Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

There isn't even family coming over, just my mom's friend. So what the h*ll?! What if I don't want to follow that stupid tradition of eating with the family and eating that same old icky food? What can I do?! Stupid traditions!...... I want to move out!!!!!! >:[ !!!
So....oh, right, the question. I need some good answers! What will change my parents' minds? THANK YOU

2006-11-21 08:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 and half months, and I would never have guessed she was a virgin. She is such a beautiful girl on the inside and out, I mean she's gorgeous!!!!! And can have any guy she wants. She is 24 years old and wants to have sex; but every time we get close to having sex she freaks out! The last time I went down on her for the first time everything was going fine then her legs began to tremble; until she was on the brink of an orgasm, and sobbing, no, over, and over again. I immediately stopped and held her in my arms (like always when she about to have an orgasm!) I held her in my arms while she cried, and told her everything’s going to be okay. I've tried several times to get her to have an orgasm, but nothing works. She’s too afraid! I thought that maybe she was raped or something like that but she assured me that’s not the case, and that she’s never had an orgasm before, and gets a little frighten when she about to have one. I want her to be ready before we have intercourse for the first time but I a man and I need to get laid!!!! Don’t get me wrong I love her very much, and care about how she feels, but how can I help her over come her fear?
I’ve asked her more then once if anything happen to her sexually in the pass, against her own will. And it’s the same answer all the time “no”. The only thing I can come up with is that she was adopted when she was a baby into a really strict very religious family who never talks and (FROWN UPOAN) anything sexual. But (Violet) my girlfriend has nothing against sex, and we talk about it all the time.
Could it be that being raised in a in a strict family and never really talking about sex, be the reason for her problem??? Dose anyone know what it's like to be raised in a Family?? Please Share your experience

2006-11-21 08:51:39 · 21 answers · asked by campkiwago 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for a 22 year old and 34 year old man to date. He has two children and she has none. How do you think her family would feel about? her brother are both younger then him. ? HMMMMM

2006-11-21 08:50:47 · 29 answers · asked by soco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If my ex really like her and I'm jealous what should I do because I like him so so so much but he doesnt like me anymore and I'm really sad. What should I do because it stinks!! I LOVE him!!!!!!

2006-11-21 08:48:59 · 21 answers · asked by kazarnicole 1 in Singles & Dating

theres thisa girl i have liked for a while and we are great friends we joke around alot but theres one problem.
she already goes out with some one.
and the real problem is that i cant get her out of my head
i realy realy like her
what do i do?

2006-11-21 08:48:56 · 20 answers · asked by luis 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 08:48:43 · 37 answers · asked by Emma W 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever we get together with a lot of relatives for an event like Thanksgiving the men always sit at the same table, the women at another, and the kids at the children's table - they are so cute, bless their hearts! A man carves (usually the oldest) the turkey up and then the men and children sit down while the women serve them and finally the women sit down at their table. Well, my husband showed me a painting in history book of the pilgrim and indian men sitting at the same table with the women. Do you think it would be uppity of me to ask my grandfather if the women can sit at their table after we serve them? My husband says he wouldn't mind if we all sit at the table but that I had better do what my grandpa says out of respect. I don't want to sound like a whiny brat on here but its just that I love listening to men's conversations sometimes because they talk about some neat and important things. Please don't get me wrong - I love talking with ladies and will be happy with

2006-11-21 08:48:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a prob. when I am with my bf and we are havin sex, I can't reach an orgasm. He does everything the way I like, I just feel pressured to reach and orgasm as if I'm being graded or something. When he asks me about it physically I close up I want to talk but I get filled with so much emotion and nothing comes out its almost as if something outside myself is restricting me from talking. I want to just be able to relax and enjoy the sex but I spend most of the experience trying to please him but he tells me he gets pleasure from me being pleased. I love everything he does it just I feel so much pressure to reach and orgasm that i dont. What do I do? No harsh or rude answers please truly need help!

2006-11-21 08:48:08 · 4 answers · asked by CollegeDropIN 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother doesnt like my fiance. She made me choose between them, so i choose my fiance cause i love him and i deserve to be happy right? Now that i've chose him she doesnt want me around. My fiance said that i should move in with him, he lives 575 miles away from where i live. He's going to school at the moment. So what do i do go live with him?

2006-11-21 08:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by Kittykat_diva69 1 in Family

Exspalin your definion or tell a story when you was in love

2006-11-21 08:47:16 · 5 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to be able to randomly make new friends, get everyone to love my jokes and me, and make myself a friendly congenial person instead of standing silently beside my bff and laughing at HER jokes.

im going to a party tomorrow. this guy i like will be there! how do fun, sarcastic, and likable people do what they do? how can i do that?

thanks. and ps im 17. and DONT SAY, JUST BE YOURSELF. because thats not what im looking for and you wont be helping.

2006-11-21 08:47:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i have been dating for almost 5years now. but i moved out of the country 2years ago for work. and we havent seen each other for tht long. both of us decided to remain exclusive and have a long-distance relationship bec we realy want to marry each other when i get back home. its realy hard. but i love him so much and i know tht he loves me too. i even told him that if he cant handle this kind of relationship, then we can break up and i wud understand. but the thing is, would he last that long w/o having, u know, sex. i know i shud trust him but i need a guys point of view about this. if u love a girl and plan to marry her, wud u really wait and remain faithful?

2006-11-21 08:47:07 · 4 answers · asked by no way! 1 in Singles & Dating

heres the situation. i've been dating a guy for 5 years and we've talked about marriage. he's suppose to be paying child support but hasn't been doing so. i know this is bad and i didn't find out about this till about 2 years ago. i've obviosly decided to stay with him. but he owes about 25k right now. i've been thinking what this could do to us. if we were to get married he says we can file separate taxes and not share bank accounts and get a prenup. i dont really know too much about the prenup. will this protect me and my assets? i don't like the idea of a prenup. it's a just in case thing. but in this case he makes it seem like it's necessary due to the child support thing. any info will help

2006-11-21 08:46:59 · 24 answers · asked by sexy-cecy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just friends with a girl and I know that she thinks I am attractive, how can I convince her to date me? I really like her, more than I have liked any other woman.

2006-11-21 08:46:57 · 10 answers · asked by chris k 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a teenager and i am in luv....
u see there is this boy i adore but he ignores me
wtf should i do??
I LUV HIM BUT HE DONT EVEN KNOW ME!

2006-11-21 08:46:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, our reception is in the same place as the ceremony. We are doing our formal pictures together after the ceremony. Should we even bother with walking out of the church together for people to toss things (flower petals, confetti, etc) or just skip it since we will be turning around and walking right back in? I dont' think we are going to have any kind of bus or anything since we aren't going anywhere and don't want to leave the guests sitting at the reception for a long time.

2006-11-21 08:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by TML 2 in Weddings

I recently had a friends with benefits relationship with a 35 year old divorced mother of 3 who apparently suffers from bipolar or so she says. She was having friends with benefits relationships with two other guys and when I told her I loved her, which I do she wouldn't talk to me or return my e-mails.

2006-11-21 08:46:41 · 8 answers · asked by poolk j 1 in Singles & Dating

Pregnancy. Who else thinks that children HAVE to wait until they havea decent job and a great future spouse (girl/boyfriend) until they start to perform the actions necessary to conceive? I completely think that instead of sex education, they should have sex deglamorization. I'm 22, and still awesomely clean thanks to being Trojan Man!

2006-11-21 08:46:39 · 8 answers · asked by Cold Fart 6 in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend wants me to be with his family on Thanksgiving, Mother does not....what should I do???
My mom says that I should not spend thanksgiving with my boyfriend and his family unless I am engaged to him and that I should spead it with my own instead. I explained to her that I would spend thanksgiving with his family and he would spend christmas with mine
Why could she feel this way it's like she wants me to choose becuase I can't do both?
What does this mean that I am with him and his family on Thanksgiving in terms of our relationship, if I don't will he be hurt too?

We are in our twenties have been dating for almost a year....

2006-11-21 08:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 08:45:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 08:45:39 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husbands exwife trys to control him by using their 7yr old son as bait to get what she wants.She is jealous that we are married and i have a good relationship with their son.she has made it very clear she wants me to stay out off her sons life.Here are a few examples if my husband can not watch him she is to be called to come and get him i am not allowed to watch him.i am not allowed to have any contact with his school and the list goes on.i have never tryed to "play mom" with her son or said anything bad about her in front of him.my husband allows all this to go on as he says he can't control what she does but he will not even confront her about any of this stuff as he knows she will attack him.So we just allow her to say and do what ever she wants.I think he should stand up to her but he will not in fear it will hurt his son.should i just let this go and just not be involved in his sons life as this seems to really bother his ex wife.

2006-11-21 08:45:06 · 8 answers · asked by janegreener08 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-21 08:44:38 · 10 answers · asked by julie s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husbands exwife trys to control him by using their 7yr old son as bait to get what she wants.She is jealous that we are married and i have a good relationship with their son.she has made it very clear she wants me to stay out off her sons life.Here are a few examples if my husband can not watch him she is to be called to come and get him i am not allowed to watch him.i am not allowed to have any contact with his school and the list goes on.i have never tryed to "play mom" with her son or said anything bad about her in front of him.my husband allows all this to go on as he says he can't control what she does but he will not even confront her about any of this stuff as he knows she will attack him.So we just allow her to say and do what ever she wants.I think he should stand up to her but he will not in fear it will hurt his son.should i just let this go and just not be involved in his sons life as this seems to really bother his ex wife.

2006-11-21 08:44:34 · 17 answers · asked by janegreener08 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Used any good ones lately? I have all the real emotions, just need some help with getting it into words. I love him & want him to know. Help!

2006-11-21 08:44:25 · 2 answers · asked by CoronaGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

especially if they are 9 - 10 ?

2006-11-21 08:44:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to make a long story short, my boyfriend broke up with his ex before we started going out. They did have sex together and now that there not together anymore (she doesnt know were together) if she finds out she says she'll want to press charges for statutory rape! can she leaglly do that? since it has been so long since they were together and had sex! And with her harassing me like she has been what can i do to her legally (not that i really want to get involved although i feel as tho i am since im with him) shes 16 hes 18! what should i do? besides walk away and leave the situation alone?
Thanks A LOT

2006-11-21 08:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by Squirrel G 1 in Singles & Dating

OK first thing is first I was living with my father for about 3 months after completeing the Job Corps program. My father has basicually mental and physically abused me my entire life. One day I was fixing some chicken and french fries and the grease make a little popping noise and it woke my father up he than got mad and threw a coffee cup at me striking me in the head which caused a cut that had to be closed up by staples. I went down to the police station right after it happened and told them and of course they put him in jail. Anyways I was going to College at the time which I am still going and I now am homeless living in my car. I went to my grandmas which is my dads mother which she lives in Owensboro, Ky and asked her and see if I could stay with her for awhile until I got back on my feet and she basicually said no. She said that she was so set in her ways that she just could'nt and my Uncle and Aunt was sitting there to and they didnt help either I believe they are mad at me

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because I called the law on my dad which is my grandmas son, uncles borther and aunts brother, I have been living in my car off and on for about 3 months. Churches have been helping me out alittle which I am greatful for but they put me in a hotel for one night and something to eat for a night and of course I am greatful. Well than I started to go on a drinking benge and got a P.I. in Owensboro, Ky and thats a fine I have to pay and then about a week later I went to Evansville In, and was pissing out in the parking lot thought no one was watching and the cops roll up and take me to jail for public nudity and a P.I. stayed in jail for about 5 hours and they let me out. I know you are woundering how I got the money to drink and I got it from raking leaves. Then I went to the police station a couple days later to get a voucher to get a place to stay and to eat and gave them my ID they ran my name and it said I had a suspended licence in Indiana but I was in kentucky and my kentuckys is ok

2006-11-21 08:43:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay so heres my situation, i have known this girl for years now (im a senior in high school) and ever since we met we have always had chemistry together, were always flirting back and forth with each other and can always talk about anything. during sopmore year, i was about to ask her out, but never made a move and she went off with another guy, now during our senior year.. were startinhg to flirt again ( she stil has a bf) such as shes always in my face when were talking, always calling out my name when she sees me in the halls, and everytime she sees me she runs up and initiates the conversation, she makes the extra effort to walk with me in the direction that i go and whenever we hang out (in groups) she always texts me after asking me if i had a good time. also her feet always point towards me when we talk and other things. now heres my question... shes still with her bf and im inlove with her... what do i do? what other signs should i be looking for? i need answersand plenty ofem

2006-11-21 08:42:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a lil crush on my ss high school teacher, but hes married and hes 23. is that weird?

2006-11-21 08:41:18 · 11 answers · asked by PreTty in PiNk 2 in Singles & Dating