Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

acctually it me and my ex we were so in love but we broke up we was about to get back again but he asked me to be a friend as he doesnt wanna lose me and he want me by him side and if we came back again we might break up again and then he might lose me i agreed with being a friend but we r getting so close than ever and we r so keen on each others feeling and we really dont wanna lose each other ever
plus he once told me he imagined me couple of times before as his future wife same time he is saying he is in love with someone else and circumstances not helping to let them be together i dont know if he is feeling something towards meor he just like my personality and trust me and would this mean something in the future?

2006-11-25 09:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by Brandy Emerald 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I get boys to notice me?

2006-11-25 09:38:56 · 14 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 09:38:55 · 18 answers · asked by kendra w 2 in Singles & Dating

i was with my ex for 16months some good times some bad but i feel like i cant let go!!! this new man has a good career an seems really keen but i dnt want to hurt my exs feelings can anybody help me?????

2006-11-25 09:38:51 · 20 answers · asked by sharon h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 09:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i work at a plumbing company. she called the company requested that she needed to have someone come out to check her plumbing. i get there; she had me in the bedroom for a couple hours doing of unheard of things that not even dogs do.

by the way, my brother does have a nice bed.

When I handed her the bill, she refused to pay until i follow up tomorrow to make sure everything is working ok.

2006-11-25 09:38:46 · 3 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 09:38:18 · 5 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 09:36:32 · 17 answers · asked by Bigg K Dogg 1 in Singles & Dating

should i use soap and deodorant, or go for the natural smell????

2006-11-25 09:36:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 09:36:06 · 12 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Singles & Dating

GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP

2006-11-25 09:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyday I come on this site and see the question "Why do men cheat?".

Since both sex cheat equally , It would be only fair to ask, Why do women cheat?

Then this question and the men one should be left at the top of the list, Then we will not have to ask these stupid questions again.

2006-11-25 09:35:15 · 22 answers · asked by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

...................little girls are made of sugar and spice.............

......but is a woman's true nature....vicious and vindictive??????

2006-11-25 09:34:50 · 25 answers · asked by kennyboy 6 in Singles & Dating

I asked another question a while ago and in one of the reponses a guy talked about this. So my thought is maybe promiscuity in a person shows that they have a certain level of confidence and a feeling of freedom to express themselves with others, at least in many cases. So now are the rest of us who arn't promiscuos just not confident or are we just more introverted?

2006-11-25 09:34:42 · 20 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend loves to write me poems, and is convinced that he's a prolific poet. The things he writes are so cheesy they would make greeting cards cringe. But I love him, and I really do appreciate the gestures. Sometimes I'm just not sure if he's joking or if he seriously wants me to buy into his poetry. It's just so pastoral-lovebird-ish and overly cliched in its imagery. I can't tell if he's being sincere or if he just needs to flower things up a little to make it seem sincere. Am I being too cynical or critical?

2006-11-25 09:34:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should you date you guy friend? Yes or No

1. Do you get jealous when he hooks up with other girls?
2. Does he put down any guy you happen to bring up in conversation?
3. Have your mutual friends hinted that you'd make a grat couple?
4. Does he call, text, e-mail, or IM you at least once a day?
5. Does he make you feel attractive or refer to you as "hot" or pretty?
6. Can you imagine yourself kissing him or being his girlfriend?
Everyone that takes this test i will e-mail you on your respondes!!

2006-11-25 09:34:24 · 9 answers · asked by thinkpink4u101 2 in Singles & Dating

and foud i was for want of a better word pining for an x girlfriend of 16 years ago. never happined before. is it unusual

2006-11-25 09:34:04 · 7 answers · asked by brioduinn 3 in Friends

a guy was flirting with my gf, a few weeks ago ..since that moment on, she is very distant with me and have excluded me from her activities, she wanted to spend more time with the other guy ...she doesn't return me my calls anymore, and she was very cold and brief with me when I speak to her ..she keeps on telling me about the other guy ..and compare him to me ..after a while, she told me she feels better with that guy ..and that was the moment, I decided to leave her ...but, after that decision, she wanted to keep friendship with me, and beg me to not hate her and don't disappear from her life .... Do you think it was , what she really wanted ? she wanted me to leave her , so she can be more comfortable with the other guy ..? if she wants to stay my friend , do you think I should talk to her like a friend now and then or not ..?
I must say, since I am acting as her friend she seems pretty cool as before now ..!! what is the best strategy to apply here?

2006-11-25 09:33:21 · 11 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl say not to bother her on her away message because she is in a bad mood. I decided not to pay attention to it and ask what was wrong. I talked to her over AIM and she was really really upset and she told me what happened. This girl and I arent really friends more on the border of friends and aquaintenence. I was totally unrelated to the problem but I think that she got it out and felt better. Should I "help" her again like that or follow her away message?

2006-11-25 09:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello, Im worried about having sex (wedding night) for the first time as I heard that it hurts? What would you compare the pain too? Please be honest. If it hurts too much I may have to abstain for awhile. Im really sensitive to pain and am really worried. People say to use lubricant .. but if it hurts I wouldnt be able to go through with it...

2006-11-25 09:31:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

sexually abused.I have heard she is adopted.There was another child in the home who had died before I came to live here.I have heard screams coming from the house,the girl was shouting leave me alone,just let me die,just let me die.I heard it when I was just about to take my dogs for a walk a few months back.I stood stunned waiting for someone else to appear,but nobody did.The cries went on for what seamed ages and then stopped.I see her out playing ,she is always dressed like a boy in football attire,the father is an ardent football fan and when she talks to me,it's always about the team she supports.I've never once seen her in a dress or anything girlie.I felt guilty doing nothing before.Last night,I did'nt, but my brother heard the girls cries again.I've been told he did have another child of 4 in the bath with this girl last year.He's really strange.I dont' want to accuse wrongly.But the thought this child may be being sexually abused is unbearable,what shall I do,I could be wrong!

2006-11-25 09:30:21 · 22 answers · asked by animalwatch 3 in Singles & Dating

He felt it was pathethic! And yes he is sorry apoligizing.... what is wrong with him?

2006-11-25 09:30:02 · 19 answers · asked by msraylanda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy I like and he knows I like him. He says maybe next year and he likes another girl. I really like him. Should I wait or move on or how long should I wait? Please help me. I need nice and kind advice.

2006-11-25 09:29:46 · 12 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Singles & Dating

MY FIANCEE'S SISTER WAS MY FRIEND BUT EVERY TIME I TURN AROUND SHE IS STABBING ME IN THE BACK. I AM THE ONE SHE CALLS WHEN HER *** DO NOT HAVE ANY FOOD IN HER HOUSE, HER OWN FAMILY DON'T WANT TO BE BOTHERD WITH HER UNLESS SHE HAS SOME MONEY,OR NEEDS SOME PLACE TO STAY. BUT SHE LET IN TO THEM ,AND THE DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR HER AT ALL, I AM THE ONE SHE CALLS ON FOR HELP. BUT INSTEAD SHE TALKS ABOUT ME LIKE A DOG.

2006-11-25 09:29:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There are some people who get a kick out of being difficult, and i want to know what is the best way to deal with them?......any suggestions?.......

2006-11-25 09:28:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me please

2006-11-25 09:28:16 · 40 answers · asked by Anime Freak!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

My son n law never bought my daughter a wedding ring. She continued to call me crying about it. So I gave her an heirloom ring and asked her to keep it and wear it until her husband was able to buy her a ring of her liking. We were talking one day and she told me the ring I gave her was not really to her liking. I told her to wear it until her husband could get her a ring of her liking and give the ring I gave her to her daughter (my granddaughter) as an heirloom past down from one generation to another.

Then my daughter begins telling me that she had the ring broken down an made into a ring of her liking.

Then the truth came out. She gave the ring to her mother n law in exchange for her wedding ring.

So I asked the mother n law, son n law and my daughter to give me back the ring. They have refused to give it back.

Their lack of gratitude & lying has really hurt me. I would like to know others thoughts on how they would handle this.

2006-11-25 09:27:08 · 29 answers · asked by Shawna 2 in Weddings

My mother took me shopping after school 3 days ago, and I thought it was just for fun. She ended up spending $160 on me, plus going out to dinner, and I was thinking, what a nice thing to do since my dad refuses to spend any money on much-needed winter clothing. But afterwards, over the phone, she tells me that was supposed to me my birthday gift (my birthday is in about 5 days) She usually gives me $100 as a B-Day gift, and I wish she had told me beforehand, because I would have rather spent the money on things other than clothing. Do you think this was fair of her?

2006-11-25 09:26:39 · 22 answers · asked by CherryPie 4 in Family

i have come to u all b4 on this and i need to make sure i am doing the right thing, my bf and i have been doing alot of fighting in the past 4 wks, he has gotten into drugs again and i have tried everything i can to get him to stop and he says what i want to hear to stop the fight and then 5 days we are in the same boat, last time i sat him down screamed at him and told him he was going to lose me, he said he does not want that, i told him in order for us to make it work then he has to go to rehab and stop all the drugs and lying he says he will however i am kinda worried that he is saying it just to shut me up and will go back to it Should i give him the benefit of the doubt or just call its quits. I do love him with all my heart andhave been with him for the past 5 yrs. No kids between the 2 of us however i do have 2 kids that absolutly adore him 12 & 5 yrs old. What should i di, is it possible for people who are into drugs to actually get off and STAY off

2006-11-25 09:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by njchic1025 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean Come on
Seriously !

Your just proving the theory that women say one thing that they want a caring man and then do another thing and chase the arseholes

2006-11-25 09:24:23 · 39 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Singles & Dating