for all women?

Question

i have a friend who need some cheering up, she was falling for this guy and she thought he felt the same about her but then he forced her to do 'threesome' she is heart broken and violated, she dont want to talk to him but she still got feelings for him, what should i do?

for the record this has nothing to do with me i will do a stunt like that so stop assume its me, its not.

i would NOT do a stunt like this- correction for the first part, i need honest opinions.

Answer 1

Take her out...go to the movies with her or take her shopping, or even go on some double dates with new hunnies...make her forget the jerk!!

Answer 2

Just ask your friend if she thinks someone who claimed they had feelings for her would request such a horrid act on her part If she says no, then explain to her in a very gentle manner that he's not worth the time or effort. He's proven through his actions that he has no respect for her and should therefore be erased from her heart and memory. Assure her that there are other worthy men out there and even though she may feel devastated now, it will get better with time. Your friend obviously has values and morals which she upholds and if nothing else, she must be commended for that, so just stick by her and be supportive. Do girl stuff that you know would cheer her up and whenever he comes up, just reassure her that he's not worth it. In time he'll get what's coming his way because alotta guys these days seem to be forgetting one simple truth and that is: AIDS is out there and it is very real so when they are out sleeping with whomsoever allows them to sleep with them, they are exposing themselves to this disease and also run the risk of passing it on to others if and when they do contract it.

Answer 3

Ok, first of all NO ONE can be FORCED to do a threesome. That in itself is something to notify the POLICE FOR. She needs to wake up and seriously smell some strong black coffee. Is she demented that she REALLY loves this dude. She needs to seek help. She should feel more than heartbroken or violated she should be PISSED off and tell the authorities of what he did. Good God is there people out there that really have no CLUE!!!

Answer 4

As our moms used to say, "If the guy wanted you to jump off a bridge, would you do that, too?" Anyone who does something against his or her principles just to please someone else doesn't have a sense of self-worth. I am not saying a "threesome" is immoral -- if that is your thing, and all three of the participants want to do it, then that's fine. But if you don't feel good about doing it and you allow someone else to talk you into it, then feel bad about it later, you need to chalk it up to experience and never do it again. Then find someone else who will respect your feelings and principles. Don't waste time feeling "violated" and don't waste your feelings on this person.

Answer 5

Well I would remind her of how much of a scum bag he is for using her for his own personal pleasure, and how it made her feel..this way she can try and get over him for remembering how much of an @$$ he was!! Unless she really don't care deep down and only was crying and stuff because she was embarrassed that the people close to her found out and she's ashamed..but either way he is a @$# head for doing that to her and I would press charges, especiallyt if this was against her will, that is WRONG! Any guy that tried and do something like that to me would be missing a few limbs in the genital region!!

Answer 6

that hurts. its happened to all of us. im scared for commitment and at 15 im still scared to ask the same guy iv liked for the past 4 years. i can't say yes to anyone because im not sure if its a joke. when i asked this guy out and he said no it was like woa there goes gravity. let her take this in and let her see that it was only 1 guy not all of them, i found something after i did that and im really sure by the time we are 18 we'll still have each other he turly is the 1 and his name is Chase, i hope it works out for her e-mail me at [e-mail] (there is an underscore were the space is ) hope it works.

Answer 7

I know it sounds like a cliche but the best thing you can do for her is to be there for her, listen to her and be a shoulder for her to cry on... Don't let her be alone and dwelling, take her out or invite her round and eat ice-cream together and watch funny movies... And don't let her call him, it's for the best that she just leaves that part of her life behind... You can't be a better friend to her than that.

Answer 8

step one- wait for a weekend when u are both free
step two-that friday, bring her a cheesecake, some oreos, and a chick flick and cheer her up all night long, listen to her, and let her cry on your shoulder
step three- on saturday, go to the gym together, then shopping for really hott outfits, and then take her out dancing, preferably at a club with really hot guys

Answer 9

First you need to make your friend feel better. Help her feel better by having a girls ngith out or something that never makes her frown. Secondly you need to make sure the guy knows what he did to your friend. Rub it in to him, he needs to feel guilty.You need to talk to him for her if she feels violated or uncomfortable talking to him. Tell him how both you and she feels about what he did. Give him a piece of your minds.

Answer 10

Nobody can 'force' anyone to 'do a threesome'!!! What did they do, tie her up or something?

If she's still got 'feelings' for him, then there is no help for her.

Answer 11

Well if he actually forced her that would be rape. I assume she agreed to it and now regrets it--that is her problem. If he let her go along with something she wasnt comfortable with though she needs to move on. Obviously he doesnt care about her.