2006-11-21 07:33:14 · 20 answers · asked by INOTFRIEND 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends on how long the relationshp was long distance, how much I loved the other person, and how logistic the move would be.
You run huge risks by moving, one is being dumped and stranded in a new city. Move there only if you think you will also benifit from a different surrounding and if you COMPLEATLY and totally without a doubt love the other person...otherwise you might set yourself up for problems
Have I ever heard of it working, yea....is it easy? Depends on the sacrifices everyone is willing to make in order for it to work.
2006-11-21 07:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume by your question your having some relationship issues. If this is the case then moving may not be the best option for either of you. Relationships take work, if your relationship is not already on solid ground then moving will not change that. Your best option is to figure out what the problems are and work them out first. This could be both bad and good. You work out the issues your more committed and in love then ever then move. You work out the issues and you realize you don't belong together,don't' move. Either way you know where the relationship stands before you move. There would be nothing worse then taking that plunge and being stuck. Ask yourself would the relationship work if I didn't move? Why or Why not? In my opinion if you already have doubts then you need to seriously look at the big picture.
Good Luck..
2006-11-21 15:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by queenkeva_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how long of a relationship it has been, and how well it has worked before the question of moving came up. Are you even close to talking marraige? And if so...why has that not been decided before the person moved? If it has been a long distance relationship the entire time...say...an internet romance...or something along those lines...I would say no. Living with or near someone and being able to see them on a day to day basis is a whole different ball game than long distance. And could very likely not handle the pressure of what would in a sense be a new level of relationship with the added burden of a person who has moved thier whole lives to be with another person.
2006-11-21 15:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship, but I would ask myself these questions where is the relationship going? Is it a long term? what am I gaining and losing out of the move? Will it benefit me? Is he or she making a commitment to me.
2006-11-21 15:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by dejohn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. unless the relationship is already working i would not move. You can not fix a relationship that is having problems by moving closer to the problems. it may be time to walk away.
2006-11-21 15:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but then I have children and either have to abandon them or hardly see them.
If you're trying to figure out if YOU should move to make a relationship work, you have to evaluate what you are giving up (like I would NEVER give up my children, so it's not an option) in order to move and what you're getting by doing so.
2006-11-21 15:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by ladygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if i could really see myself wtih this person long term. moving is a big step. you leave behind friends and family and your job and everything your use too. it will be a big change. and it takes a while to get use to the new area. with no friends and everything will seem so different. think about this b4 you agree to it. but in the other hand if you think it will bring you two closer and thats all you really want then go for it. it will be just the two of you. and no one else.
2006-11-21 15:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by sexy-cecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart not your head, consider the facts, why would you move to make it work, if you have a problem in your relationship is it going to go away, or is there an underlining problem you have not faced be honest with yourself you will find the answer
2006-11-21 16:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by michele d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation. If you know the person you want to move closer to, it could work. But don't base uprooting your entire life for someone you've never even met, if that's what you mean.
2006-11-21 15:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on the situation... I mean I know that I would go to the ends of the earth to make mine work.. So I guess that would be a yes..
Just remember that there is never a wrong path... Just stick to what you believe...
2006-11-21 15:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by robertcochranejr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋