OK, I'm a femal virgin, I've had a boyfriend who I didn't do anything with. I keep having sexual fantasies but when and how should I lose it? For fun or love?
2006-11-21 08:12:45 · 49 answers · asked by Cass 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, most people are going to tell you to wait until you get married. But that is so unrealistic these days, even though you should wait. You should give yourself to someone you truly love and that someone should love you back. Believe me, you will know when it is love and when the time is right. Don't lose it for fun. You will end up regretting it. And you may have a lot more partners if you do it that way too. That will end up hurting who ever you get into a serious relationship with or marry in the future. just take your time and make sure it's real.
2006-11-21 08:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you shoudn't lose your virginity for fun, it should be when you think you are mature enough to handle the consequences that will go along with losing your virginity. sometimes it is better to wait if your boyfriend is rushing you then he is just trying to get in your pants then once he does that he is going to leave for another girl. he might get you pregnant and leave you or he could give you a std. so if are serious you both should go get tested together for hiv or any other stds to be safe and buy condoms and use them properly. but it is really up to you. dont let him rush you into anything that you dont want to do. you have little thing called p ussy power cause you are female. if a man is deseparate for some of what you got, use it to your adavantage. good luck
2006-11-21 08:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by hellsangel508 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! Wait for marriage! I lost mine for what I thought was love....to someone that I had dated for two years....and that I was engaged too! I made it all through high school and two years of college being a virgin. There are a lot of emotional ties to the perosn you lose your virginity. I'm only speaking from experience. I'm not judgemental when it comes to sex outside of marriage...that would make me a hypocrit, but I do understand the pain emotionally and physically. Wait until you find the person that you're going to spend the rest of your life with. Give them the most precious gift that you can....and wait until your wedding night.
2006-11-21 08:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by wilsonsarahmarie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice going! I think fantasies are great because you aren't committed to anyone in the dream and you can do whatever you choose in it. However you should wait until the perfect guy comes along that way it was worth something special. It'll also be much funner that way. If you are just doing because you want to try it out, you may find that you are shorting yourself of the ultimate experience. I waited and it was worth waiting a 100 years for.
2006-11-21 08:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing I can tell you is not to let any one else make this decision for you. There are few things that are more personal and you will remember it the entire rest of your life. No one can decide what the right time for you is. That being said, I would recommend rather strongly that substantial emotional intimacy exists between you and the man in question and that you have the emotional maturity to match. How much of either of those is enough is what you need to determine.
2006-11-21 08:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by DJL2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A woman should give up her virginity when she is young. Before she can even get pregnant. It is the only way she will ever get over the I'm better than that idea. She should be somewhat experienced when she meets that special someone. She should be able to please and be pleased. She should not be overwhelmed with the "first time" that is the worst time for mature choices.
2006-11-21 08:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should lose it when u r sure u r married to the guy and u lose your virginity for fun and love. but make sure it is the guy of yor dreams b4 u just put yourself out there and make sure u r gonna lose it for love and not just fun cuz that is wrong.
2006-11-21 08:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all once your mature enough both in age and intellectually. You sound too young and too naive to even consider having sex. Sex is something you do out of love & attraction towards another person and the emotional baggage it carries can be either positive of negative depending upon one's "readiness" to handle it. I really hope you think long and hard before you do something you could forever regret!
2006-11-21 08:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel like you HAVE to lose it. Only when you are ready. Since you are still a virgin, I would say wait until you are married.
2006-11-21 08:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't give up your virginity for fun. Do it for "real" love. It is yours to keep until you are really ready to give it up and with no pressure. Trust me when you are older and married to a wonderful you will happy you did.
2006-11-21 08:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋