ok, what should be my next move?

Question

those who have seen or even answerd my previous question regarding that girl who might have a crush on me would know the circumstances

those who dont, here is a breif:
- we work together
- we have some casual flirting
- we even have repeated intintional touching, last time it was almost rubbing our knees while pretending to work
- tried to hint my crush on her, she got mad and asked me not to say such things again
- we talk alot over the phone
- i feel like she is teasing me to talk about anything

what should be my next move????

Answer 1

Play along with it. Women don't like direct men. They sort of like to circle around you before making any type of move. Important thing is to take your time, be confident, and have fun.

Answer 2

The key here is opening the door and then waiting to see if she will walk through it. I was in a similar situation with a girl I worked with several years ago. The way I dealt with it was pretty simple really.

We were flirting quite a bit and one day, during some friendly banter, she was jokingly poking fun at me. Initially, I acted shocked and wounded by her comments, until she said she was sorry and didn't mean to hurt my feelings (of course she was still laughing while apologizing). At this point I changed tactics on her and said, "That's okay, I'll let you buy me a beer after work someday and make it up to me." She was surprised, but eagerly agreed that we should do that sometime soon. Two days later she approached me and asked if I wanted to go out for drinks after work.

You just need to find a smooth way of throwing it out there. Let her know that you are open to the idea of seeing more of her, but then leave the ball firmly in her court. One of two things will happen, either she will eagerly accept the chance to further your relationship or she will let you know she isn't. If she isn't, your friendship will never go beyond the friendly flirtation you are enjoying now.

Keep us posted!

Best of luck!

Answer 3

Work place romances almost always turn out bad. Ask her to lunch, something casual, afterwards, tell her you had a good time and ask her if she wants to hang out outside of work. If she says no thanks, let it be. Stop flirting with her at work after that and see if she mentions anything about why you stopped. If she is interested in you, she will agree to meet with you outside of work and then good luck if it doesn't work out and you still have to see her everyday.

Answer 4

Dating someone you work with can be very hazardous. What happens when/if it doesn't work out? How will you feel when she starts dating your co-worker? Vice-Versa. Very weird situation to voluntarily put yourself in. Dirty laundry gets exposed when/if it doesn't work out. Especially if you get really close and end up telling each other intimate parts of your life. If it doesn't work out you run the possiblity that everyone you work with finds out your darkest secrets.

Answer 5

There is no next move! Go with the flow and take it as it comes! If she really likes you and you like her, your going to end up starting something. It takes time, don't rush things-- thats a big mistake. Patience.

Answer 6

shop speaking to her the kind you have been via textual content cloth and that. if she texts you returned she's fascinated, actually. then later as quickly as you get to nicely known her greater effective, ask her if she needs to hang with you on occasion, like watch a action picture or something. stable success :)

Answer 7

Coming from experience dating some one you work with is going to be hard and even harder if things go sour so careful of what your getting in to

Answer 8

capture it on your cell phone camera. Show to supervisor. Report her for sexual harrassment. She's a tease and all teases need to be dealt with swiftly before someone gets hurt.

Answer 9

Nothing, she seems nervous. Or maybe you can send her a card for the holidays that hints out your feelings

Answer 10

I would strongly suggest that you don't date or involve yourself with someone that you work with. A relationship gone bad could cause you serious problems at work.