Ok my best friend(guy) kissed me and i am a female just so u kno.and well this is what happened.i told this guy my feelings at least 3 times since we have been friends and we have been friends for 2 years.he is the only one that knows everything about me and me him.and well everytime i had said my feelings he is like i only see u as a friend and that was fine with me.and well the other night we are sittin there talkin and i was like gah why i am so ugly and stuff and he puts his arm around me like he always does just playin and stuff and then he leans his head like he is going into my lap and i turn my head and he kisses me and that kiss lasted 4 a long time.it was the best kiss i had ever had and then i stopped i was like whats going on here and he said idk ive been thinkin about this 4 months and i was like r u serious and he said yea.well long story short he (fingered me) and stuff and we made out and then he avoids me for 2 days and says he was not himself and it shouldnt of happen
2006-11-27 06:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he is like i wont kiss anyone again until i have a girlfriend... no offense.. and then i was like ok thats cool.. and also while all this was happening he is like i cant date u.im sorry.. and i was like thats fine i dont want a boyfriend anyway.. why did he do all this and then say that... im so confused.
ANd we are both 18 by the way
2006-11-27 06:34:22 · update #1
So im guessing by him sayin sorry that he wasnt missing anything.. but he is my best friend and has been for 2 years and he wouldnt use me and he honestly isnt like other guys but idk. im lost
2006-11-27 06:41:12 · update #2
for women casual sex is hard to get used to and accept as part of life, also to enjoy it and realize its going to happen anyways and eventually that its not that bad it takes awhile for some anyways it just happened probly because as friends there are a lot of qualities beetween the two of you you generally have with boyfriend and girlfriends and after he thought about it and told you the truth you cant down that respect it and appreciate it that he didnt use you a few more times before telling you which to be honast about 90% of guys would have so actually he's pretty mature and he apologized because of the fact you told him your feelings and knew it was wrong since he does not feel the same for now as far as your concerned theres nothing to it unless he tells you otherwise sometimes we just want what we cant have and its a huge waste of time because there is someone out there that will care about you in an equal way and until then its called just having fun waiting, Good Luck KIMBUR
2006-11-27 06:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
appears like he crossed "the line". as quickly because this is crossed, you may't move decrease back without someone or both easily one of you being damage. Sorry to assert this, yet there is completely 2 approaches this can end: a million) You 2 can initiate relationship and observe if there is something extra there than friendship. 2) You 2 favor to end being acquaintances. tell him this. He ought to comprehend already, yet you nonetheless favor to assert it. have self belief me, there is not any way that you 2 can move decrease back to being "in simple terms acquaintances" after this. in case you do, you may advance to resent him.
2016-11-27 02:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why this "just friends" or "just good pals" or "best friends" thing between males and females is a no no... Someone always develops stronger feelings or reads more into the friendship... and in the end someone gets hurt...
2006-11-27 07:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm....is it at all possible that he actually likes guys more then girls? maybe he kissed you hoping to make you feel better and realized that he didn't quite enjoy it...idk...just a thought i guess. Good luck wiht the situation though...teenage years are hard...but they don't get any easier as you get older...(i'm 23 ) and what i wouldn't give to have a little guy problem like yours....
2006-11-27 06:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probalby confused, but it seems like it was a in the "moment" type of situation, and he was probably trying to get some or he maybe felt like he was taking advantage of you...im not to sure how to answer your question but i tried my best...hope everything works out.
2006-11-27 06:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men are butts. IF SOMETHING like that had happen to me and he didn't wont anything to do with me(girlfriend wise) just forget it and move, it was something that happened. A friend is a friend you can always make more friends, just forget him...
2006-11-27 06:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got horny. Next time shag him while you have the chance. Take advantage of him to get yours. Friends with privileges
Otherwise just never let him do it again.
2006-11-27 06:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
See, I hate it when guys do this.
He wanted to test you to see if he was missing something.
2006-11-27 06:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believed he just used u for dat moment
2006-11-27 06:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋