Ok guys heres what happened. I told one of my best friends that i liked this guy. SHE didn't tell me he had a girl friend. So me not knowing went and told him i liked him. I don't know what to do now he won't even look at me. And worse then that everyone is ignoring me b/c hey think im a sl-ut for likeing another girls guy.
2006-11-25 09:16:57 · 18 answers · asked by Luna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly move on and find someone else.
Secondly its not your fault you didnt know he had a girlfriend so if people are ignoring you thats their problem not yours.
Thirdly they guy shouldnt be ignoring you, again its his problem.
My advice is to let things chill then talk to the guy, pull him over to one side and just explain that you didnt know he had a girlfriend and that you want to go back to/start being friends with him.
Im sure you a great girl and that guy is missing out on a lot even if it was just being friends.
Everythnig will fall back into place eventully, you just have to wait and keep yourself happy in the mean time.
If you every want someone to talk to I dont mind.
Keep smiling and be happy :)
2006-11-25 09:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by adlingtont 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you need to tell him that you didn't know because if he is a good guy, you will never be "in" with him because you are not a good person or a slut. You just need to tell him that you didn't know. And as hard or awkward as it might be, you have to tell his girlfriend the truth. She will not let him go anywhere near you now that she knows and probably not later but be honest with her. And the rest of the people are not your friends so you shouldn't care what they think so i say F*** them. :)
2006-11-25 17:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. Now you know he has a girlfriend so you can back off. You're probably a little embarrassed but it will be O.K. and you'll get over it. As long as you don't pursue him anymore (at least while he's with this other gal) you are not a bad person.
2006-11-25 17:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy but i dont think theres anything wrong with likeing a guy with a girl friend.
2006-11-25 17:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't know that he had a girlfriend, you cannot be blamed for tellin him how you feel about him. BUT! now that you know he has a girlfriend, you need to apologize to him and his girlfriend. They may not accept your apology, but at least you will have done the right thing.
2006-11-25 17:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by cbkeller60 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to everybody that you didn't know that he had a girlfriend. Maybe you need to tell his girlfriend that you didn't know and your friend should have told you.
2006-11-25 17:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and tell him you did not know and say you over him. hope you guys can be friend still.
2006-11-25 17:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anime Freak!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well those other people are being retarted becuase everyone is human. and if u really, really, need to, then jsut tell them what your freind did...
2006-11-25 17:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by Duff M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not know that he was taken, so thats all you have to say, and just move on.
2006-11-25 17:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this situation theres only 1 thing 2 do
FUC 'em, fuc 'em all
2006-11-25 17:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋