my friend is gay and we always tell each other about our boyfriends. he always says that my boyfriends are cute and that he would totally sleep with them (that makes me so mad). so he knew i like this guy and the guy spent the night at my friends house because he is friends with my friends cousin. he told me that he was going to try something with him and even though i told him not to he did. the guy didn't fall for it though because he isn't gay. my friend is the type who tries to turn straight guys gay and he thinks everyone wants him and all this other crap. i am at the point where i don't tell him about any guys that i talk to and i hide every thing from him. if i go out with a guy i say it's my cousin and he'll ask can he go and i'll say no and he'll ask why and i'll say because it's girl's nite out...and u know what he says, "i'm part of the girls" and we get in this big fight. i don't like hidin stuff but he is making me hide it. what should i do about him?
2006-11-21 07:39:50 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
doesnt sound much of a friend to me. I hate to see how he treats people he doesnt like....
Meaning,that you should confront him and tell him if he considers you as a friend than stop trying to go after the guys you like! And that if he doesnt than this friendship is going to end! Your not going to play games with him, and try to hide your feeling when you like someone from him, because why would you have to. He is suspose to be your friend who you can talk to about anything and he will listen to you and be there for you, instead hes doing the opposite. You need to tell him what is bothering you and tell him to stop or he will loose you as a friend.
2006-11-21 07:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him and tell him you feel bad about what he's doing. If he really is your friend, he won't be using you for finding guys to turn into gays and he will choose you instead of them.
2006-11-21 07:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by milena_cub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel otherwise your gonna exploded if you hold it in. if that doesnt help then maybe you should stop being friends with him. and question do you honestly want someone like that to be your friend cause it doesnt sound like a friend to me
2006-11-21 07:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥TinaThat...ME♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Get a new friend.
2006-11-21 07:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by THP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋