My boyfriend and I (both almost 30)have been in a relationship for 8 months, although we have known each other longer. Things are fantastic, we are in love, and I definitly feel lucky to have met someone I feel is such a great partner. We have a lot of fun together and he is kind, compassionate, and wants the same things I do in life. Recently I have noticed him making comments or alluding to things that lead me to think he may be ready to pop the q. On the train one day he asked me about wedidng rings...which fingers they go on etc. Another time he told me not to do anything more with my apt. He then said he wanted my input on everything with his place from now on. Another time he said after we talked about jewelry, that he would only wear one piece, (pointing to his ring finger) then for the holiday he mentioned he, "knew what he really wanted to do but thinks he should wait til my birthday to be sure, then winking, I am not sure if I am ready quite yet... " what do you think?
2006-11-21 07:33:57 · 12 answers · asked by brandy m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it wouldnt mean that you have to get married right away. i think it would be his way of making things feel more concrete! if he does ask you,( which i think he will) dont say no if you do want to one day, but tell him instead, yes, one day! good luck!
2006-11-21 07:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't appear to be very sneaky or evasive.
What that he has said does NOT lead you to think he is talking marriage.
Why don't you ask him? He's not exactly being discreet about dropping hints. So maybe he is waiting for some kind of reaction from you.
If this is the person you would marry, why not just ask him directly if he is planning on proposing sometime in the near future.
Al
2006-11-21 07:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by ssssss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want the proposal to be a complete surprise- Why not just ask him about your relationship and the prospect of marriage? Really, my Husband and I had the "Are we ready for marriage" talk and it has made our engagement/marriage wonderful.
2006-11-21 08:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Sofia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, sounds like he's thinking long-term, but be careful. Maybe he's trying to feel you out. Have you ever openly discussed marriage? It might be a good idea.
2006-11-21 07:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you guys are made for each other? Why wouldn't you?.. You have to think of it this way.. Is he someone you can live with or is he someone you can't live without?
2006-11-21 07:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea sounds like he is with all the hints he has been giving you. Good Luck with everything!
2006-11-21 07:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost certainly!!! Congratulations, he sounds awesome.
2006-11-21 07:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's going to POP!! Congrats!
2006-11-21 07:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup he's gonna pop the q soon so be ready=)
2006-11-21 07:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by hotsauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congradulations soontobe newly wed!
2006-11-21 07:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋