Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

is his advice ligit?

2006-11-21 08:14:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

are there things in Buffalo that are entertaining ?

2006-11-21 08:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by Serene M 1 in Family

2006-11-21 08:13:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and I have caught him 5 times talking to other women on the internet. One of the times he was sending a picture of his private part to them and trying to set up a date so she could give him a *$@!-Job. Another time he was trying to set up dates with girls around the area. He keeps promising me that he will never do it again. The last two times that I caught him was when I was 7 months pregnant with our 2nd son, and then again 1 month after he was born; he is now 2 months old. He swears he loves me, and I know that he does, but then why does he keep doing it? I am not even going to bother to try to see if he is doing it agian cause I am tired of it. Plus, he rarely wants to have sex with me. I have to beg him for a straight week before he actually does. I am not fat or "ugly" or anything, I have no stretch marks on my stomache and am a good wife to him. Someone please tell me what you think. I have chosen to stay and deal with it, but maybe I shouldn't...but I love him so much.

2006-11-21 08:13:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i havent been invited to this girls party in my sixthform year, my friends hav and feel a bit left out. i stupidly asked the girl if i could come cause im not used to this party experience thing and said sorry afterwards cause i thought it was a bit off for me to do that but also feel like shes tellin every that i asked her, i've jus started this school and feel like everythings a mess already. i feel like girls get intimidated to talk to me cause im asian and brown and thats why i dont get invited. i need advise on how to handle this and feel so stupid for askin he in the first place. help please!!

2006-11-21 08:12:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 08:12:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i really like my brothers friend hes 18 years old im 16. we kissed about a month or so ago and the other day he told me its hard for us to have sex considering hes my brothers friend. we've never had sex before .I dont want to get hurt. but i want more than sex with him cuz i like him alot. this whole thing is so frustrating what should i do?

2006-11-21 08:12:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I'm a femal virgin, I've had a boyfriend who I didn't do anything with. I keep having sexual fantasies but when and how should I lose it? For fun or love?

2006-11-21 08:12:45 · 49 answers · asked by Cass 3 in Singles & Dating

I simply cant take it anymore. She smells like garbage. But she'll only do it with me if I spend like 30 mins down there

2006-11-21 08:12:11 · 20 answers · asked by biggybig77 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i was in school and i have this welt on my neck from a bug bite, so people kept thinking it was a hicky. I cracked at one pint and said " I don't have someone to give me a hicky, ive only had three boyfriends in my life and none of which gave me a hicky, OK" apparently your not supposed to say that kind of thing in highschool because they sat there staring jawdropped, a lot of people too. Is it not normal to be 15 and to have only have had 3 BF's

2006-11-21 08:11:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can i do? i feel like i lost the world..
i love her very much , i don't even know what should i call her now?
dahling?or her name?
im sad, should i let her know that i cried?
or should i just pretend i'm nothing even she break with me?
i miss her , should i call her or text her?
she told me to forget her , because she won't come back to me, im so sad..
She's my first love , i cant forget the moment we together ,
whatever things i saw , i think of her ..
My exams is coming in two weeks later, I can't study..

Many of them told me to forget her for a moment, if i really love her , i can gain back her in the future, but by this short time , i feel like i cant control myself ..
im sad ..very...

2006-11-21 08:10:38 · 9 answers · asked by nick_chai 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 08:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by bratzrus19 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend did it watching poorn the other day but honestly it bothered me i don tsee why he wanted to watch it while doing it. he has me. i got a lil mad at it. why does he want to see two girls on top of each other while we do it? im confused. he said he likes it but i dont. is it a sign or am i just being dumb? i dont know. i dont want to watch it while doing it. i already talked to him about it, he said he'll stop but it aint the same knowing he likes that. i told him its like me wanting to look at another guys body and magic stick while we do it cuz his is better. Is there something wrong with me or is he right? girl do you look at it the same way and guys why do you like it like that?

2006-11-21 08:10:09 · 4 answers · asked by money-ca 2 in Singles & Dating

I am good looking. I am a millionaire and I am 25 yrs old. But I asked a girl out. All I said was you should be grateful for me to ask you out. She works for me. She called me an asshole.

Why do ppl work so hard for? MONEY. I have that so shouldn't everyone respect me. I even bought her a 7 series free and got her a flat.

I think women should respect guys like me cos we decide things in this world.

I think what she did was wrong.

2006-11-21 08:09:05 · 2 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 08:08:01 · 19 answers · asked by shedevilmamma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend who need some cheering up, she was falling for this guy and she thought he felt the same about her but then he forced her to do 'threesome' she is heart broken and violated, she dont want to talk to him but she still got feelings for him, what should i do?

2006-11-21 08:07:55 · 31 answers · asked by Princess P 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 08:06:42 · 4 answers · asked by Saundra L 2 in Singles & Dating

ive noticed that spanish/latinos are more open minded when it comes to dating outside their own race.
I personally would like to date outside my race (im latino) but for some reason it never happens.
Im from new york and white women here are very stuck up and want to date the rich guys ,white guys or even asians.
Do you think they are just being racist or they are just shallow?

2006-11-21 08:06:19 · 11 answers · asked by CuriousJorge07 3 in Singles & Dating

what does that mean?

2006-11-21 08:05:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's the thing. My marriage is a disaster. My mind tells me I should have left my husband a long time ago but I'd forgive and forget and try to carry on with the pieces. My faith tells me to stay put. My heart is caught in the middle not knowing what to do. There are children involved. We are going through counseling and I think there's "some" hope. After everything that's happened I ended up hurt by his actions and in turn am hurting him with my indecision. Yet, he remains. So, there's hope. I can forgive and even forget but I know he's just not that into me and quite frankly I'm not that into him. We'd like to make it work especially for the children. So, how do we get the spark back into our marriage from here? I don't trust him yet. I know that's a big problem. We've had sex again and this was difficult for me but enjoyable anyway. However, I don't want to engage in sex for now because I don't want to confuse sexual feelings with loving feelings. Now what?

2006-11-21 08:05:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever girl answser?
If you fell un confertbel anwsering one of the questions skip it
I got this off one of my freinds bullentins on myspace!!!I


1. Your Name:
2. Age:
3. Fave Color:
4. Are you a virgin?
5. Are we friends?
6. Do you have a crush on me?
7. Would you kiss me?
8. ...with tongue?
9. Would you enjoy it?
10. Would you ever ask me out?
11.Would you make a move on me in a movie theater?
12. Would you take care of me when I'm sick?
13. Do you want to tell me something that you couldn't before?
14.Would you walk on the beach with me?
15. If you heard a rumor about me, would you defend me?
16. Do you/have you talk **** about me?
17. Do you think I'm a good person?
18. Would you let me sleep with you (in the same bed)?
19.Do you think I'm hot?
20. If you could change anything about me -
21.Would you have sex with me?
22.Would you come over for no reason just to hang out?
23. Will you post this so I can fill it out for you?
24. what do you rate this quiz

2006-11-21 08:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Friends

Some of us do not type or spell everything correctly. Ok so what. Why do people take the time simply to post that you misspelled something? Like an A-ha I got you. Ok, does that make them feel better about themselves? Half the time if you go look at some of thier post there are misspelled words everywhere. They just found the word they can spell in you post.Adds nothing to the forum. Does anyone else grow tired of this?

2006-11-21 08:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

im kind of the guy who only like SKINNY, or even more skinny, girls. i think FAT ones are too round and turns me off.

2006-11-21 08:02:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought I had met the life of my life 2 years ago, he was everything I wanted in a man, a loving father to his children from a previous relationship, a hard working, responsible, kind-hearted, man....(these are few and far between). He had a great job with benefits...then we moved in together. At first things were great I went to school to pursue my life long dream of working in the medical field and he paid the bills, I got preganant and he got layed off he promised me he would find something, well it has been 2 years since tehn, 2 children later, a bank levy, I had to put school on hold and work full time and we are just makin g it by, meanwhile he sits home all day and has not filled out one application. I no what I want to do, leave, but what about the babies, they are so young and they love him so much they spend every moment with him.......

2006-11-21 08:02:08 · 8 answers · asked by TLAA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have one friend in the world. I met him online. He tells me he loves me. But he has a wife he hasn't divorced, and an ex gf whom he keeps giving money to on his credit card.
He's telling me the only way we can rid her of our lives is to take on the responsibility of paying off her debt.
I will be in school tell Feb. NOW If I move out to his state and we live together and we try and make a life together, and IF I'm helping pay off of his ex's debt she got to have fun with of thousands, DO I or DONT I have the right to know all about it, not a story here and a story there!!!
Wouldn't you want to know the details???

2006-11-21 08:01:41 · 25 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6 in Singles & Dating

In your opinion, what's the best way to give a ring as a gift to your girlfriend without her thinking you're proposing? It's meant for her right ring finger, but I don't want her to get the wrong impression and think I'm moving too fast, or worse think I'm proposing and saying "Yes".

By the way, this is a Christmas gift.

2006-11-21 08:00:27 · 13 answers · asked by Pluto Jones 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 07:59:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK I have a friend who says loads of stuff about themselves. She says that she owns her own helicopter (which could be true, ahe is like a multi millionaire) and that Simon Cowell is her godfather. How can I find the truth? She uses this stuff to make me feel small.

2006-11-21 07:58:51 · 10 answers · asked by Cass 3 in Friends

am with someone been with them for 4years now how do i say i dont love them and ive sad every day am with them please help

2006-11-21 07:58:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out that my husband has been chatting on line with another woman, in another state for 3-4 months. Their "chatting" consists of explicit sex talk. I feel like this is cheating, he doesn't. Who is right?

2006-11-21 07:58:18 · 27 answers · asked by audinoz69 1 in Marriage & Divorce