Im dating him for 2na half years.... he always says that im not ready..cause im busy with my business......... things are not looking up... and i need to concentrate..........what can i do to make him say that....... or should i break up with him........ i donno and im gettin worried........ what can i do i'm clueless...............
2006-11-21 05:54:28 · 16 answers · asked by clueless_cute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on your and his age.
If you are younger than 25, you are too young to be thinking about marriage.
Over 25? Start looking for other guys if marriage is what you want, and your present guy has said he is not ready for marriage.
In either case, do not give an ultimatum or pressure him. That will only scare him away.
2006-11-21 05:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may want a family, and u too busy with business.
U both need to talk it out.
U need to do the things he wants u to do.
If u love him stick with him, good relationships is hard to find these days and divorce rates are extremely high.
Think it through.
2006-11-21 05:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no Dear Abby but it sounds like this guy is not ready to commit. I'd break up and if he is moved to any kind of feelings and if he really wants you; he will be back.
2006-11-21 06:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Merilee L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes having you around.He may think It`s better to keep getting a slice and that way he doesn`t have to buy the hole loaf of bread.He may like trying different dread once in awhile.
2006-11-21 06:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just turn it around on him the next time he says your not ready. Say something along the lines like "I think you are scared" "Why, are you afraid to marry me?"
2006-11-21 05:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dustin27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him talk 2 him about how you feel then try to work things out and see what happens.
2006-11-21 05:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by SexyAmby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about marriage... See what happened!
2006-11-21 05:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how long are you going to let him drag this out
tell him to take a pizz or get off the pot
2006-11-21 05:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yust say youre redy and u whant 2 marry him
2006-11-21 05:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Liliana M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's just making excuses, give him a ultimatum, and see!
2006-11-21 05:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by shanya w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋