Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

What are some things i should know first or questions to ask so not a lot of surprises?

2006-11-21 07:43:50 · 6 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Singles & Dating

i liked my best friend (dan) for 4 years. but i haven't liked him for 6 months. now im going out w/ a different one of my guy friends (we've been together for 2 months), who liked me for 3 years. i rele like my bf. all of my other guys friends have started the whole "u luv dan" thing all over again.

i've talked to my bf about how i dont- and he says he believes me. but i thought that everyone had figured out that i didn't like my best friend a long time ago- but here it is again.

mostly i just dont want to lose my bf b/c my friends r being stupid.

any advice on wat to do?

o yea, my best friend and i r "fun" people, like we r flirty and stuff w/ each other all the time. but we both no it doesn't mean anything- its just the way our friendship is
and we never did anything, we just talk like we have (but never like we did anything w/ the other person when the other person had a gf/bf)

2006-11-21 07:43:30 · 6 answers · asked by neverland22 5 in Singles & Dating

She only married him for his money. She was a stupid waitress when he met her. Then she soaked him in a divorce.

She was living in a million dollar townhouse which has probably tripled by now. She was cruising around in a Ferrari on his dime and living off his alimony. He she is, living on his payments, eating out, shopping and dating different men.

She taunted and provoked him with a young boy toy coming to the townhouse he paid for...... Maybe she got what she had coming?

I fail to see how these women think they are hitting the lottery by divorcing men with money?

2006-11-21 07:43:00 · 26 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Singles & Dating

What do i do me and my girl broke up last friday and since then we still talk every day and we kiss and tell each other that we love the other thing is she doesnt want to see me and she still reminds me that where not together and that she not mine what do i do ? See she broke up with me because i accused her of cheating on me with her ex boyfriend who still hangs around hes at her house to bay his cell phone bill thats in her name and he will sit out in front of her house untill she comes out he calls her all the time and he called me and told me that they where still together and tha i need to stop messing with his girl....This girl means every thing to me i lover her more than any other girl ive ever been with i thought that she was the one what do i do

2006-11-21 07:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by Lab Runner 5 in Singles & Dating

why do women do this im in a kind of awkward situation i met a women 4 months ago and she tried to sleep with me but im not like that im a strong fundamental christian i dont believe in sex before marriage. Ever since then it made us close and we can talk about anything and she always gets upset if i mention other women but she can talk to other men and i dont get upset cause she said she just wants friendship. Can it be she is scared to get hurt she thinks im extremley good looking and i do meet a lot of women everywhere and she knows i have a lot of female friends.

2006-11-21 07:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend totally blew me off for his cousin We had plans to talk to my mom about my sweet 16 but he left and he said I embaressed him b/c I yealled at him infront of his family I think he was wrong and he deserved it what do you think?

2006-11-21 07:42:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 07:42:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a very shy girl im really attracted to and she said she liked me too. The other day I gave her a sweat poem and now she told me she would like to be "just friends." Im very confused, she still flirts with me and when i flirt back she gets mad. what does this girl want? any advise would be appreciated, thank you

2006-11-21 07:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by Steve M 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats uppppp?
im trying to see how many comments i can get on this thing...
so leave me a comment. ;]
♥

10 points to the 62nd person!

2006-11-21 07:41:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2 in Singles & Dating

I work with a lady who is in the hospital with pneumonia. I feel like I should take something for her when I go to see her. The problem? I don't know her very well and I am broke! What should I do?

2006-11-21 07:40:22 · 11 answers · asked by followmyleader1 2 in Friends

Feel free to look at my other questions on this subject here too...too many anonymous trigger happy reporters on here ifyou ask me...a few people i know have left in disgust...;0)

2006-11-21 07:40:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is gay and we always tell each other about our boyfriends. he always says that my boyfriends are cute and that he would totally sleep with them (that makes me so mad). so he knew i like this guy and the guy spent the night at my friends house because he is friends with my friends cousin. he told me that he was going to try something with him and even though i told him not to he did. the guy didn't fall for it though because he isn't gay. my friend is the type who tries to turn straight guys gay and he thinks everyone wants him and all this other crap. i am at the point where i don't tell him about any guys that i talk to and i hide every thing from him. if i go out with a guy i say it's my cousin and he'll ask can he go and i'll say no and he'll ask why and i'll say because it's girl's nite out...and u know what he says, "i'm part of the girls" and we get in this big fight. i don't like hidin stuff but he is making me hide it. what should i do about him?

2006-11-21 07:39:50 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Friends

My boyfriend told me that today and ive never heard that saying before

2006-11-21 07:39:49 · 9 answers · asked by magdaleal14 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is being harrassed by a woman twice her age (see's 28 and the lady is 29). She keeps emailing this horrible emails for about 2 weeks now. All over $90. My friend paid her with a money order making sure to send it through the post office requiring a signature. Now a week later (my friend hasn't contacted her) she's being served by the sheriff. We know it's because of this crazy lady. I think it's a restraining order. Will a restraining order ruin her teaching career?

2006-11-21 07:39:15 · 16 answers · asked by luvladyblue 3 in Friends

I have a friend who just met another woman and who really doesn't seem to like or want to hang out with me or our mutual friends. My friend is spending all her time with her and not her before this girl friends. When I call her to hang out with her, she's like I already have plans with this other girl. We used to hang out all the time and now it's like I am being pushed to the curb. Our mutual friends seem to think the same way about her always being with this one woman! Why is she blowing us off to hang with her?They are both married and have kids, and their kids and hubbies get along well, but does that mean she gets the right to only hang out with the other woman? It's not fair, and I am getting to the point, I dont want to try and be friends with her anymore. What do you think I should do? Ive told her I was not feeling like we are friends, but nothing has changed! help!please!
We are all women and we all used to hang out every weekend till
this other woman has like taken over!

2006-11-21 07:38:47 · 4 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Friends

This man is not the least bit religious either.

2006-11-21 07:38:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f didnt know what his friend did b/c he tried to fight him when he founf out and he does not talk to that boy anymore

2006-11-21 07:37:55 · 16 answers · asked by yours truly 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm married, i have 2 children, a house and a job and i'm very happy. But what is there to look forward to now? (not in a fickle way).

2006-11-21 07:36:13 · 44 answers · asked by sammyantha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I (both almost 30)have been in a relationship for 8 months, although we have known each other longer. Things are fantastic, we are in love, and I definitly feel lucky to have met someone I feel is such a great partner. We have a lot of fun together and he is kind, compassionate, and wants the same things I do in life. Recently I have noticed him making comments or alluding to things that lead me to think he may be ready to pop the q. On the train one day he asked me about wedidng rings...which fingers they go on etc. Another time he told me not to do anything more with my apt. He then said he wanted my input on everything with his place from now on. Another time he said after we talked about jewelry, that he would only wear one piece, (pointing to his ring finger) then for the holiday he mentioned he, "knew what he really wanted to do but thinks he should wait til my birthday to be sure, then winking, I am not sure if I am ready quite yet... " what do you think?

2006-11-21 07:33:57 · 12 answers · asked by brandy m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 07:33:14 · 20 answers · asked by INOTFRIEND 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

he divorce a year ago was very painful hes really hurt and dont whan to date for a very long time. we see each other once a week
he calls me every day. he trsts me nice as if he care he has done things that makes me feel that he care like taken me to the beach to see the sunrice. with out him sleeping for 24 hours to stay with me. hes gone out of his ways to plase me in lots of ways.
he says he dosent whan a grilfriend that he whans a friend that if i was hes grilfriend we will one day brake up and he will lost me but if im his friend will be together forever. so he rather have me as he friend instad os a griend frend. he knows that i love him he has shown me in some ways that he loves me but at the same time confuses me. like he told me i wount ask you to marry me but i wount let you marred any one else ether. what dost that mean. plase help.

2006-11-21 07:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by lizzetruby 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 07:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by maya 1 in Singles & Dating

MY MOM IS JUST TO INTO HER DRUGS AND HER MANY BOYFRIENDS.

2006-11-21 07:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by sarah s 1 in Family

2006-11-21 07:32:12 · 12 answers · asked by INOTFRIEND 4 in Singles & Dating

how do i propose to my girlfriend?

2006-11-21 07:31:57 · 20 answers · asked by Hell's Collection Agency 2 in Weddings

Here is the situation. Intercourse lasted about 45 seconds. He made no noise, no heavy breathing. He was extremely drunk (and small-endowed... not that it matters). I got up and went to the bathroom. There is usually semen on the toilet paper after I wipe. There was none. I can usually smell semen after sex, and I smelled nothing. I went back to my room and he apologized for being so fast. Is it possible that he came, or that he didn't come and he was embarassed for faking it (and for also taking advantage of me since I was passed out).??? Please help.

2006-11-21 07:31:11 · 22 answers · asked by Loose Cannon 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together since teenagers. I love him so much and don't want a divorce. However, he has entered a Ph.D. program and now thinks he doesn't need me and his two children. Get this, his degree is in helping children with Autism but our son is autistic and already handling this separation badly (having fits, hitting, screaming, etc). I know my husband is being a real jerk and loser, but he was once a nice church going man. We gave up everything for him to come here and do this. How do you stop hurting and more importantly, how do you stop loving someone with which you've spent 15 years?

2006-11-21 07:31:03 · 14 answers · asked by StormyC 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother has always been irresponsible, bi polar and an alchoholic recenltly a drug addict. She has always neglected her 4 kids, I am the oldest so i was the mother. She has done terrible beyond belief things to us and is now paying the price years later. She is on prison.( 5 years in) I was releived when this happened because she still had custody of my two little sisters, I had already moved away.

she keeps writing me, but I want nothing to do with her. She knows I have kids now and I never want them around this woman.
My husband aggrees. Am I being too harsh, has anyone gone through this too? I never write back but she keeps trying, She gets out next year and im scared she will show up at my door.

any advice out there?

Mother from Texas in need

2006-11-21 07:30:48 · 13 answers · asked by crystald 4 in Family

I think they're one of the best gifts to man ever.

2006-11-21 07:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the regulations?

2006-11-21 07:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Josephine 1 in Friends