Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

What is the best b;day present for a boy friend, especially when he is turning 30's. ?I wanted to give an ipod, but am not sure as he does not listen to songs much, how about palm organizer?

2006-11-25 09:24:22 · 4 answers · asked by lovelylis811 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I've been in an FWB situation with for the past three months. He decides he wants to end the sexual aspect and remain friends. Today we were having an IM convo and I asked him about a project he wants to start working on. I asked him if he was serious about it because I didn't have time to play games. I made a comment that a lot of people, particularly men, never seem to follow through. Well, he starts getting upset, telling me that I think he's playing games and isn't about anything. Then he proceeds to tell me that I'm too judgemental and think I'm perfect.

Now, can someone please tell me what the hell just happened? Why did he fly off the handle like that?

2006-11-25 09:24:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i usually have about 3 lil boxes in my pockets at all times just in case i am hungry.. what should i do? raisins or the girlfriend?

2006-11-25 09:24:05 · 9 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

....Is this a good idea or will it all end in tears.....??

What advice should I give to my friend....??

2006-11-25 09:23:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, me and my hubby were watching a movie last night. in it, there was this scene were this woman was wearing a tight dress that accentuated her little belly pooch. i know he noticed it because in that second, my husband automatically reaches over and rests his hand on my belly. any reasons why men? hope this isn't too stupid of a question. thanks for reading

2006-11-25 09:21:50 · 13 answers · asked by kendra w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Thinking of the hardest / saddest thing you have ever gone through, what or who ministered and comforted you most during that time? What did they say or do that made them comforting? Please explain. (I want to get better at comforting people when they are sad.)

2006-11-25 09:21:42 · 7 answers · asked by sarah w 2 in Friends

He quit his job on friday after getting mad with one of his colleagues, he stormed out of work after yelling at her. I understand why he would get so upset cos they are quite nasty to him at his work, but im worried about our finances.
I dont earn alot of money in my job, and i wont be able to support us both. We really need both incomes in our home. I am scared because we have been snapping at each other since friday. He has been really on edge.
I hate my job, it gets me really depressed, but i would never just say "i quit" and leave. Im currently looking for new jobs, but now i feel like i have to put this on hold, until he sorts himself out with a new job. We need the stability of my income.
My question is, am I being selfish for being upset that he just walked out of his job? Am I being selfish because I am upset that i cant try and get a new job now? Or is he being selfish for not thinking of the consiquences?

2006-11-25 09:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by He moonwalked on my <3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is black and I am mixed between Puerto Rican and Cuban (I honestly feel that both of Cubans and Puerto Ricans come from mixed backgrounds, but my parents say otherwise). We've been dating for about 9 months and he's everything I've ever wanted in a boyfriend and more. My parents have recently started getting on my case about him being black. I've tried to tell them both that I'm in love with this guy and he means a lot to me. I'm really happy with him. My mother in particular has been trying to stop me from seeing him whether its coming up with some ridiculous excuse as in to why I can't go out or taking my cell phone away from me in order to stop any form of communication. I'm upset by the fact that my parents are being so closed minded/selfish about this situation. I refuse to let our relationship go down the drain because of them. I also made my boyfriend aware of this to make sure he could deal with it and that we could deal with it TOGETHER.

2006-11-25 09:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by maria 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I turned 15 two weeks ago. My boyfriend is 17. He is going to turn 18 in April (so there is about a 2 yr and about 7 month age difference). We have known each other for just about 6 years now. We have been dating for a little over 5 months. His parents are fine with it and my mom is ok with it (seh believes girls mature faster than guys so she's cool with it). But ya know how dads are. Anyways, we love each other so much and we usually never disagree on anything. I have had 3 boyfriends before him and he has had one before me. We are both virgins and agreed were not going to do anything involving sex for a while intil i'm comfortable(& that's how it should be). There really hasn't been any pressure or anything. We've gone far enough. He is an awesome guy! I just would like to know your opinions on the age difference.

2006-11-25 09:20:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies I have heard a few times that women consider penises that are under six inches to be too small?

Do you agree that less than six inches is just too short or is it just a myth?

2006-11-25 09:20:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like more than one person at the same time?

2006-11-25 09:20:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of friends that are boys, and i found out from my brother's there fighting on whoever gets to go out with me.I dont think of them as more than just friends since we all knew each other when we were small and they are getting really iritating cause they keep buying me presents and are always over at my house bugging me.I dont know what to do plz help me!!!

2006-11-25 09:19:51 · 1 answers · asked by ChicagoCubs12_20 2 in Friends

I am just so fed up and feel like i have nothing to live for.

Firstly, i am at uni, which most people class as good, but for me its ****. I have lost the passion i used to have for the subject. I dont want to drop out but i am so tiered and struggling with the work. Secondly, i feel like i dont fit in. People tell me that i do but i just dont. They are from towns and i am country. they talk about things i have no idea about. plus, everyone is of thin and good looking, an i am size 20. then, everyon starts talking about their b/g friends, and what they have done and i just sit their feeling even worse and never even had sex. only three men have ever taken interest in me, they get people falling over them. i just dont no what to do. i have thought about councilling but what can they do to help. my flat mates and mates at home are great but they just dont get it. the work is hard and then being the only virgin makes me feel unattractive and ****. what the hell do i do. im going crazy!

2006-11-25 09:18:46 · 14 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this guy that i really like. we're in the same band, same club, and he's a vegetarian, like me. a month or so ago, i told him i liked him and he said he liked me back...and that was that. he gives me hugs (if i ask for them) after band practice, but other than that, he doesn't do anything else to give me a sign that he's gonna ask me out. he doesn't go to my school, either, and i only see him twice a week (if im lucky)

and then there's this guy at my school who, practically everyday, comes up to my grades' hallway (cuz he's a year older than me) just to say hi. and then after school he comes up again to say hi and kinda stands there until i ask him for a hug.

so, anyway, i think i like the second guy, but i really like the first guy. but the 1st guy isnt doing anything. what should i do?

and please...real answers only. i need help.

2006-11-25 09:18:32 · 16 answers · asked by dover_luv 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend jessica asked me why I never kissed my boyfriend,and I said I don't know but I really do want to. I just don't know how to express it.

2006-11-25 09:17:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ask me your question...then I'll choose the best and I'll try to reply...I'm not very good at solving problems but I'm just trying to help someone....

2006-11-25 09:17:32 · 16 answers · asked by Strawberry Cheesecake 3 in Friends

Ok guys heres what happened. I told one of my best friends that i liked this guy. SHE didn't tell me he had a girl friend. So me not knowing went and told him i liked him. I don't know what to do now he won't even look at me. And worse then that everyone is ignoring me b/c hey think im a sl-ut for likeing another girls guy.

2006-11-25 09:16:57 · 18 answers · asked by Luna 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 09:16:31 · 33 answers · asked by sweet n nice 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 09:15:44 · 1 answers · asked by love_renee_kitty 2 in Friends

it's been a month since my bf broke up with me and i'm still struggling through this breakup because i loved him, well actually i still do love him which is why it's so hard to get over him...i think he will always be a part of me no matter what but how can i move on with my life? what should i do? should i talk to him? he said when he broke up with me that he still wants to be friends but i can't handle JUST being friends with him cause ever since i met him i liked him so i've NEVER been JUST friends with him..when he told me he still wants to be friends i said i can't handle being friends with him. what should i do? everything reminds me of him i still have the corsage he gave me when we went to his semi-formal and i have it in my room and whenever i look at it i can't help but think of him and cry. the first time he kissed me the song Lips of an Angel was playing on the radio and whenever i hear it he's all i think about i really need your help! please no mean or rude answers!

2006-11-25 09:15:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i want to have sex but i don't know where to buy condums?
i have a week help!

2006-11-25 09:14:08 · 16 answers · asked by Baby_Blair<3 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had just broke up with your boy/girl friend right and your cousin that you talk 2 4 anything and he/she went out with your ex, what would you do? Just wondering!

2006-11-25 09:13:25 · 5 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked her If I should Ask This Guy out And She Said no So she Asked him out the next day. I have known her forever. What should I do

2006-11-25 09:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok!..so I met this brothers...and i hooked up with one of them...we dated and everything cool....but he was amazingly unfaithful, he didnt have time for me, he told me nasty things that i wasnt woman enough for being a virgin,,,,when he wasn't around his brother was always there cuz we got to be very good friends.... i broke up with my boyfriend a month ago...and i always knew his brother likes me and viceversa since i was with him...he is also very aware that his brother likes me...... (note: they dont have a brother-friendship type of relationship...they are the kind of bros that hate eachother)
so on to my thing....his brother is super sweet with me and treats my right...my ex wanted me uncovered, like he didnt wanted people to see us together..and his brother s not like that.... wutever, the point is, ive been talkin to his brother a LOT lately and im really really starting to fall badlyyyyy for him...he likes me too,,,
should i date him???

2006-11-25 09:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lilie B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 09:10:48 · 19 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Singles & Dating

i LOVE him but i do not know if the likes me i do not wont to break up with his best friend i like them both ???????????

2006-11-25 09:08:31 · 8 answers · asked by kayraegirl 1 in Friends

do nice guys finish last or does it take us longer to find true happines or that love were all searchin for?

2006-11-25 09:08:29 · 22 answers · asked by delopoppa_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 09:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am at this moment feeling very angry. the reason being I have tonight confirmed via a friend that my ex lied through her teeth to me the last month we were together. We parted because I sensed this but now have the proof. I have composed an e mail because I want them to know I know and that they never once had the courage to admit or say sorry. I was the victim of harsh defensive agressions if the subject broached. Do I send it or fester forever more.? Thing is this person claims to be a devout church member attending regularly. I want them to face themselves over this and know that to play with anothers mind is cruel.

2006-11-25 09:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 09:08:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships