Back off from the girl, give her room, ask someone else out ............ Don't make it look like you're desperate for HER. Find something that you like to do and go at it full-bore. Act "As If" her opinion of you isn't going to stop your world from turning, then come to believe that her attention or approval isn't paramount to you having a good time ..... meaning if the girl notices that's a good thing, if not, someone else will, once they see your drive passion for something you enjoy.
People want to be around other people whose lives go on with the same passion regardless of the circumstances.
2006-11-25 09:53:21
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answered by ragpicker58 2
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What have you done so far to show her this? Why doesn't that seem to be enough to convince her? What would you have to do that would speak to her personally? That's the real question. Caring may be a subjective word. Instead of expressing your caring on your terms, find out what her definition of the word is and act accordingly.
2006-11-25 17:40:48
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answered by rtanys 6
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Sounds like you already have shown what you were
trying to show to this girl. If she is not the type of
person who appreciates you breaking your back
for her, and you know in your heart whether you
did it in sincerity - then do as the
the others have said. Just move on,
find someone who will appreciate your
sincerity and hard work. I did.
2006-11-25 17:52:51
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answered by Steve 1
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Maybe you should try something that comes from the heart. Do what my first bf did for me, make something. He got this freakishly big piece of construction paper and decotated it with glitter, cut outs, cut out little holes in the shape of an angel, and wrote me a cute little poem inside saying he'll follow me 4ever. I thought it was cute. We've been together for a year. I hope it helps!
2006-11-25 17:42:08
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answered by puppypal710 2
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Are you trying to regain her trust? It takes a loooong time to do that. Are you trying to get her attention? She is probably just not that into you. Are you a couple and she is just afraid to trust anybody? Let her talk it out. The only thing that might work is time, not gestures. Be consistently there for her. Talk to her at least once a day.
2006-11-25 17:40:41
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answered by sixgun 4
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possibly she doesnt care enough for you to keep trying, I hate to say that not knowing more details but dont make a fool out of yourself but if she doesnt trust you because of actions by you in the past and your trying to get her to see that you have changed and you really do Love her then you should keep trying basically by example I mean like just keep doing the right thing and she'll eventually see it and know you mean it, but if she is done then shes done better luck next time KIMBUR
2006-11-25 17:46:29
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answered by KIMBUR 4
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Try ignoring her. If she likes you, she can be playing hard to get. Have you ever talked to her before. Try ignoring her, not saying anything to her, and if she talks to you just make your answer as breif as possble. If she tries to ask if you want to meet after school, just tell her you have plans (regardless if you have them or not) keep her guessing. Maybe shelike the "chase" game and you are giving into her. Now try the opposite.
2006-11-25 17:43:17
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answered by chickeyis 2
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She doesn't care too much if she wants to take a break. I wouldn't bother showing her you do. It's a lost cause.
2006-11-25 18:59:11
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answered by Kami 4
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You need to slow down and move on to someone who appreciates you for you. If someone really likes you, you don't have to earn their approval, they'll just like you. And that's the kind of girl you want. You can't earn love. If you have to jump through "hoops" for her, the "hoops" will just keep getting bigger and bigger. You don't really want someone like this.
2006-11-25 17:46:57
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answered by soulguy85 6
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Try something romantic then, but if it's continuing not working, stop. She's not the right girl for you.
2006-11-25 17:40:05
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answered by popcorn 2
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