2006-11-21 07:59:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is a very tough situation. Have you tried discussing it with her? Why are you not attracted to her any longer? Did she gain weight?
2006-11-21 08:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why aren't you attracted to your wife? Maybe there's not enough information included in your question--but I find it odd that someone would not be attracted to their own wife. If it's a matter of public opinion, you should think for yourself. Does someone else have to make a move on your wife before you're willing to show interest? I wonder if you were ever attracted to her--did you just marry her for her money, to have kids, or what. You choose your own fate....so maybe you wanted to be in this situation. It's not fair for your wife though for you to pretend--let her know she see can examine her own options. No one wants to be with someone that is not attracted to them. She must have the ability to make you feel like a million bucks based on your arrogance. Love her but aren't attracted to her--what's that about man?
2006-11-21 16:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you still love your wife you need to set down with her and talk to her about your feeling and discuse why you are not attracted to her anymore and maybe work on it if you still wanna be with her.... If not and you want to move on just tell her but remember either way she will be hurt but in the long run if you to stay together she may be thankful for your honestly..
2006-11-21 16:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about what attracted you to her in the first place. There had to be some sort of attraction there or you wouldn't have married her. There's something that's making you feel that way or there's something that she's doing.
2006-11-21 16:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nessy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you once were attracted to her, why don't you ask her to do things to make her look better, maybe go to the gym, and work out, then go to a spa and get her hair done and nails done and makeup done. If you love her, don't give up, maybe you should ask her to join a gym together and then buy her a gift certificate to a spa?
2006-11-21 16:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry her? For looks? Not for emotions? Or her being your best friend? What about the things that you share in common? Can she lose some weight? Can you two maybe work out together? Change her hair style? Give her a makeover!
2006-11-21 16:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by troll_house_kookies 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
must be someone else who has caught your eye. your poor wife, how awful for her. how shallow you are. looks aren't everything in life, u need to get a divorce before u decide to start cheating on her.
2006-11-21 21:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people choose to marry even though they are not physically attracted.don't forget her qualities and don't have an affair just fantasize i guess.
2006-11-21 16:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you love her like a sister? ew. but you sleep in the same bed with her?? that's just gross. get a divorce. let her find someone who wants to rock her world.
2006-11-21 16:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-21 16:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋