Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

2006-11-21 06:41:10 · 5 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

I have only been exclusivly dating my girlfriend for about three weeks. She has one child. I have only been around him a couple of times. I am doing all my christmas shopping this coming weekend. I wasn't planning on getting the kid anything but my girlfriend made a comment that made me think she is expecting me to. I am dating her not him. I can see getting him somithing next year when I actually know the kid.

2006-11-21 06:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have married to someone who is elder than me. Due to this I could not tell this to my parents. Off course I can't tell this to them for some reason which I can not disclose. Now, my wife (socially unknown) is telling me to marry again, but I know she is not uttering these from her heart. I know, she is observing my loyalty. At the same time, when my parents would pressurise me and I would be compelled to marry twice, it would be a serious dilemma. Hope u pepole understand my point. Needless to say, we love each other very much, and I am thinking about this heartbreaking options for the sake of society. Please help.

2006-11-21 06:40:19 · 16 answers · asked by computersir 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 06:39:50 · 38 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 06:39:31 · 22 answers · asked by littlefun42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 9mth old baby. The father has been living with me for the past 4 mths.Now has moved out. He wasnt their before through the whole pregnancy or even when she was born. He has had 6 DUIs in the past and does drugs. I want to know if he takes me to court what kind of rights will he get. I am so scared for my child to go stay with him.

2006-11-21 06:37:33 · 16 answers · asked by Lindsay M 1 in Family

It's like they are nice when its just the two of you but when ur friends or his friends are around its awful.

2006-11-21 06:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is like my best friend and we have a blast together. i dont think my friends understand that its not like i dont want to hang out with them, its that most of the time i fun more fun with him then with them. for example: on a friday night my friends havnt called me so i go hang out with my boyfriend and we "game" and act crazy(haha yes im a gurl and i game, it fun gurls should try it) but anyways about an hour later theycall and ask me to hang out and i said im with my boyfriend call me tomorrow after work. they get mad and say i hang out with my boyfriend to much. plus most of the time they dont call me b4 i make my plans.

should i start calling them frist so they dont get mad at me or should i just do what i want and hang out when and whoever i want to. Is that a bad thing to do??

2006-11-21 06:35:52 · 29 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Friends

he is nice and cute and he says im too young. and think im not. what should i do?

2006-11-21 06:35:30 · 3 answers · asked by roseypooh_ashrospry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 06:35:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been internet dating for a bit trying to find the woman of my dreams. Can't seem to attract much attention from those that i'd want attention from. All my messages are polite, i'm good looking (so people tell me). The only thing i've left off my profile is anything that indicates my wealth. Have to put details of this on (in a round about way) or do you think this will attract the wrong type.

2006-11-21 06:35:04 · 16 answers · asked by Heyjude 2 in Singles & Dating

I am only 23 and my fantasy is to be with a hot woman older than me (in the early to late 30 maybe even 40's) obviously.or just over me , the reason being that is because they are more mature and more experienced (not just in bed,so i hear) What are the chances of this actually coming true? the oldest ive been with is 27.Do women ever see younger guys as an option to date?

2006-11-21 06:34:20 · 12 answers · asked by CuriousJorge07 3 in Singles & Dating

Im perfectly fine round guys i dont fancy but guys that i do im so nervous round them. Sometimes im confident and talk to them other times i find myself just sitting there thinking of things to say

2006-11-21 06:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Jo S 1 in Singles & Dating

I started hinting months before we got engaged that I wanted a princess cut diamond with a white gold band. Did you hint? If not, do you honestly like what he got you?

2006-11-21 06:33:55 · 39 answers · asked by bustylaroo99 4 in Weddings

i'm a horrible person and i'm dealing with that so if you could please help me with my problem instead of telling me where i messed up i would greatly appreciate it. I was with my daughters father for 2 years before he was incarcerated. He has now been locked up for a little over a year and i have done everything to help him. I paid for his lawyer, visited him at least three days a week, sent him thousands of dollars, and spent hundreds in phone bills. about 6 months after he left i started a sexual relationship with an aquaintance of his. that relationship continued to grow and we are now planning on moving in together. I love my boyfriend very much but i'm scared to tell my daughters father that i have moved on. I have told him numerous times that i am not with him anymore but i promised him that i would always be here for him. so my problem is, do i say **** my daughters father and completly cut him off or tell my boyfriend that he has to deal with me helping him?

2006-11-21 06:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by EricaS 2 in Singles & Dating

Which kinda of guy do you like better a football player or a skateboarder...because i do both of them but i dont have time for both...i wanna kno which one is better so i can pick up the chicks....

2006-11-21 06:33:13 · 16 answers · asked by LiL'Pablo 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to sound really arrogant but I am dating someone and we went in public. What I noticed is a lot of girls saw me with her and had a look like "What is he doing with that!" I felt like I am dating someone ugly or something. I am pretty much clueless in this situation. How can I tackle this problem because a lot of girls were looking at me like "What the hell?"

2006-11-21 06:32:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok Yesterday my Bf hit me really hard but you see the thing is he does drugs(this is not an excuse toprotect him!)
So I asked this question bf if he want on drugs would he still be capable of hitting me??
He loves me and cares for me but recently hes been getting mad quickly I think its bc we havent had sex for about...2weeks Could a guy get mad for that??
Cause yesterday he was like kissing my neck and I told him to stop but he kept on resisting than I tried pushing him but he still Was kissing my neck Ithink he got mad at me for "rejecting" him But I wasnt feeling soo good yesterday and Im worse today!!He doesnt even wanna talk to me I tried talking to him but he just told me to leave him alone so Here I am soooo lost!!!! So pls help!!!!

2006-11-21 06:32:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My significant spent 10,000 dollars on his divorce, it was finally final in October after she fought it for a year. He only filed because she cheated so many times with so many people including relatives and his so called friends. She thought he would never leave for good because he had left 2x before and came back. Now she keeps dragging him back to court. If he won't talk to her on the phone she will tell their 14 year old daughter to tell him that he can talk to her on the phone or talk to her in court. We have custody of the oldest and she has the 3 youngest. She is constantly dragging him in and out of court just to cost him more money and more grief. If she can't have him she don't want anyone to have him. When will all of this madness stop? He hates her and she knows that. She has a boyfriend so why can't she just leave us alone?

2006-11-21 06:32:20 · 17 answers · asked by bamagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 06:31:37 · 22 answers · asked by SHYONE 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 06:31:31 · 12 answers · asked by Jazmine 1 in Singles & Dating

So this guy I like told me he likes me..what do i say to that? Or do?

2006-11-21 06:31:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am the type of girl who likes bad boys that takes charge but not like controlling or abuseive you know like when i want to kiss him or something but i'm to shy to do it he would just do it or if he want me to cuddle with him and i say no but he know i realy mean yes but he don't take controll of the sitution i realy want him to do that

2006-11-21 06:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by priceness45 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband is living together for 7 years without any kid and he is faithful to me by that time then. I was offered a job and work in another country, was husbandt was left and I heard from friends and relatives that he has an affair.

When I went home over the summer, I tried to confront him and he said that it is just a fling and its over. Now me and my husband left our country and move to a new place where work awaits me...

I discover one time that he sent e-mail to the woman, telling her how much he love her... I notice too that there are anonymous call and later found out that he sent money to the woman. When I tried to confront him this time, he told me that he was sending money as an obligation because the woman is pregnant and she pitied the woman because she has no job...

Tell me what to do? Should I leave me husband? He is asking for another chance? Do you think he is worth it?

CONFUSED

2006-11-21 06:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by Rain 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or hit her?what would you do?

2006-11-21 06:30:19 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men always watch porn.is it because there g/f just dont do it for them anymore?????

2006-11-21 06:30:14 · 17 answers · asked by adele_amy06 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my wife dont even live together now. what can i do to get that fire back? that dont cost me a fortune. and remeber we live in a small town so there is not much for us to do! Help!!!!

2006-11-21 06:29:56 · 17 answers · asked by litchmob199725 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im thinking of having a "vintage" type theme for my wedding and this is the wedding dress ima get

http://www.casablancabridal.com/Products/Detail.asp?ModelNo=1827&Cat=Fall+Collection&SubCat=2006

im trying to to think of what kind of style for bridesmaids. im thinking a short below the knee length dress with some lace details and possible a sash. let me know what ideas you have in mind, thanks!

2006-11-21 06:29:17 · 11 answers · asked by stefanie 2 in Weddings

2006-11-21 06:29:00 · 13 answers · asked by Antonio R 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend cheated on me and was so dirty about how he did it , he planned it for 2 weeks then started a fight with me so he could leave and he took my son with him and stayed gone for 5 days with this ho. and let my son witness what he was doing so he could come back and tell me , he said. this aint even his son . he then came back and begged for forgiveness and gave me his sad sob story bout how sorry he is and it will never happen again and how much he loves me . me i let him back in and i got him thinking hes forgiven and everythings everything but really im plotting to meet some one and have a real affair with them not some fling im talking maybe fall in love with the other person at least have a relationship with them and stay with my dude so when he does find out he can feel truly played and betrayed like i did. now i just have to get out and find that other person. my bf also stole from me lied to me and tore up my things all the while playing me like a fool

2006-11-21 06:28:44 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating