Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

My Fiance' is in a rock band. He has a passion for music that he has had since he was a child & I am supporting him in pursuing his dream. He is not making ANY money right now & is on the road more than not. What should I be asking of him? I work full-time making 40K/year & pt making 10K/year...I am pulling my weight above & beyond. He is using his 401K money from his previous job to support himself/us while he is trying to make it. Any thoughts? He has alot of responsibility at home including a home that we rent & a child from a prior relationship.

2006-11-21 06:14:43 · 6 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had liked this guy Ian,who we were really good friends, We had began to flirt witheachother a little. I began to have feelings for him, but then my family moved to another city. Ian told me that he was moving around the same area. But i lost contact with him. It had been about three yrs.Now I am older. I ran into him the other day, and he had moved to the city..infact he goes to the High school that is right across form mine.(keep in mind it is the begining of the school year.) We had once again been the tight friends that we used to be. Now I have totally fallen for him, he was all grown up! But the highschool that he goes to is where alot of my enemies go. They always talk crap about me behaind my back. This one girl in eight grade even accused me of being pregant! So I saw Ian the other day, and he was all stand offish, he just nodded his head at me and walked away!Can you help me get my freind back?

2006-11-21 06:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by All Of the Above 5 in Singles & Dating

drew looks at me, I fake a smlie so he won't see
That i want and I'm needing everything that we should be
I'll bet she beautiful, that girl he talks about
And she's got everything that i have to live without
Drew talks to me, i laugh cause its so damn funny
That i can't even see anyone when he's with me
He says he's so in love, he's finally got it right,
i wonder if he knows he's all i think about at night
He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star
He's the song in the car i keep singing, don't know why i do!!

this is a real song && its about me and my crush! what does that mean??

2006-11-21 06:14:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met an incredible man a few months ago, very caring,loving,handsome and understanding. I recently found out that he is addicted to crack cocaine. I have deep feelings for him although it's only been a few months. He refuses to go to a rehab-he says they don't work. I think he just is in denial. I thought we would one day get married-I guess I was wrong. I want to help him, but he doesn't want help! I just can't commit him to rehab. I can't risk my children being around crack. But here's the hardest part-I found out yesterday that I am pregnant by this man. Will my baby be addicted? I'm really confused........please help????

2006-11-21 06:13:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve been married a year last Sep. And sex with my wife has dropped drastically in that year. I’ve read articles and a variety of internet blogs and still no sure answer. We have a good marriage and everything other than sex is balanced fairly well. But for some reason she doesn’t have the sexually desires she used to before we married. Before we married it was 2-3 times a week and she wanted it. She is 22 and I am 29 and according to her I was her first. Though I always understood you would KNOW when/if you had sex with a female virgin. I was not so sure. With that said, I on the other hand, had a hand full of sexual partners prior to being with her sexually (none virgins). Each of those experiences the female come on to me or initiated the sexual encounter as often or more than I did. Now if I don’t initiate it, it doesn’t happen. She says it would get dry and hurt after a few minutes so we got KY, which helped, still no increase. Then we talked some more about it.

2006-11-21 06:13:18 · 34 answers · asked by Worried 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I still really love him and we still talk and im not sure what to think ya know that first true love apparently everybody has well he was it and i dont know if i can get over him without him being mad at me. I like him as a friend but more and we have decided just to be friends but if i get over him will that break us apart.

2006-11-21 06:12:46 · 5 answers · asked by Killashandra N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Continued from Am I doing something wrong ? (2). I was helping my in-laws move house and organizing their personal effects was a nightmare. Their house was a dump(both inside and out), stuff everywhere, there personal finances were in shambles. They had tons of unopened envelopes - I found a cheque for $2000 which was over 2 years old. The mortgage rate they were paying was 12% and they were in so much debt, I wanted to cry. I helped them sort everything out. My wife (she was my girfriend at the time) cried when her parents bought their current dwelling, saying she was finally proud to call it home. I beileve that the experience of living in such a situation, might have inculcate this "lifestyle".
I feel that maybe I have done something wrong in my life to deserve to be treated like this. Thank you to everyone for reading and for your words. Maybe the problem exists within myself, not in my wife. I love her too much, she is the reason for my existence. I don't know what else to say.

2006-11-21 06:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by Mr M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she bugs me and won't ever leave!

2006-11-21 06:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by princess-of-somany 3 in Singles & Dating

Any ideas? There's this guy i like and i keep wearing dark clothes - Not cus im a goth or anything - just cus that's what most of my winter clothes are - do guys prefer more colourful clothes or what?

2006-11-21 06:12:16 · 8 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

I still really love him and we still talk and im not sure what to think ya know that first true love apparently everybody has well he was it and i dont know if i can get over him without him being mad at me. I like him as a friend but more and we have decided just to be friends but if i get over him will that break us apart.

2006-11-21 06:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by Killashandra N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do to make sure I dont have a boring christmas like the last year?And is it possible for me to hang around with people who live in halls?

2006-11-21 06:10:25 · 2 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating

who claimed he was busy and couldnt hang out, only to find that he had other plans that he didnt want you to know about (not cheating)?????

2006-11-21 06:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I saw people who is 10 years apart... even 15 years apart...

But, what is the common age differences?
And how much older is too old for you?

Do you mind going out with someone who is much older than you, but he/she knows how to make you happy?

2006-11-21 06:10:05 · 16 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my girlfriend for about a month. She is going out of town to see her family. My ex girlfriend has invited me to go with her to her moms house. My girlfriend does not want me to go. When I first started casually dating my new girlfreind I was still sleeping with my ex. Since we have been an official couple I have not gotten together with my ex. However my current girlfriend does know that my ex and I were still hooking up when we first started going out. She has forbid me to go to my ex's for Thanksgiving. I understand why she is upset but I have been faithful since we have been an exclusive couple. The other thing that makes things comlcated is that the reason I broke up with my ex was that I slept with her mother and I did not want her to find out. Her mother told my ex I could come for t-day so I think everthing will go okay. I know she doesn't want her daughter to find out as much as me. I just don't want to be alone for tukey day. what to do?

2006-11-21 06:09:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a great girlfriend but almost every time another woman is interested in me I cheat on her.... why do I do that?

2006-11-21 06:09:47 · 28 answers · asked by b0rnbad 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 4 months told me the other day that he wanted to put our relationship on hold untill the summer the reason he gave me was because if school and track. What should I Do ?

2006-11-21 06:09:45 · 4 answers · asked by laseanda 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 06:08:40 · 14 answers · asked by Laswap 1 in Friends

2006-11-21 06:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by SHYONE 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend says da its disrespect

2006-11-21 06:08:02 · 53 answers · asked by Forbidden 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend did't get me anything for my birthday or even really do anything for it. do i come flat out and let him know that i'm hurt by it? or do i just let it slide? this is the last birthday i will have while he's here...he's going to kuwait soon. and it's not like he didn't have any money either...what do i do?

2006-11-21 06:07:24 · 15 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Singles & Dating

other than a turkey on thanksgiving?

2006-11-21 06:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 06:06:50 · 6 answers · asked by Angelica S 1 in Singles & Dating

from your marriage exprience. what cause marriage to be more excited and live longer, opposite personalities or similar personalities?

2006-11-21 06:06:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how was your first kiss?
was it romantic?
was he hot?
where was it at?
are you a boy or girl?
and how old were you
pleez explain in detail!!!!!

2006-11-21 06:05:53 · 26 answers · asked by Hollee 1 in Singles & Dating

My dads getting re married and my i cant stand my step sisters what should i do to relive the stress.

2006-11-21 06:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by Killashandra N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my partner have been 2gether 4 nearly a year. Wev been having a few problems he is a good ten years older than me. I think i am a good girlfriend Iv accepted and bonded with his 2 boys and helped and supported him whenever I can. Last week I was feeling useless because Iv not long lost my viginity and 2 afraid 2 try again so I feel as though Im lettin him down. However last night I found a few facts out frm him himself as he tried 2 show how much he loves me by being honest. He is bankrupt, lost his drivers licence through drink driving and Iv jus been told that he has a baby daughter somewhere that he never sees. Im lost and confused. I love him more than anything else in the world. But I come frm a family of solicitors, listen 2 classical music and generally a totally different background. He is 10 years older, works all day and drinks all night. The last few months wev started doing a lot of different things together not including alcohol!Can he change?will my familyaccept us

2006-11-21 06:05:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's not necessary that i believe in zodica signs, but i just want to know from real people exprience.

2006-11-21 06:04:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy for 2 years we lived together and then he told me he needed space, and wanted to be with other people.. It has been 2 years today that we were together, I cant date anyone else, I am still in love with him, How do I get over him??????And move on!!!!!!!!1

2006-11-21 06:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by Cathead01 1 in Singles & Dating

its mine and my husbands frst anniversary. hes been in korea because of the army and he comes home 2 days after our anniversary. im not good at gift ideas. hes not a big sports fan and currently doesnt have any real hobbies. for the last year hes been in korea so he hasnt had time to really have hobbies or strong interest other then work.any ideas would be greatly appreciated!!

2006-11-21 06:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by Brooklyn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

those who have seen or even answerd my previous question regarding that girl who might have a crush on me would know the circumstances

those who dont, here is a breif:
- we work together
- we have some casual flirting
- we even have repeated intintional touching, last time it was almost rubbing our knees while pretending to work
- tried to hint my crush on her, she got mad and asked me not to say such things again
- we talk alot over the phone
- i feel like she is teasing me to talk about anything

what should be my next move????

2006-11-21 06:03:36 · 15 answers · asked by Gifted S 2 in Singles & Dating