I've been internet dating for a bit trying to find the woman of my dreams. Can't seem to attract much attention from those that i'd want attention from. All my messages are polite, i'm good looking (so people tell me). The only thing i've left off my profile is anything that indicates my wealth. Have to put details of this on (in a round about way) or do you think this will attract the wrong type.
2006-11-21 06:35:04 · 16 answers · asked by Heyjude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea definately leave wealth off!!! you don't want some gold digger after you, and find out that she is one after it's already too late. lol
My tip would be, try different sites, don't just stick to the same one(s). Check out myspace (I know, its a bit teenage, but there's actually a lot of older men and women on there!) Try chatting at different times of the day. Usually the nights are reserved for weirdos and freaks. lol (no offense people! lol) If the topic of relationship/dating doesn't seem to work, go to another topic, maybe music, or cars. Whatever you're into.
good luck!!!
;o)
2006-11-21 07:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...you don't want to attract a female b/c of your wealth dude. I'd also suggest that you not limit your dating options to the internet. Get out there and play!! It's actually easier to approach someone you actually live around, come in contact with through friends, school, activities, etc. Internet dating is a real challenge. good Luck
2006-11-21 06:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are most likely NOT going to find the woman of your dreams on the internet. If she was that great, she wouldn't be looking for love on the internet. Second, if you are wealthy, and you put that, every "gold digger" in the country will be after you.LOL You don't want some woman who is interested in only your money, and if you do add your net worth to your profile, you will never know if they truly care about you, even if they do.
2006-11-21 07:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want someone to like you for you, not your brand new 51 inch flat screen tv, penthouse flat, Porsche, gucci shoes, d and g suits etc... all that is crap...
Example.... I was out one evening with friends, when a young gentleman approached me and we struck up a conversation... he told me that he earnt a six figure salary etc... I said, I dont give a damn about your wealth... it is what is on the inside that counts, and you really don't need to brag about your wealth... It sounds sad and desperate.
Get a personality
If you really think that you are going to find your dream woman off an internet dating site...............welll... I think you are sadly and sorely wrong.... Yes I am single and am proud of it, and just because I am fat, ugly, over forty etc, doesnt make me deseperate! lol....
Dont rely on internet dating sites, it is all contrived bollox and you meet people that you would not meet in real life... get out there, join evening classes, take up a hobby, just get out and about etc... love will happen when it happens....
Good luck and please dont brag about your wealth it aint funny, it aint bit and it certainly aint clever...
2006-11-21 06:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Warmnjuicy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my partner on the internet, i can't say i took any notice of his wealth on his profile. I do believe there are a lot of people who would only be interested in the money side of your profile. So please be careful
Be patient and the right lady will come along.
2006-11-21 07:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Candy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you have money doesnt make you a catch, so yes i dont think you will attract the wrong type!!
love doesnt care what or who the person is!
respect yourself and you will find your woman
good luck
2006-11-21 06:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't show any details of your wealth...It would either make you look smug...or attract the wrong type!
2006-11-21 06:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're after a trophy girlfriend then yes you should. If you're after a soulmate then your wealth is irrelevant. Go figure.
2006-11-21 11:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are lame! no wonder you can't get attention. you don't even know how to date online and asking on yahoo answers!! get a life!
2006-11-21 06:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by mr_dark_eyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not put anything about money online. A true love will love you rich or poor.
2006-11-24 02:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋