my boyfriend cheated on me and was so dirty about how he did it , he planned it for 2 weeks then started a fight with me so he could leave and he took my son with him and stayed gone for 5 days with this ho. and let my son witness what he was doing so he could come back and tell me , he said. this aint even his son . he then came back and begged for forgiveness and gave me his sad sob story bout how sorry he is and it will never happen again and how much he loves me . me i let him back in and i got him thinking hes forgiven and everythings everything but really im plotting to meet some one and have a real affair with them not some fling im talking maybe fall in love with the other person at least have a relationship with them and stay with my dude so when he does find out he can feel truly played and betrayed like i did. now i just have to get out and find that other person. my bf also stole from me lied to me and tore up my things all the while playing me like a fool
2006-11-21 06:28:44 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he s a JerK.. and you are a S|_UT! you are both sick!! did you read the stupid silly question you typed here??
"im plotting to meet some one and have a real affair with them not some fling im talking maybe fall in love with the other person"
"now i just have to get out and find that other person"
You are SCUM!
ok..excuse.. im going to puke and will be back in a minute
p.s: poor kid
2006-11-21 06:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by mr_dark_eyed 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I can understand ow u feel, been there. Revenge is sweet, but rarely is it ever achieved intentionally. Things never work out just as we would like in these situations, they go all topsy turvy, for example you not pulling it off well enough to make the guy jealous, or doing it, then losing him and then being sorry. Game playing is just dirty. No matter how tempting it might be, cut your losses and kick him to the curb, its not too late. You may be surprised, just give it time and sweet revenge will come at just
the right time, when the right person comes along, you will be truly happy and this is the best kind of revenge for a cheater. Good luck.
2006-11-21 06:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to yourself or disrespect your body by having an affair with anybody. He's the loser don't be like him. Karma will get him, what comes around goes around. It might not happen immediately but it will happen when he least expects it. Further more you need to teach your son that what he did was wrong so that he doesn't grow to hurt females. Good luck! You are and need to be the better person. Besides you could have sex with someone and it might not be all that, then what? Remember, even with condoms diseaes such as herpes can still be spread. I worked in OB/GYN I've seen it time and time again.
2006-11-21 06:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by CarizmaAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer. Do you really want to lower yourself to his level? Who do you think that will hurt in the long run? He cheated on you and hurt you. You should not be looking for another man until you have finished the relationship you are in. Just tell him you have been too hurt to want to go on with him. Tell him you've lost your trust in him and that you HAVE to get away from him because being with a person who has cheated, lied, and betrayed your trust is not acceptable to you, now or ever. Stay calm but be assertive. And do it for yourself!!!! Don't listen to any excuses or sob stories. Just go!
2006-11-21 06:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely final analysis sweetheart, you have been already fooled no count number the kind you prefer to seem at it. He has been dozing with those different females for God knows how long and he's only stringing you alongside. the two way as quickly as he sees which you're performing diverse he's gonna recognize that something is up. My guy became into doing the comparable element and that i in return checked his telephone while i eventually have been given the prospect. no longer basically did he have a female chum, yet he became right into a father of two, 2 toddlers by 2 diverse women human beings. His toddlers have been under 6 months aside and have been born as quickly as we met. No we did no longer stay mutually yet we've been mutually plenty. greater often than not each and every of the time. i could no longer ensure how he made time for his toddlers while he spent plenty time with me. He additionally owed me some money yet I enable the money and him pass. exceedingly after his female chum who i assumed became into now his ex despatched me an digital mail telling me that they have got been returned mutually and he did no longer have time for me. i recognize it may injury and you will possibly desire to prefer your cash returned yet only get out mutually as you may. If he makes any threats, get a restraining order against him.
2016-10-04 05:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by oberlander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah totally, give me a call, I'll help you out with this...
(just kidding.)
I've been cheated on twice by the same person, and I didn't get revenge, I just ended it. if you cheat on him, he won't feel as bad for cheating on you, if you dump him and retain your morals, he'll have no one to blame but himself. He won't be able to say "well she cheated on me, so she's just as bad."
all that will repeat over and over in his head is how he F-ed everything up. and it was all his fault.
Get "revenge" by getting a total makeover. new hair, new clothes, new way to do your make-up, the whole works. make him think you look better after you dumped him than you ever did with him...
And though you might want to date someone as soon as possible, make sure the person is clearly better than him. So much so that even he knows it...
2006-11-21 07:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by jeffrey james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why did you take him back? Either forgive him or just move on. There is no sense in letting this consume your life....such as planning for revenge. You will only be as happy as you will allow yourself to be. Get out and Get on!
2006-11-21 06:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship sounds really messed up. I think you should forget about having the affair and just dump him.
2006-11-21 06:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it & move on.
Don't allow yourself to make the same mistakes.
Wash you hands of all the anger/sadness/frustration/etc...
You'll be better off.
2006-11-21 06:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to act like a 10yr old. Just leave him.
2006-11-21 06:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋