I was dating this guy and during a get together with friends we started playing a Q and A game. I was asked what the freakiest thing I like to do during sex, I said an Orgy and he got mad and dumped me. What is his problem?
2006-11-27 06:40:13 · 26 answers · asked by Welfare Mamma Drama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of guys do not like a woman that has had a lot of sexual partners. I think that you should forget about that guy and find yourself a new one. He obviously was not worth your time and effort.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-11-27 08:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Michael R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men being pigs and your guy dumping you over an orgy statement are entirely different things. I agree men are pigs. I should know. I've been one all of my life (man - pig whatever).
Your reply probably told him that the two of you don't share the same values. He was probably expecting finger up the bum or something. Not screw multiple people at the same time. I'm not judging.
If my gf said have sex with another woman (FMF) I would be all for it. If she said sex with another man (MFM), I would be mad too. That is just the way I am.
2006-11-27 06:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rick S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he shouldnt have asked if couldnt deal with whatever the answer was. However, if you are concerned that he dumped you...you might want to start exhibiting some self control and realize that a question like that is most probably seeking an answer that involves him and him alone. Answering with "an orgy" may have been honest but maybe the problem isnt all his.
2006-11-27 06:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are only able to get away w/being pigs because girls let them, anyways atleast in my opinion he saved you both a lot of time and energy from arguing obviously he has different taste, opinions, and values than you do so why would you want to continue that, not all people agree w/that lifestyle and consider it cheating just find someone w/the same intrests. I dont really believe its possible to have a commited loving relationship while one partner or both is participating in orgy's. I recommend changing your picture Good Luck KIMBUR
2006-11-27 06:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it probably shocked him, and a orgy, aint with just him is it.
you probably made him feel so small, and especially in front of friends!!
i reckon you humiliated him.
you could have just said like dress up as a naughty nurse and handcuff him to the bed or something!
not a bloody orgy!!
i would have dumped you an all if you said that infront of friends!
xXx - sorry i speak my mind!
2006-11-27 06:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is an extremely jealous person, put quite simply. he was playing a game that he thought would contribute to his fantasies of you being a submissive sex slave and was suddenly caught off guard by your how open you were. basically, his fantasy backfired and you ended up paying for his immaturity
2006-11-27 06:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by kid awesome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes mad cause he wasnt at this orgy!
2006-11-27 06:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
awwwwwww that sucks
Men are pigs, it comes from the Odysseus story with Cerce.
She turned his men into pigs after seeing how they behaved at the table. Try to start dating women. We are loving, caring, & not pigs.
2006-11-27 06:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Cuddly Lez 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
he is obviously afraid of sex and most of all his own sexuality
to say it is one thing
to do it is another
I might be willing to be part of one at some time in life, maybe not though. I'd want to be safe and sane.
2006-11-27 06:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
men like their lady n the streets and freaks in the bed. his pride was probably hurt and he might have been embarrassed that you said that. if he already knew of it then it shouldn't have been a problem, if he didn't know then it caught him by surprise.
2006-11-27 06:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by dancer4jchrist 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋