I have a friend who just met another woman and who really doesn't seem to like or want to hang out with me or our mutual friends. My friend is spending all her time with her and not her before this girl friends. When I call her to hang out with her, she's like I already have plans with this other girl. We used to hang out all the time and now it's like I am being pushed to the curb. Our mutual friends seem to think the same way about her always being with this one woman! Why is she blowing us off to hang with her?They are both married and have kids, and their kids and hubbies get along well, but does that mean she gets the right to only hang out with the other woman? It's not fair, and I am getting to the point, I dont want to try and be friends with her anymore. What do you think I should do? Ive told her I was not feeling like we are friends, but nothing has changed! help!please!
We are all women and we all used to hang out every weekend till
this other woman has like taken over!
2006-11-21 07:38:47 · 4 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
obviously shes not "funny" idiot. If you really read what I wrote, you would know that. They are both married and their kids and husbands get along well.
2006-11-21 07:54:00 · update #1
hey it seems like you really care for your friendship more than she dose. let me ask you. are you marred with children? this believe it or not makes a lot of difference. because if your not this make her feel that she has more incoment with this new friend of hers. don't brake your mine trying to figer this out i know it hurts to be left out . but think shes like a child with a new toy, give her some time to see things over to value the friendship you both have stay away for a while to she come to her seances. if she looks for you than you have a friend if she do sent than you only had a fake friend. so let it be continue your life with out her. remember that only good friends stick around. that's way there hart to find.
2006-11-21 08:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by lizzetruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters do you have children and are you married? Cuz I know that sometimes females would rather hang out with other females who have kids and are married just because they can do things with thier children together. I dont know if this is the case but I am married with two kids and its just easier to hang out with someone whos husband gets along well with yours and who also has kids. I have never shut out my other friends though. She will come around let her know your point of view and if doesnt change anything then maybe you guys arent as good of friends as you thought, I know its wrong of her to be that way but obviously your the better friend.
2006-11-21 15:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by o3rockstarswife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her what's up. try to make plans before the other friend does. or you can make a new friend and start over, but if shes important talk things out and try being friends whith her other friend.
2006-11-21 15:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh...is she "funny" or something???
2006-11-21 15:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋