Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

What should I do?

2006-11-25 09:06:55 · 14 answers · asked by arabontheloose 3 in Friends

my bf spent thanksgiving with my family cuz his family lives far away and he's here for school. and my family acted nice and all that in front of him, but then, like after he left, my family told me they didn't like him and all that stuff..because my family, if they don't like the guy/the girl, they don't like them..and they'd never realize that even if you're happy with them..and if you don't break up w/him/her they always talk crap about you behind your back and they'd keep bothering you and they laugh at you and they do all sorts of stuff that you just had to break up..everyone's undergone that..and it's so sad because i love my bf and i'm happy with him but my family doesn't like him and all..what should i do? please don't say, ignore them, or just talk to them..it never works..my other sister's tried that a million times. this is more serious than it sounds. please help?

2006-11-25 09:06:53 · 13 answers · asked by ilovedotsx3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 09:06:21 · 7 answers · asked by tekoflower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been seeing this guy for 6 months or so. He lives 100 miles away so don't see him often but we talk most days. When we're together he's very affectionate and lovely, but then he doesn't seem to want to see me again for ages and I have to ask. It's been like this for ages now. I asked him if he was no longer interested but he said he was and that I wasn't wasting my time.
Anyway, the other day I was asked out on a date but I wasn't sure I should because I didn't know where I stood with the guy Ive been seeing. So I asked him outright - are we just friends, answer yes - is there any future for us?, answer no. So I ended it there and then, which was quite upsetting but I can get over it.
However, I then received a text the next day saying that I had finished the relationship, but we stil had a friendship and that he would keep in touch. Now I'm confused cos he's said quite clearly we werent in a relationship in the first place and now he's saying I ended it.
What do you make of that?

2006-11-25 09:06:06 · 9 answers · asked by malaga 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think your first love is the one you were meant to be with or someone who taught you what to look for in "the one"?

2006-11-25 09:05:54 · 23 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't get it, I just wear a shirt and jeans and then some girls out hollering, saying pick up lines and I'm just wearing normal attire? A few times I've been stopped by girls and I was trying to do some groceries, they were like "Hey, Damn, how you doing baby" I was like, umm sorry, but I have things to do. I get paranoid, sometimes I feel like they might rape me. Because one time, I was stopped by two girls and asking me if I masturbate and whatever... I was like.. hey I need to get to work? And another time, some girls stopped on a car and yelling out, "hey cutie, want a ride?" I was like, sorry but I don't ride around with strangers. I'm so paranoid of all these women, they might stalk me or rape me. What is it about me that makes them always think about sex?

2006-11-25 09:05:06 · 14 answers · asked by BokBok 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for about 2 years, i am now 32 weeks pregnant, we use to be close, he never pays me any sexual attention anymore it seems all he cares about doing in bed is sleeping! he's not the sort to sleep around either so whats wrong with him? he makes me feel ugly and unwanted! And i'm not an ugly fat dog neither! i know that for certain!

2006-11-25 09:04:44 · 32 answers · asked by adams girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, and I don't drink or like to party. I'm not very good at socializing so I don't really have any friends there. I didn't keep in touch with my highschool friends (there was only a couple of them). I've been there for 2.5 years, I live at home, and that's about it.

2006-11-25 09:03:49 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

2006-11-25 09:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by Natalie B 2 in Singles & Dating

How can i still date if my parents say it's okay and the law says it's rape?

2006-11-25 09:03:03 · 12 answers · asked by latoya m 1 in Singles & Dating

after a couple of dates that they have a serious illness, cancer or something like that would you break up with them to avoid the heartache of losing them?

2006-11-25 09:02:19 · 16 answers · asked by alltheanswers 3 in Singles & Dating

Once I used to get invited to parties but now no one bothered to invite me to a New Year Party. How do I get invited to one? Any tips?

P.S. If you want to suggest me to throw my own party don't bothere to answere cause I can't do that this year

2006-11-25 09:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

single
with someone not too serious
long term relationship
engaged
married

2006-11-25 09:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long should i wait

2006-11-25 09:00:50 · 6 answers · asked by blackbeltcc4 2 in Singles & Dating

This is the gel heard to much about, Should I bid?


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2006-11-25 09:00:33 · 1 answers · asked by El Luigy 3 in Friends

my bf dont call me back

2006-11-25 09:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by Kells 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 08:57:40 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK my mom cheated on my dad for 3 years with his best friend and i knew about it cues i caught them one day and no one believe me now there divorced and i saty with my dad cuse i cant stand my mom she a crack head and drink way to much and now she thinks that am being mean to her to do you guys think am being me she has never been there for me and she has never been supportive so i told her to fu** off and i want nothing to do with her do you think i was a little meen (i dont)

2006-11-25 08:57:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My guy and I live miles apart from each other so being "together" presents a challenge. In order to compensate for the alone time the phone is our best friend...or should I say my best friend...wink wink. He never gets into it...he says he wants to but...nothing. He writes some of the hottest emails but then.....I'm all worked up and want to show him how excited I am but he doesn't seem to be interested. Wonder what the problem could be??

2006-11-25 08:57:28 · 5 answers · asked by steph h 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating him for over two months now. I feel bad because i had sex with him about week 3. I wanted it to be special and wish i would of waited because i dont want him to think i'm easy. I didnt have sex with him yesterday,i told him i was tired. I was thinking of starting over and not sleeping with him for a while. Is this a good idea or will he think something is wrong?

2006-11-25 08:56:57 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 08:56:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone got any unique ideas?

2006-11-25 08:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by BokBok 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She pays little attention to us (her bff's!) anymore! She is totally obsessed with her boy friend, and we are only in middle school! All of my friends and I agree she is too obsessed. Are we being selfish, put yourself in our shoes. Is there any way we can tell her without hurting her feelings? She is very sensitive.....

Thanks in advance, this is a toughey!

2006-11-25 08:56:19 · 4 answers · asked by PrettyInPink 2 in Friends

I have known him my entire life, and even though we grew up together, he has always been the hardest person to shop for. And this year, there are 6 of us who drew names for a gift exchange, and I got his name. The rules are a $50 price limit, and you can't give money or gift cards. He is from a very rich family, so basically he already has anything he would want, and all he ever asks for Christmas is cash, but I can't do that this year. He likes basketball, though he recently quit the team, and he is learning to play guitar. Any CDs I have thought of, he already has on his iPod. I'm just looking for some helpful suggestions, otherwise I'll end up getting him a couple t-shirts somewhere.

2006-11-25 08:56:15 · 7 answers · asked by killerqueen040 1 in Friends

Is it unattractive if a girl is skinny or thin?

2006-11-25 08:56:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 08:55:57 · 24 answers · asked by dea_ro7 3 in Singles & Dating

Spit it out girls.

2006-11-25 08:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anime Freak!!!!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

here's the thing I was with this guy for 2 1/2 years we broke up stoped talking 2 each other for 8 months we got back together but now i have found out he also has another girl yet he doesn't know that i know this and i've been playing it off as if i know nothing what is the best way i could get revenge?

2006-11-25 08:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by dominicandyme22 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 08:55:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends, Julia and Alan are getting married sometime next year and she's already making wedding plans and invitations. I met them through her mother, whom happens to work with me. They're both great people and I became good friends with her. I'm not very good at selecting gifts and I was thinking that maybe a cash gift would be suitable. I don't want them to think I didn't put much thought into selecting a gift. Would a cash gift be considered impersonal from my part? If it's not, what is a good amount, considering i'm in a tight budget at this moment..

2006-11-25 08:54:35 · 11 answers · asked by sunny 3 in Weddings