I dated this guy for 2 years we lived together and then he told me he needed space, and wanted to be with other people.. It has been 2 years today that we were together, I cant date anyone else, I am still in love with him, How do I get over him??????And move on!!!!!!!!1
2006-11-21 06:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by Cathead01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Moving on is only going to happen when your all the way ready; until then your going to keep finding yourself in the same position. So if deep down inside you feel that your ready; you're going to need to find ways to occupy your time and start moving forward with your life.
2006-11-21 06:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by wright_shalonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is stilll interested in you, I suggest that you pretend he is dead and grief accordingly. In time, you will release your feelings and be able to get on with the rest of your life. You cannot allow this attraction to control your life; the feelings are not mutual and you must accept this. There are no easy ways to do this of course, and it's up to you to devise whatever methods would be effective for you. Moving on and dating other guys might help, spending time focusing on your own needs may be helpful as well, but you have no other options. Your feelings will fade in time, although two years is a long time to hold on. You should have already developed the skills necessary to be alone--now figure out what would be exciting--anything--going back to school, tackling a new job, join some kind of group activity, anything that will take the focus off your love life. Good Luck (and it will get better)
2006-11-21 06:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of why he is an ex. when we get caught up in missing an ex we tend to forget all the mess that occurred during the relationship that made it end. an ex is an ex for a reason. stop missing him and see what else is out there. i waited almost 2 and a half years after a divorce but i am so glad i did!
2006-11-21 06:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i get were your coming from but look this is what you should do try going to parties or meeting new people. See look he might already moved on. I know its hard i had this problem before i couldnt get him out of my mind i thought about him 24/7 and i even remembered his face the way we kissed the way we did stuff i repeated love songs over and over it was so sad but i had my friends with me to help me get through it and if you dont have any friends then im willing to help you out. Because i had some friends to help me out and you do 2. :) hope i helped you out xoxo GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-21 06:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men and ladies are so distinctive babe! a guy can only turn his feeling off like that! would not recommend they don't care approximately you it only skill they don't elect to experience emotional simply by fact they don't be attentive to what to do while they experience disillusioned, they don't elect to cry cus which will lead them to experience like a '*****' by utilising the sounds of it he isn't taking any activity to you on the 2nd! yet while he loves then you he will start up lacking you! I had a similar, m ex informed me he exchange into head over heels in love with me and that he exchange into SO scared to loose me etc ect, baring in thoughts he cheated on me thrice,so as that could have been abit of gilt trip! then he replaced his quantity and that i did not hear from him for 5 months! says all of it! What you ought to think of to your self is, is this heartache your going nevertheless properly worth it? simply by fact he's the single hurting you! if he enjoyed you he does not positioned you thru this! Or he's responsible for something and he would not elect to get lower back with you on the prospect of wounding you! x
2016-10-22 12:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats an easy question babe, just start dating again. its easy to forget someone if you start dating. you have someone new to focus on and the other person (your ex) will be forgotten in time.
2006-11-21 06:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and it will try to stay busy and keep your mind off of it see i work with the girl that just broke my heart on friday and belive me its tuff to see her every day but if you keep busy and keep your mind off of it with time you will be better
2006-11-21 06:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really just takes time. Try to keep busy, go out with your girlfriends, volunteer, read more, etc..
Things will get easier, I promise!!
2006-11-21 06:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put all of your energies into everything else. go out with friends, quit dwelling on him and what you used to have, our minds and memories can be so cruel
2006-11-21 06:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. You are hung up on him. I suggest you see a counsellor.
2006-11-21 06:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Zoey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋