GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP
2006-11-25 09:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you got the brush off...It's been 7 months he has moved on
2006-11-25 09:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by silsa1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am usually nervous around a women I think is attractive and don't know them. If you blew him off, he may not want anything to do with you. Anyway what is really weird behavior? Why did it take you seven months to apologize? Its not going to hurt anything if you ask him out for a drink. If he declines, you may have blown it, or he may be seeing someone else.... or he may really believe you're psycho. Regardless, if you invite him, he will have the decision to make and would know you are interested. Just don't expect him to drop anything hes doing to go for a drink with someone it sounds like may have hurt him.
2006-11-25 17:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by yamakrazi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he was nervous, believe me it took alot for him to approach you...especially if he told you it scared him. Next thing about us guys..if you contact him again, you ll know if hes interested...especially if you tell him YOU are interested in him.
Dont worry about the comment he made, its a way of protecting himself. If he wasnt interested he would have ignored the message, or gave you some choice words...If you re hot, hes interested....Yes, if you asked me out, I d go.... He stared at you trying to figure a way to approach you without humiliation incase he was rejected..and hoping you would notice him staring and approach him, or send him a clue you were interested....Hes shy and hes normal... Hope this helps.
2006-11-25 17:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Slam H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like you lost your chance. He got over you because its been so long and he hasn't seen you. What you need to do is "Accidentally" run into him. Start a conversation about how he has been and say its been great seeing you again but can i buy you a drink tomorrow night. So that you don't sound like you were planning on it but you still want to see him. If its been that long, chances are he won't ask you but thinks your gorgeous and does want to see you so try that.
2006-11-25 17:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look sweetie, I really dont know what he means. I dont think anyone can tell you that but him. Talk to him or text him if that is easier and ask him how he feels about it and you will get a strait and forward answer. promis you.
good luck
2006-11-25 17:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys get nervous around us all the time..but i dont matter..cus i aint a guy
2006-11-25 17:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you talk like you write, you will scare the daylights out of him. stop. take a breath. if you want to ask him out, do it. just relax and let him relax too.
2006-11-25 17:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that text means he was freaked out by what happened and that its unlikely that anything will happen between you two, find someone else ok
2006-11-25 17:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he has moved on...
2006-11-25 17:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by redsox3770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they are..but i'm not a guy...so oh well
2006-11-25 17:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by seksy4life 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋