What are some things i should know first or questions to ask so not a lot of surprises?
2006-11-21 07:43:50 · 6 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who pays what. who does what housework. who launders his underwear. who cooks. who takes out the trash, how will the utilities be split. who deals with paying the bills. who does the food shopping. who pays for the food shopping. rules on having friends stay the night. who buys furniture and who keeps it? can one person not pay rent and buy a plasma TV instead? are both names going on the rental agreement. what if someone can't cover their own bills. can either have parties with all their friends and ask the other to leave. will you have joint accounts? whose name goes on the utility bills. how do you resolve financial conflicts. if he uses your shampoo does he replace it. are purchases for the house paid jointly. what if one wants a new sofa and the other doesn't. who will move out if it doesn't work. will you go to church on Sunday. should he pay more rent because he doesn't need to buy makeup and things. will either have access to the other's ATM card, email, or cell. can he dig through your purse if it's sitting there. do each believe in paying bills on time. do you allow porn in the house. what happens if you get pregnant.
You're better off waiting another 6-10 months and getting married.
2006-11-21 07:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should slowly move in. Stay the night for like a week at a time and only go home to get your clothes. Leave a toothbrush in the bathroom and other things to mark your territory. Make sure that HE enjoys you living there...you know how i mean. Once he brings it up, flirt a little and hint, if he says something jokingly about you moving in, act as if it had never crossed your mind. Then while he's still thinking about it, jump him and make him think, hey if she lived here then we could have sex every night!
2006-11-21 15:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship ends who has to move out! This is really important because you don't want to be stuck without a place to stay. I know it seems like a downer to ask, but people who don't discuss it always end up in an awkward situation.
2006-11-21 15:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all thats a sin but i think it would b harder to keep a relationship living together when yall r not married
2006-11-21 15:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his little habits that you don't really see unless you live together can be a big surprise.i found that out recently when i moved in with my bf.i found out that he is a little whacko but i still love him and live with these things.
2006-11-21 15:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by huckypeep2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you get in a fight tear up his bed and throw him out and put his bed on the door so he cant get back in
2006-11-21 15:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋