. But its like he doesnt accept it but if he wants to b with me 4va den ima end up neva doin it cuz he dont accept it or like it and i cant do that...

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2 days ago
Im really confused about what i should do! I want to b supported not put down about the way I am or how I wanna be. I have tried to control these urges but I feel like this feeling is uncontrollable! I mean I dont think every girl is see is sexy or nething u no? I want to be normal so bad but it just seems not to work everytime I try. None of my friends know that I am bisexual but I told my boyfriend out of all ppl becuz I thought I would be able to trust him n he wuld understand but he doesnt understand and now i feel like i cant trust to tell him anything about the way i feel. I really really need to figure my self out but he will not allow me to experiment n spread while I am with him and its not like I want my cake n to eat it too. Its just I dont want to break up n talk to her for it just to b a phase or to stay with him n have it fall apart...

2 days ago
And im not sick n im not retarded. I have had these feelings for a long time now and I have finally found someone that can relate to me and has gone thru the same things I am now. She is just another person to talk to about the way I feel. I need to do this but he makes it so hard becuz he doesnt like it. I mean he likes it but he doesnt want me to turn complete lesbian like leave him for another chick and fall out of love with him n in love with a girl u no but i wont do that i just basically want to fulfill my desires n get rid of my curiousity.

2006-11-27 06:33:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I was praying I asked for a good guy..
Well..the next morning when I first got to church I saw this guy whom I haven't seen since July. He saw me too and kept looking over my way a couple times.

Is that a coincidence, or maybe not?

2006-11-27 06:33:28 · 13 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my best friend(guy) kissed me and i am a female just so u kno.and well this is what happened.i told this guy my feelings at least 3 times since we have been friends and we have been friends for 2 years.he is the only one that knows everything about me and me him.and well everytime i had said my feelings he is like i only see u as a friend and that was fine with me.and well the other night we are sittin there talkin and i was like gah why i am so ugly and stuff and he puts his arm around me like he always does just playin and stuff and then he leans his head like he is going into my lap and i turn my head and he kisses me and that kiss lasted 4 a long time.it was the best kiss i had ever had and then i stopped i was like whats going on here and he said idk ive been thinkin about this 4 months and i was like r u serious and he said yea.well long story short he (fingered me) and stuff and we made out and then he avoids me for 2 days and says he was not himself and it shouldnt of happen

2006-11-27 06:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for 8yrs, married for 5 of that. i thought everything was going good, when we went out one night and had a few beers together and then decide to go home early. we get home and he tries to pick a fight with me and then decides to leave. i decide to follow him cause he has been acting weird. I find him pulling up to some girls house and goes in. I go to knock on the door and she answers the door and says he's not there, when his truck is parked in front. well i leave and he stays there all night. he comes home the next afternoon, and we talk and he says that he didn't do anything wrong and that he never touch the other woman. should i believe that??

2006-11-27 06:33:20 · 13 answers · asked by MEL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband supposedly only has two more years to live. he hates it when i talk about it or show any emotion... but i look at him and my heart breaks that we are so young (19) and this is happening! i just want a way to fix it, but i can't..... how can i hide all the emotion and not think about it so he doesn't have to either? how do i say goodbye to him when the time comes?

2006-11-27 06:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by heaven-sin-t 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 06:32:06 · 11 answers · asked by marie 4 in Singles & Dating