there's this guy that i really like. we're in the same band, same club, and he's a vegetarian, like me. a month or so ago, i told him i liked him and he said he liked me back...and that was that. he gives me hugs (if i ask for them) after band practice, but other than that, he doesn't do anything else to give me a sign that he's gonna ask me out. he doesn't go to my school, either, and i only see him twice a week (if im lucky)
and then there's this guy at my school who, practically everyday, comes up to my grades' hallway (cuz he's a year older than me) just to say hi. and then after school he comes up again to say hi and kinda stands there until i ask him for a hug.
so, anyway, i think i like the second guy, but i really like the first guy. but the 1st guy isnt doing anything. what should i do?
and please...real answers only. i need help.
2006-11-25 09:18:32 · 16 answers · asked by dover_luv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just get up your courage and have a serious talk with the guy that you really like. that's the only way to really find out if he likes you romantically or just as a friend. don't settle for guy number two just because he's there. that's not fair to either of you.
good luck with everything
2006-11-25 09:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication with the first guy is the only way you are going to find out what is really up with him. Maybe he is shy when it comes to girls. That would be hard to date someone that you don't see all the time though. You might like the second guy or it might just be the attention he shows you that you like. No one on here can really answer this question for you except for yourself. Good luck. Later....L.G.
2006-11-25 09:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what youshould do is forget about the first guy for he obviously has no intentions of goinig futher the beign "hi" friends, for the second guy it dosent take a rocket scientist to see that he really likes you and will go out of his way to see you, so i believe that you should go with the second guy, with him though i think he might be a little shy or he is afraid of you seeing him as beign fast, thats a good sign for that last thing you want s for a guy to be fast and the friendship don't last a month so go slow with him and be patient. Nothing is wrong in a girl asking a guy out, just to let him know that your ok in going out with him. hope this helps
2006-11-25 09:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anneka D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the second guy, he's way more into you then the other dude. At least he's expressing more interest in you. The first guy might be just shy to, but hey, in this life, if you snooze you lose.
2006-11-25 09:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart... It sounds to me like the second guy is willing to do something about it, so there might be a better chance. But don't let that stop you from doing whatever you think is best.
2006-11-25 09:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 08:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tsk, tsk. you should know better than to get involved with someone in the band. I travelled in bands for 12 years. I have been in bands where people hooked up. you are going to cause it to fall apart if you persue him. he probably realizes it and that is why he doesn't respond even if he is interested. you better think it through. I would fire people I caught screwing around in the band.
2006-11-25 09:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOur wasting your time with the first guy. the other one definitly is interested in you and is much closer. The other one is just not wanting to hurt you feelings and probably has a girl where he is.
2006-11-25 09:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by gibs_neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide which guy you wanna be with, i know you like them both. Once you figure that out just ask them out.
2006-11-25 09:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell go 4 the second guy if u like him and he likes u y not go 4 him
2006-11-25 09:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋