Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

i am divorced and have 2 children( 19&17) the other day my ex sent a text message to the 17 who had no knowledge of his fathers phone number and asked who had written the text. a fight prevailed between the two of them and my ex told my son that from here on out in life he is dead to him and that he can not have any communication with the rest of the family that is still in the area. I have not spoke to my ex in a few years because of some things that have been said to my children by him or one of the many girlfriends he has had. he does not live near us and has very little or no communication with either of my children in the last 3 years. any sugguestions on what to do to help my 17 get past this.

2006-11-21 09:25:48 · 7 answers · asked by sandi j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is this normal & if not, what's behind it

thanx

2006-11-21 09:24:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Keep the answers comming. Best gets `10 pointsI really like this guy and I wanted to know, does he like me if:
~Every few minutes he would turn around and ask me what page I was on whenever we were silently reading these books in LA (he sits infront of me)
~He lets me use his flashcards whenever he needed them too
~He is always looking at my stuff whenever I get up to do something and when I come back ill catch him holding something of mine and examining it
~Whenever I look at the clock while were studing vocab together, he goes "Come on we've still got twenty minutes!"
~he turns the pages in MY bookfor me whenever I wanted to know how many pages were left
~One time we were staring at each other for along time in the eyes and he reached out and touched me, he immedieately apologized.

2006-11-21 09:24:00 · 15 answers · asked by Rosebud 1 in Singles & Dating

I Have this really strong feeling that our relationship is over, it's been four years and out of nowhere two weeks ago things took a turn for the worse. We don't hang out and we barely talk on the phone. I love him but he seems to have lost that spark. Anyways we talked last night and when the question came " Should I keep trying or should I give up" he stood quiet for a while. So I said than if this is how it's going to be I give up, and then I started to cry. He held me and told me it's not over. I felt better last night that he told me that. But now I have that feeling and I asked him and he is avoiding the question! How do I get him to just tell me it's over, or if it's not how do I get him to tell me what’s wrong?

2006-11-21 09:23:59 · 35 answers · asked by NuNu 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 09:23:56 · 21 answers · asked by Ihaka 1 in Singles & Dating

I sleep with this girl while drunk. She has turned out to be a nice friend (no sex though). But I do not know what to make of this e-mail. "hey... U are probably bussy tonight, but I'm on the depressive side and I would like to have a couple of margaritas... I was wondering if U would come out with me. Untill 9 or 10..we have school tomorrow and I know U have a long drive."

2006-11-21 09:23:23 · 6 answers · asked by Karola 1 in Singles & Dating

What signs do ladies give or show to enable one know that they are enjoying sex and if indeed they are satisfied at the end.

2006-11-21 09:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to think but I know he can't be working that many hours. I suspect he's playing on the computer looking at porn. I know he's busy. I also found out that he's been taking my diet pills to give him energy to stay awake. They do keep u awake. I haven't been able to sleep. Anyway I am currently in a pregrad program and I study all the time so I don't have time to see my husband durign the week. On weekends he;s sleeping. What can I do? Help

2006-11-21 09:23:13 · 4 answers · asked by cc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think its gr8 - opinions pls

2006-11-21 09:22:55 · 10 answers · asked by sugar 2 in Singles & Dating

Yeh, we know that it's not always the guy, cause a girl could need to get on those Kegel exercises.....

2006-11-21 09:22:00 · 10 answers · asked by smooches! 2 in Singles & Dating

hey. does anyone out there know me from school or anything? My name is Makayla Cook and I live in idaho. anyway. people sit there telling me you cant love at a young age, but my opinion, everyone's different and i am gonna show everyone that when i grow up i swear to god i will marry this boy as soon as i can. someone please tell me this, what is love? i think it is when you take the time to think about someone and you get butterflies in your stomach when you are around them. so someone please e mail me and talk to me about this, girls or boys doesnt matter cuz i am serious i need someone to tell this to. so someone please e mail me?...

2006-11-21 09:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by makayla c 1 in Singles & Dating

each one that i do it always ask for you credit crad or bank account in order to pay a fee, IS THERE A FREE SITE THAT I CAN LOG ONTO WITH OUT HAVING TO PAY FOR IT..AM SEEKING A SOUL MATE. THANK TO ALL THAT REPLY. I WANT ONE THAT I CAN SEND EMAIL BACK AND FORTH TO......

2006-11-21 09:21:11 · 3 answers · asked by linda g 1 in Singles & Dating

We don't talk he spends more time with his boys than me and he disrespects me

2006-11-21 09:20:39 · 4 answers · asked by stylescharlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

I sleep with this girl while drunk. She has turned out to be a nice friend (no sex though). But I do not know what to make of this e-mail.

"hey... U are probably bussy tonight, but I'm on the depressive side and I would like to have a couple of margaritas... I was wondering if U would come out with me. Untill 9 or 10..we have school tomorrow and I know U have a long drive."

2006-11-21 09:20:34 · 7 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Friends

If you want to continue dating that person, but realise there's no way you could hold off everything for them, given the choices, what would you do?

A.) Push yourself into an unsure relationship with that person, knowing very well you'd only see them a couple times a year.

B.) Hold onto that relationship and also start another locally to maintain options.

C.) Break up with the person and start looking for someone else.

D.) Other.

(This question is to assume you are a decent person who does not intend to hurt anyone. The details of this question are not pertinent to my life or that of my friends. It is merely intended to settle a quarrel over morality.)

2006-11-21 09:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by Gray 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband is hinting that we do a threesome or swing with some couples. But he said I should choose the guy or if ever somebody from another place that we dont know. Part of me is saying why not but I'm afraid I might get addicted to it. I am open minded but I still don't have enough gutts to do that. When I think about it, there are times I feel like its going to be fun. But I'm also scared I might get addicted to it and would keep on asking for it. I know there are risk, and we are only on our 3rd year of marriage.

He keeps on saying that he wants me to be happy and wants me to get into it since I'm the person who is very insatiable in bed. What should I do???? More answers the better pls........

2006-11-21 09:20:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My kid is being a big baby about getting waxed and going to the doctor. When I was that age I was butt naked with the other boys already at like 13 or 14, no problems. I don't think I was very mature for my age. What can I say to make her grow up about this stuff. Give me an inspiring quote or something, thanks in advance.

2006-11-21 09:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

help!!!!!!!!!! what should i do

2006-11-21 09:18:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like for for over 3year and haven't told any one not even my brother.

HELP ME

2006-11-21 09:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by fliersgirl 1 in Friends

2006-11-21 09:17:11 · 2 answers · asked by marshay p 2 in Singles & Dating

Go for it! No one here knows who you are anyway..

2006-11-21 09:16:51 · 14 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 28 years old just got out of a bad realtionship. Living with my Sister so I don't want anything for my own place. I need some other kind of ideas. Something for "ME" I really have no idea what I want for Christmas this year. I just got into a new relationship and he treats me very well. The best I've ever been treated. And he keeps asking me what I want for Christmas and I have no idea. I'm already so very happy! I've told him maybe a certificate to go to the spa so I could go get my hair done, but thats about it and I know that hes getting me some sort of jewlery. I'm stumpt! HELP ME!

2006-11-21 09:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3 in Singles & Dating

I was adopted in the Philippines and brought to the US with my (adopted) mom in 1986. Been here ever since then. I used to have my adopted records along with the court papers but they were lost when my adoptive parents split up. Now both my adoptive parents are deceased and I need those vital records in order to get a passport and to prove my age & identity (like what a birth certificate does). I want to go back to the Philippines and serach for my birth parents and siblings.

Does any one know what step I should take First??

2006-11-21 09:16:02 · 1 answers · asked by Chelle 2 in Friends

I have been married for over ten years. My husband is really cute and would be happy with sex every night. Me on the other hand , I am perfectly content for once a month.
We have three kids ages 8,6 and three. I work full time retail hours, and I do almost all of the running around that keeps a house running.

I feel sexy but not sexual. Anyone out there that has been through this?

2006-11-21 09:15:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me & My GF want each other like anything. We would like to marry each other. But the problem is that her Father is oposing this marrage. He Has A Weak Heart & Blood Pressure problem. Now my GF is in a dilema whether she should go with the marrage or go with her father's chosen BOY cause she fears with any ansiety over her marrage will bring severe consequence to her Father's Health. PLZ Help................ We Love Each Other and would like to marry someday preety SOON...... Seriously I Need advise... So PLZ Say Something...... Dont Just Answer It Like Any Other Question

2006-11-21 09:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by coolad 2 in Singles & Dating

i have to write a paper that is somewhat related to this question..so if anyone knows good advice for this type of person...can you please post it here?
Thanks

2006-11-21 09:14:06 · 1 answers · asked by desiladki 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why don't guys want the long distance relationship...

2006-11-21 09:14:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you think if you were approached by an average guy whom you never talked to and he said something that complimented you.......even he wasnt your dream guy would you talk to him and have a converstation, or be like ewwww get away?

2006-11-21 09:14:00 · 19 answers · asked by tdubbya01 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is a question, should a family doctor be flirting with a female patient? I mean flirting like sexual innuendos, touching, play fighting, constantly teasing (giving mock insults) and giving me a look that is so intense my instints are saying he wants more. He is married too. And another thing, every time he examines me or one of my kids, his hand is on top of mine, his legs are around mine, his head against mine - I swear I feel like if I moved an inch, his lips would be right on mine.

What can I do and am I overreacting - do you think this is just his personality and maybe I am a feel good drug for him as I friendly tease him back and maybe I too am guilty of flirting with him. Is he flirting for fun or with intent?

2006-11-21 09:13:31 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so theres this boy at school, and he's super cute. I have a hunch he likes me (he stares at me alot) but he hasn't asked me out yet. Okay, i know ppl. i've gone through some other boy isses, but that guy moved and now he has a girl friend. But i'm pretty sure this guy likes me. But how do i tell? and if he does, how come he hasn't asked me out yet?

2006-11-21 09:13:29 · 9 answers · asked by drama_qn 2 in Singles & Dating