2006-11-21 06:29:00 · 13 answers · asked by Antonio R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest...you aren't responsible for their reaction, just how you behave...better to let them know than hide it...then they can decide if they want to continue on with you or not...
2006-11-21 06:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their heart is involved and they think that the two of you are exclusive, then there is no way around hurting their heart.
Be honest with your lover. BUT, listen to your own heart first. It is a possibility that you will lose them if you confess. Ask yourself if seeing other people is truly worth losing them. If the answer is Yes, then you have to follow your own heart, Sweetie.
2006-11-21 14:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa Dagger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he ur bf or just a lover. like someone u using for fun. if he is a lover and u don't care about him a lot just tell him u don't want to see him anymore. either way u gonna end up hurting him anyway because there is no break up without heartache.
2006-11-21 14:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't the only thing you can do is mitigate the damage already done by either changing your behavior or by being honest with your lover. Either way they deserve to know where they stand with you so that they can make an informed decision on whether or not they want to be with you.
2006-11-21 14:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
It hurts to learn that you have been cheated on, if only for a short time. It hurts to be told that you were not enough, that you did not suffice as a lover.
Just come out and say it, it will hurt him/her, but it must be done. In the end the truth is always the best way.
2006-11-21 14:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by ChrisB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious!
This person probably cares for you , they will get hurt..
Maybe it would be better to just break up and not tell them about the others unless , you aren't using protection, and possibly have a risk of STD's.
2006-11-21 14:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are going to be hurt anyways. So just tell them and get ready to be dumped.
2006-11-21 14:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If she likes/loves you , she'll be highly hurt that you don't want to be with her.
2006-11-21 14:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have thought about this before *** hole. tell them now before it gets any worse, but next time tell them before the problem gets this far out of hand.
2006-11-21 14:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can. Just be honest and gentler but firm about what you want to do.
2006-11-21 14:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Rich B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋