OK first thing is first I was living with my father for about 3 months after completeing the Job Corps program. My father has basicually mental and physically abused me my entire life. One day I was fixing some chicken and french fries and the grease make a little popping noise and it woke my father up he than got mad and threw a coffee cup at me striking me in the head which caused a cut that had to be closed up by staples. I went down to the police station right after it happened and told them and of course they put him in jail. Anyways I was going to College at the time which I am still going and I now am homeless living in my car. I went to my grandmas which is my dads mother which she lives in Owensboro, Ky and asked her and see if I could stay with her for awhile until I got back on my feet and she basicually said no. She said that she was so set in her ways that she just could'nt and my Uncle and Aunt was sitting there to and they didnt help either I believe they are mad at me
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because I called the law on my dad which is my grandmas son, uncles borther and aunts brother, I have been living in my car off and on for about 3 months. Churches have been helping me out alittle which I am greatful for but they put me in a hotel for one night and something to eat for a night and of course I am greatful. Well than I started to go on a drinking benge and got a P.I. in Owensboro, Ky and thats a fine I have to pay and then about a week later I went to Evansville In, and was pissing out in the parking lot thought no one was watching and the cops roll up and take me to jail for public nudity and a P.I. stayed in jail for about 5 hours and they let me out. I know you are woundering how I got the money to drink and I got it from raking leaves. Then I went to the police station a couple days later to get a voucher to get a place to stay and to eat and gave them my ID they ran my name and it said I had a suspended licence in Indiana but I was in kentucky and my kentuckys is ok
2006-11-21 08:43:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
See my kentucky license is good but expired and a cop pulled me over not to long ago and took them because they where expired so I had a Indaina I.d still and that is what I use for I.D. purposes. And they gave me a ticket for a suspended license and there not suspended in Ky so now I have got to go to court on that to I am in alot of stuff but dont know how I am going to pay for all of these tickets. I have been looking for a job for about 3 months and have had some luck but was not enough to get the job please help what would you do in this situation and also I have no true friends to help me so that is out of the question to please help
2006-11-21 08:49:22 · update #1
Well, hell, I don't really know. Honey, if they are not going to help you, because you put your abusive father in jail for being mental and hurting you physically, not to mention emotionally for years, then they do not know what kind of person they are going to be missing out on. if you are still in school, and trying to make something of yourself, in spite of all the **** you've been through, I commend you. I would not be surprised if one day, you're on top of the world, and they come knocking on your door. Dude, there are places that are for day labor, that pay you at the end of the day. It should be enough for a motel room every day. Look into places like "Labor Ready"' "Labor Force", day labor places. Good Luck to you, bro.
2006-11-21 08:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Angela L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, maybe you could go to temp services at least to get a little cash each day to eat, maybe find a night job where you will be inside at high crime peaks and away from the cold. As long as you don't let this consume you, you will only become stronger and be able look back on this when you have children and remember why you will never put them through what you went through. You seem to have a strong sense of right and wrong considering, I am sorry that these things are happening to you and hope that the holiday seasons bring a bit of luck and love.
2006-11-21 17:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by jonni_richter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow though situation or what? u really just need to get back on ur feet? where do u work? i don't think u have a real job so first u should get one and make enough to at least live in a motel room for a while or rent a room anywhere....u desperately need help....i can't guarantee u will make friends at ur job but u could if u shaped ur self up and ur grandma is such a ________, why would she kick her own grandson out? tht's pathetic....but also, did u really have to call the police on ur father? he's mentally ill....but i dunno...whtever happened has happened....
2006-11-21 16:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is your mother, don't you have friends? contact me and we can discuss this in greater detail
2006-11-21 16:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by LatterDaySaint and loving it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋