Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

My aunt just lost her husband in a devastaing arson fire/suicide that completely destroyed her 3 year old house. Her children have turned against her and blame her for the disaster, her husbands family is giving her a hard time and she just found out that her homeowners insurance, and life insurance policies may not pay out, due to the nature of the claims. Are there any support services out there for victims or tragedy like this? She lost everything, her husband, her home, her business, now her family is giving her s@#t. She has put the children in counsling to help them deal with their grief, I want to support her and help her in anyway that I can. I'm just not sure where to start. Can you imagine what she must be going through?

2006-11-21 06:02:29 · 7 answers · asked by herbestgirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just wondering because i wanted to ask this guy who i like ALOT ALOT ALOT out and he's 18 nut he said that it's not because of my looks or age or anything it's because of my age so would he get put in jail?

2006-11-21 06:02:27 · 22 answers · asked by candius91 1 in Singles & Dating

Firstly, thank you to everyone who has taken the time to answer. I should mention that the measly 1000 characters is not nearly enough space to fully detail my frustrations., but I will try. My wife is well aware of the problems, she is very lazy. I have a good relationship with my in-laws and my mother-in-laws mother. Evryone one of them empathizes with me, but cannot face her one -on-one or even as a family - they are scared to. For as long as I have known my wife, she has terrorized her family - what she says goes. She uses profanity with her family, which I think is inappropriate. She tells her mom to "f*** off". She justifies this by saying that this is what works for her family. I have known her family well enough to see the root of the problem - her parents. She constantly tells me that her parents treated her more as a friend, than parents. There was never any discipline in her life, nor in her parents lives.....continued in Am I doing something wrong ? (3)

2006-11-21 06:02:19 · 4 answers · asked by Mr M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 06:01:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which is the biggest mistake u committed in ur life or anything dat u regret 2day?

2006-11-21 06:00:56 · 10 answers · asked by tania 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean poor attitude or bad intentions or outlook, it's just them? No matter what they try to do or how much help you give, they end up bringing everybody lower and lower and lower down, until you just have to get away from them? Like they're jinxed, or under a negative charged cloud or something?

2006-11-21 06:00:25 · 12 answers · asked by LuvFlwr 2 in Friends

well i just got a suspened from school 2day cuz i got 2 a fight n the girls bathroom with this other girl and evry one was watching after that i win i dont no what i sould do if people heared about it and start asking me stuff about it or one of her friends want 2 fight me 2 when no one's there 2 back me up

2006-11-21 06:00:13 · 16 answers · asked by Amy Hakey 1 in Friends

have fun...;0)

2006-11-21 06:00:02 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend, and shes my best friend and has been for 1 year, and she can be the rudest person but at times shes really nice and helpful, shes into smoking weed and doing drugs and just because me and her are good friends, doesnt mean i do that stuff, i rarely fall into peer pressure, but i can make wrong desicions, i always seem to pick the wrong crowd to hang around, like for example my best friend trys to help me, but sometimes she ditches me for other people she just met and not many people really like her and i think she just hangs around me cause shes jealous of me and she thinks because shes with me guys will like her, the only way she can get guys to like her is if she sucks them off, and she wants me to do that stuff too, where im not about that kinda stuff, were total oppisites in everything, and im just wondering, should i slowly move away and try and find a new best friend, or stick with her and give her another try, beacasue im really tired of her bullshit

2006-11-21 05:59:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is there a place for a lil slightly more then average size women to get a dress? like a bbw store?

2006-11-21 05:59:44 · 15 answers · asked by Happylilcowgirl 1 in Weddings

There's this guy at college who likes me - i know this because he's told people and they've told me. He knows that i know. I never really talked to him before but for some reason recently i have and i actually really like him. I told my friend and so now he knows i like him too but he still won't say anything - Why???

2006-11-21 05:59:21 · 10 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

he loves her... how can we tell what he said is true?

2006-11-21 05:59:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl in my Statistics class this semester and it took a while for both of us to start talking. About a month ago I offered her to get together to study for the next test. After that first meeting we both got to know each other well. The following week I invited her to a concert. Since the concert we've been going out almost every weekend. We talk after class and sometimes at night. We haven't kissed but we have held hands and kiss on the cheek for goodbye. Also, we both flirt quite a bit on our conversations. The other night I told her how I felt and made her understood that I liked her. I did not see any response from her just a smile. I am really confused on how to approach her next time because I really like her but it seems like she is in way interested but doesnt really express it. I have tried to kiss her but it seems like there is never the right moment to do it. Thanks for your advice....

2006-11-21 05:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by lv06 1 in Singles & Dating

Put The Bird In A Bucket Of Red Bull Overnight Before You Cook It !

2006-11-21 05:59:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 05:58:49 · 6 answers · asked by liane 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 05:58:45 · 19 answers · asked by lovebug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was going to a party with my bf. When he came 2 pick me up he wasn't happy with what I was wearing. He said I look like somebody whose going to a meeting. I was wearing a jean short at the knees and high hills and I nice designe top. He said he wanted me to wear a nice short skirt with heels. when we got to the party he left and went to talk to his friend I went over and give him a drink he took the drink and give me a nasty comment about sitting my behind down. I was so hurt that I drunk a bottle of vodka to make feel better. But it didn't work so i end up trowing up. my best frieng came over and told me go lay down. half an hour later when i woke up i dind't hear any body i thought they all left. when I got down stairs it was dark so I accidentally step on someone hand. The person yell and regconize it's voice I found the light and i open it. I saw my bf making out with my best friend. I didn't know what to do so i ran out to the parking got his car and drove home crying.

2006-11-21 05:58:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

All I ask was,if you ask a Question,why do People have to be nasty,would it be to much to ask to get a honest,heartfelt Answer,I give every one a strait Answer,I try to be nice and kind,why cant others?

2006-11-21 05:57:53 · 5 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 32 years old, I married a wonderful girl 7 years ago. I have 2 incredible kids. I get along fine with my wife, she is beautiful and kind. The issue is that there has NEVER been a good sex life. I could even dare to say that there is absolutely NO sex life. Its like if I'm living with my best friend. We've tried counseling, but she just isn't interested. She doesn't have any physical problems or previous bad experiences. She just doesn't seem to like sex at all, and she doesn't want to try anything. When she "lets" me have sex, she doesn't participate at all, and I end up feeling guilty because she's doing something she doesn't really want to. The really bad thing is that I don't look forward to being intimate with her anymore. I have real trouble getting turned on by her, and to make things worse she insists on having a third child. What can I do?

2006-11-21 05:57:15 · 37 answers · asked by Carmina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a married man cheats with an unmarried woman, isn't it moreso adultery on his part and not hers? He's married and she's not, so he's the one who really commited adultery right?

2006-11-21 05:57:10 · 37 answers · asked by melcar12345 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you get angry cuz I'm blocking your view, or could I make you forget the game all together??

2006-11-21 05:57:05 · 11 answers · asked by lisa s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 05:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by Angelica S 1 in Singles & Dating

I've only been with my boyfriend for a little over 1 month. He'll be 21 years old soon and his zodiac sign is Aries. What's a good gift I can get him that he'll appreciate as a guy and that also says I care about him. I've thought about just getting a giftcard, but that just seems much too cold. I want to get him something he can put in his room or carry with him and think of me everytime he see's it or uses it.

2006-11-21 05:56:29 · 4 answers · asked by AnGeL4rMHeLL2552 1 in Singles & Dating

and why does this pace slow down when couples begin to have children...
is there anyone whose sex pace is the same as after kids?

2006-11-21 05:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 yrs., but we keep running into the same problems without any resolution. We have had many resolved issues, but when it comes to family and our future, the arguements turn very heated. He doesn't seem to complain about anything with me, but I have problems with his family and the fact that he hasn't proposed and refuses to talk about it. For example, if his family wants him to do something, he drops plans with me. (I am rarely included in any family gatherings). He doesn't want to upset them, but doesn't seem to mind upsetting me. His family lives 30 miles away and we just live a block within each other. He says he spends more time with me, so when they want him to spend time with them, it is justified.
Then there comes the issue of marriage. After three years, you should at least be able to have a conversation about this topic, right? Am I just spinning my wheels or can we come to some sort of agreement of these issues?

2006-11-21 05:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by stacey h 3 in Marriage & Divorce

For example just before sex he would ask you to put on a pair and play around with your legs for a while? This is a serious question, realy, I'm married and my wife hates wearing pantyhose but I've never explained to her that it is a fantasy of mine. I'm asking this because I would like to understand how women feel about this before I ask my wife. Thanks to all those who answer.

2006-11-21 05:54:34 · 23 answers · asked by teban 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im dating him for 2na half years.... he always says that im not ready..cause im busy with my business......... things are not looking up... and i need to concentrate..........what can i do to make him say that....... or should i break up with him........ i donno and im gettin worried........ what can i do i'm clueless...............

2006-11-21 05:54:28 · 16 answers · asked by clueless_cute 1 in Singles & Dating

My younger brother's girl friend Anna has come up with an unusual proposal. Anna's sister got ditched by her boy friend and she is depressed. Anna wants my brother to marry her sister. She says in that way my brother could be married also and at the same time Anna herself would also be his girl friend. She must be out of her senses.

2006-11-21 05:54:14 · 5 answers · asked by Justanian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is always talking about sex?? I mean does it make u think more or less of her?? And no shes not a whore she just enjoys talking about it. what do you think?? serious answers please, thanx :)

2006-11-21 05:53:51 · 28 answers · asked by onelove 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 05:52:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends