Been seeing this guy for 6 months or so. He lives 100 miles away so don't see him often but we talk most days. When we're together he's very affectionate and lovely, but then he doesn't seem to want to see me again for ages and I have to ask. It's been like this for ages now. I asked him if he was no longer interested but he said he was and that I wasn't wasting my time.
Anyway, the other day I was asked out on a date but I wasn't sure I should because I didn't know where I stood with the guy Ive been seeing. So I asked him outright - are we just friends, answer yes - is there any future for us?, answer no. So I ended it there and then, which was quite upsetting but I can get over it.
However, I then received a text the next day saying that I had finished the relationship, but we stil had a friendship and that he would keep in touch. Now I'm confused cos he's said quite clearly we werent in a relationship in the first place and now he's saying I ended it.
What do you make of that?
2006-11-25 09:06:06 · 9 answers · asked by malaga 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you on his terms sounds to me if hes taking advantage of you,don't contact him let him do the chasing if you don't hear anything forget him and put it down to a lesson well learnt.
2006-11-25 09:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk about mixed messages. I think you have to get a hold of him and very clearly tell him what you believed was going on in the relationship, and you would like similar answers, no mind reading allowed
2006-11-25 17:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like he is playing a game. if he didnt see you all that often and was lovely to you when you meet the expression out of sight and out of mind comes to mind. but having said thta he talks to most nights.
i think he does have feelings for you but they arent intense enough for him (sorry) for him to do anything about it. he talks to you because your interesting and he is probably nice to any girl he meets.
you can do much better than him and when you do move on he'll realise what he is missing out on. hope it works out how you want it to, let us know what happens
xxx
2006-11-25 17:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lol pmsl, your being used as a sperm bucket. Pops round every now and again, pmsl you need to wake up and smell the mistress!
2006-11-25 18:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Im a killer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is stringing you along get ride of him he is wasting your time you deserve better sure you appreciated the friendship thing as he obviously does but is that enough and you were very brave to finish it well done you but if its more than friendship your looking for .. you know the answer to this one sure if you were looking for a pal you could find nearer to home .....also he is playing head games so .... delete ..him tech speaking of course good luck be brave
2006-11-25 17:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by bobonumpty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he wants to keep you as a backup in case he can't get anyone else! Sorry to be brutal but I would ditch him as a boyfriend and find someone who will treat you good!
2006-11-25 17:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by jugs_21 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he has another women
He doesn't want a relatioship with u and i know it is hard but move on and ignore his texts and phone calls
2006-11-25 17:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by rachel d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Forget him and move on.
2006-11-25 17:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he probely wasnt right for you your probably a great girl but maybe he was cheeting on you
2006-11-25 17:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by tomas r 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋