help!!!!!!!!!! what should i do
2006-11-21 09:18:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what you want. If he persists its called stalking and you shouldnt take this lightly....warn him and tell your friends to be on the lookout for him...if you dont like him there is probably a reason for it...use your intuition or that inner self that talks to all of us. Be careful
2006-11-21 09:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Average_JOE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would one date hurt? You get free dinner and maybe a show. But if he really does gross you out or scare you, don’t go. Just tell him that if he thinks that’s how to win you over, its hugely mistaken and back off! If he really does like you and wants the best for you, he'd back off and stop putting so much pressure on you. I know this next question is weird and ill explain it in a minute, does he say this stuff when he's around his friends or are you two alone when he says it? If he's around his friends, he's showing off and I would take it seriously. If he says it when you're alone, first off, don’t be alone! Second off, stay away! Good luck!
2006-11-21 17:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Little Southern Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go on a date with him - don't go. Because that would not get him to leave you alone. That would teach him that if he just bothers you enough, then you'll give in and do what he wants you to do. You don't want to send that type of message. Tell him to back off and leave you alone. otherwise he's stalking you and there are laws against that.
2006-11-21 17:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you like him go on a date, if not then you need to be forward with him. If he is still really persistent then you need to think about what to do...is he or could he be dangerous, like stalker type or is he harmless. Just be careful until you get this settled and make sure you stay with friends and such, there are way to many things that happen and you're best to avoid any situations until you're sure he'll leave you be.
2006-11-21 17:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like stalking material. You already know that he won't leave you alone if you go on this "only one" date. Don't go down that road. Make it clear you're not interested and take further steps if he continues to persist.
2006-11-21 17:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you reeeeally didn't want to go out with him AT ALL you wouldn't be asking us what to do. If you two are just friends right now and you've put off going out with him because "it's" not there, then I say go out with him and give it a shot. If he's a creep and you're feeling harassed, then tell him he's a creep and that it feels like he's harassing you. I think you already know what you want to do...don't you? giggle giggle
2006-11-21 17:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by crazyboutmygirls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what it sounds like you don't feel the same way about him so no don't go on a date with him. Besides going out with him will probably just have the opposite effect.
2006-11-21 17:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go on a date with him, he will just pressure you into going on another. Be very final and harsh if need be, when you tell him no, you're not interested in the least.
2006-11-21 17:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dmitri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to go out with a jerk. That's not the way to get a girl. And if he wont tell the police, its harassment.
2006-11-21 17:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Gothic Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIM!!!
If you go out on one date he will NOT leave you alone! He is trying to trick you girl!!
Tell him to beat it! Get LOST loser!!!
Tell him "NO", even if you have to be a b*tch! Say sorry, but I'm not into you. NO THANKS!
2006-11-21 17:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋