I had liked this guy Ian,who we were really good friends, We had began to flirt witheachother a little. I began to have feelings for him, but then my family moved to another city. Ian told me that he was moving around the same area. But i lost contact with him. It had been about three yrs.Now I am older. I ran into him the other day, and he had moved to the city..infact he goes to the High school that is right across form mine.(keep in mind it is the begining of the school year.) We had once again been the tight friends that we used to be. Now I have totally fallen for him, he was all grown up! But the highschool that he goes to is where alot of my enemies go. They always talk crap about me behaind my back. This one girl in eight grade even accused me of being pregant! So I saw Ian the other day, and he was all stand offish, he just nodded his head at me and walked away!Can you help me get my freind back?
2006-11-21 06:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by All Of the Above 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him if he still really wants to be friends with you. You can't force him to talk to you and you can't expect him to want to still be your friend. Just talk to him and explain to him how much you care about him and that none of the things these other chicks are saying are true. If he still cares about you, things will work out. If he doesn't, I'm sorry and find someone new.
2006-11-21 06:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try and meet with Ian away from the school and your haters. Explain to him what is going on at the school and that you are aware of what people are saying. If he believes them over you, then he's not the true friend that you thought he was. Also, keep in mind that some time has gone by since you were close to him. Time has a way of changing things and people. He may not be the same person he used to be.
2006-11-21 06:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd ask him to come over, go to dinner, or a movie, reminese about old times, that should clear everything up. if ya'll were really good friends back in the day, then hje should know who you truly are and will be able to see past all the rumors/lies!!
2006-11-21 06:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you need to talk to him away from school and away from you so-called friends.
If he is now cool to you, perhaps the relationship is over.
There certianly must be more fish in the pond than this one.
your young yet, dont get yourself hooked on one person yet, you have a lot of life to live yet.
Get all your oats sownnow before getting serious.
2006-11-21 06:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make him realize that you do have people in his school who dont like you, and its very possible they might start sending rumors about you around to him. Make sure he knows these thing are not true and get him to trust you
2006-11-21 06:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of communication is what destroys most relationships. All you people need to talk to the people you love ALL THE TIME!!!
If only people were honest...
2006-11-21 06:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Fred B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat those big-mouth bitches up and then go after that backstabber and have your way, give him the ride of his life and then he wont talk **** about you again because you gave him something he'll never remeber
2006-11-21 06:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by antuinej20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply sit down with that friend and do your best to understand what false ideas he has about you. try to explain the truth to him without losing ur dignity. if he understands, he could b a good friend. if he does not understand, you don"t need his friendship.
good luck
2006-11-21 06:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by Truth bearer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he actin like that
2006-11-21 06:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by SMILING EYES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋