What was the hardest / saddest thing you have ever gone through? Who or what comforted you most during that..

Question

Thinking of the hardest / saddest thing you have ever gone through, what or who ministered and comforted you most during that time? What did they say or do that made them comforting? Please explain. (I want to get better at comforting people when they are sad.)

Answer 1

the hardest thing i have gone through was being raped, at 13 years later i still don't feel good it goes through my mind every day mostly when it is the most bad timing it it constant but normal now, but the best thing my husband told me it will never happen again. there was the time i was 14 and time i was 18 knowing that someone will do all they can to protect me from that and knowing they would do it if they can is nice knowing i am wioth someon i can bea safe with and not have to fear or wonder what will happen.

Answer 2

When I was in 5th grade I missed a whole bunch of school, like one day a week, due to horrible migraines. I would have to go home, and I would spend my day (and sometimes night) out in the yard with horrible head pains and throwing up. I had to be outside because when I get nauseous I am very picky--I like fresh air, and I hate throwing up. When I would throw up, or be sitting on the sidewalk rocking back and forth, I would have my Sheltie sitting with me--the other two dog would roam around the yard playing and stuff, but my Sam would sit right beside me through the whole thing. It really made me feel better.

Answer 3

Many years ago I was beaten up by a man that my ex wife was seeing as he didn't want me to have anything to do with our son. I am physically challenged and my lawyer advised me to not go and get my son without a witness as it may reoccur again. I spent 3 days in the hospital passing blood in my urine and was thinking of having this man killed. Luckily a good friend of mine, who once upon a time I couldn't stand nor could he me arranged a meeting with this man and myself. We discussed the events and tried to put the feelings we had for each other aside and ended up shaking hands. I resented the fact that my ex and him had changed my sons name at school etc to his last name without my consent but there was little I could do as he would have beaten me up more at the time. Today that son is 32 years old with two daughters of his own, Papa's girls, and they all carry my family name. As for this man, we see each other occasionally and are civil towards each other. I am eternally grateful that my friend helped me through this hardest part of my life or I may have ended up in jail indefinitely.

Answer 4

my hardest time my best friend was there. she talked to me when i was sad not about what was going on unless i wanted to talk about she talked about things that made me happy and got me not to focus on the problem and she got me perfessional help. it hurt me at first that she would give me away like that but i relized she wanted me to get better and help me and it helped me get closer to her.
dont help somine unless you are going to go through everything with them be prepared because it might be a long prosess
i don't know if that was the awser you were looking for but i hope i helped, : )

Answer 5

I think it would be being bullied at school and falling out wit my best friends, who comforted me no one i had to deal wit it on my own but eventually got through it though.

Answer 6

A person I barely know but they just talked to me about it

Answer 7

i was moving, and my best friend helped me saying that we would be bff's