i liked my best friend (dan) for 4 years. but i haven't liked him for 6 months. now im going out w/ a different one of my guy friends (we've been together for 2 months), who liked me for 3 years. i rele like my bf. all of my other guys friends have started the whole "u luv dan" thing all over again.
i've talked to my bf about how i dont- and he says he believes me. but i thought that everyone had figured out that i didn't like my best friend a long time ago- but here it is again.
mostly i just dont want to lose my bf b/c my friends r being stupid.
any advice on wat to do?
o yea, my best friend and i r "fun" people, like we r flirty and stuff w/ each other all the time. but we both no it doesn't mean anything- its just the way our friendship is
and we never did anything, we just talk like we have (but never like we did anything w/ the other person when the other person had a gf/bf)
2006-11-21 07:43:30 · 6 answers · asked by neverland22 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like dono
2006-11-21 07:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them. They'll get the point when you don't respond. If they bring it up, look at them and change the topic to your boyfriend. Unless they are stupid, they'll stop. Here is an example:
UR Friend: Yeah, u no u luv him! U no u wanna be with him!
You: Did you know that my boyfriend called me last night and we talked for THREE HOURS!?
Ur Friend: No, but I was saying...
You: Yeah, I just love talking to him
Pretty soon your friends will be saying, "Yeah, all she talks about is her bf. It's annoying."
They complain, your bf is flattered. Problem solved.
2006-11-21 15:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by TrixyLoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone or anything stop your friendship I think it is great. I met a guy who also has a best friend girl not only is it allowed it is absolutely non negotiable, I am glad he stuck up for his friend.
2006-11-21 16:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by susan r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
situations change, what we want or what we are looking for are not necessarily the same, you know in your own heart what you want and need so don't settle for anything less be true to yourself and if it is true love it will never die because love is powerful and unconditional
2006-11-21 15:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by michele d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you need to tell your friends that you love your boy/f and that you don't feel anything for dan anymore.
2006-11-21 15:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to stop n tht u n ur bf r toghether n happy, tell them to deal with it
2006-11-21 15:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋