acctually it me and my ex we were so in love but we broke up we was about to get back again but he asked me to be a friend as he doesnt wanna lose me and he want me by him side and if we came back again we might break up again and then he might lose me i agreed with being a friend but we r getting so close than ever and we r so keen on each others feeling and we really dont wanna lose each other ever
plus he once told me he imagined me couple of times before as his future wife same time he is saying he is in love with someone else and circumstances not helping to let them be together i dont know if he is feeling something towards meor he just like my personality and trust me and would this mean something in the future?
2006-11-25 09:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by Brandy Emerald 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he is actually saying to you he is in love with someone else, then that is just how it is. I think it is rather cruel of him to give you hope and then being so blunt as to actually be clear with you that he is in love with another person. It is like you can take everything. I think you should be firm with him and state once and for all that your heart is not for playing.
2006-11-25 09:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just keeping you around so he doesnt have to be alone. He is playing you. He is telling you what you want to hear. He told you he is in love with someone else, but that circumstances are not letting them be together??? Do you really want to be second in someones life?? You deserve a love who actually wants YOU not someone else.
NO FRIENDSHIP.......move on. Trust me if you move on now you will be heartbroken and hurt, but time will heal and you will get over it. If you hold on to him.......you are still going to be heartbroken and hurt only its gonna hurt alot more and you may never get over it because you held on for so long.
2006-11-25 09:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try it again once more, and if it doesnt work out then move on, but the thing is that once a relationship has failed once then it probably wont work out the second time
2006-11-25 09:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 08:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young, all I could find were really smart girls. Where were you forty years ago? I hate to ruin the guy's thing, but he's stringing you for sure. Tell you've wised up, and have decided not to see him ever again.
2006-11-25 09:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is confused about his feelings. Maybe he needs to take some space by himself to sort out his feelings and then come and talk to you when he can see things clearly. It sounds like you have pretty strong feelings for him so I would hate for you to be seriously in love with him and he is just having mild feelings for you. Make sense?
2006-11-25 09:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by SHUNTA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just lay back and let him keep coming after you.. if it was meant to be you will be together.. i know i know what a typical thing to say.. and it's sooo hard to do.. but i have done it and it does end up working out the way it was going to in the first place.. don't be his doormat though.. you fit him into your life, don't be the one tryin to be fitted in.. good luck and best wishes..
2006-11-25 09:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want romantically but doesn't want you have anyone else romantically ether.
move on....take what you two had and learn from it.
friends like that just control wo is or isn't in your life.
you deserve better than that.
move on and find happiness for yourself.
2006-11-25 09:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Marg N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i seriously don't think you should take advice from people who could be serial killers/carnie workers/creepy people bored on a saturday night. see a counselor or talk to your parents. or the guy.
2006-11-25 09:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by missycowrocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. Maybe he is keeping you around in case his other relationship doesn't work out.
2006-11-25 09:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋