i am the type of girl who likes bad boys that takes charge but not like controlling or abuseive you know like when i want to kiss him or something but i'm to shy to do it he would just do it or if he want me to cuddle with him and i say no but he know i realy mean yes but he don't take controll of the sitution i realy want him to do that
2006-11-21 06:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by priceness45 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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www.takeninhand.com
and read the book "The Surrendered Wife"
2006-11-23 10:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no easy way to do that or any instructions either. The best way I have found when I have dated guys like that is that when they do actually make a move first I call them on it and brag about how much I like that. or when he's asking you want you want to eat just smile at him and tell him he's the man he needs to decide. small hints like that will show him that you want him to have an opinion too
2006-11-21 06:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by crazy b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem with one of my boyfriends also, What i did was, I tryed to emtiminate him be calling him a punk and sissy sometimes not to where he would get mad at me. But to where he would grab me & sometimes put me on the wall and be like you a punk you aint gone do nothin and then he'll go ta kissin on me and stuff. i dont know it worked from
2006-11-21 07:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by spongebizze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bang in front of a mirror. Then afterwards ask him if in hes head he was thinking "im the man" and watching himself. If he wasnt he doesnt, ur not gonna get that male dominance from this guy. and yes im serious
2006-11-21 07:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by scott nj 23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men know by instinct wnat a woman likes and he will do it without you asking him or you telling them what to do unless he is gay.
2006-11-21 06:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIRST YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM. GUYS ARE NOT MIND READERS AND EVEN WHEN WOMEN TALK ALL THEY HEAR IS BLAH,BLAH, BLAH.!! SO MAKE SURE HE LISTENS AND ASK HIM IF HE UNDERSTANDS YOU. HERE IS A THOUGHT FOR YOU. IF YOU MEAN NO THEN MEAN NO..IF YOU MEAN YES THEN MEAN YES.WE GUYS ARE CONFUSED ENOUGH ALREADY.
2006-11-21 06:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by us veteran 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't create aspine that never existed ,love
2006-11-21 06:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by beast 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you say no and you want to he may be respecting you and what if you ment no and he still did?
2006-11-21 06:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋