What is the best way to deal with difficult people?.......?

Question

There are some people who get a kick out of being difficult, and i want to know what is the best way to deal with them?......any suggestions?.......

Answer 1

don't let them get to you babe just feel sorry for them that they are so stupid

Answer 2

Dealing with difficult people can be extremely stressful! Be kind to them, don't let them able to push your buttons, take a couple of deep breath when you are confronted by them. The public is the hardest thing to deal with. During the holidays, Everybody is stressed out! Short Tempered! NO Patience! Lines are everywhere, the parking, the standing on the check out lane, asking for help can be difficult,and having the kids along can be daring as well!
If you deal with the public, you will face the difficult, rudest people, and what can work, always keep a smile, use proper good manners, Call men "sir" Women "mam" and if you can' help the person, ask for someone else to help. The management, and customer Relations are trained to deal with the public, ask for the same training if you are a cashier or etc.
We people do forget to behave properly in public, but when at home and dealing with diffiult people can be extremely stressful.
Be nice and sweet, but don't be a pushover! You are not a doormat! Treat people as you would like to be treated.
Sometimes, just as the person at home is something bothering them, could be the big impact of the unapprioated behavior, and also mental illness could play in the factor!
I hope that this help, and as a mom of severe special needs children, you have to keep a calming, happy personality so that the environment keep safe, and less chaos!
Then when you are alone, no one around, hit your pillow, scream, write a journal or find other methods to steam off your anger and stress of dealing with difficult people!

Answer 3

If there is anyway I can stay away from characters like that, I dont stay around them but sometimes most of us have to deal with that type of person. at one time or other. I am the type that can get along with most anyone but if a person seems to get a kick out of being difficult with me, I tell him about it in no uncertain terms and if he or she doesn't like it I can be just as difficult as they can.

Answer 4

I know a lot of people like this. Honestly, when they're being difficult, I just ignore them. They're doing it to get a rise out of you and everyone else so don't let them get to you. They'll come back down to earth soon enough when they realize they're being an idiot.

If they're like this all the time and you know the person well enough, it might be a good idea to say something to them about it.

Answer 5

there are a couple of ways you can handle this, but you need to remember 2 things.

1. You can get more bees with honey than you can with vinegar,

2. You keep your friends close, but you keep your enemies closer.

When people are difficult to handle, treat them with kindness. The more people know that something is bothering you, the more they are going to keep doing it. Just handle it you would anyone else. After awhile they won't bother you any more.

Answer 6

the best thing to do if it leads up to this is not to deal with them at all or be even more difficult with them.

Answer 7

to deal with difficult people you must learn how they get angry. happy, etc... try to avoid them if that doesn't work try to talk to them and if that doesn't work try not to make them mad or anything they are trying to be difficult with.

Answer 8

I use paralysing pressure points ... Or chloroform ... Or incriminating evidence. A more practical method is too hoble them. You'll need a sledge hammer.

Answer 9

the best way to get along with them is dont!tell them to go play somewhere else,and complicate someone elses life.with any amount of luck,theyll find someone just like them!

Answer 10

I solve that problem real easily. I become more difficult than they do.

Answer 11

just ignore them when there being difficult or just walk away